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I left secondary school 3 years ago but couldn't further because of money. I'm from a poor family and as the first child, I had to get a job so as to myself and my siblings. I got a job at a beach in Lagos.
I was coming back from work one day when a car drove by and stopped. He wind down and asked me how I am. I recognized him. He's one of our customers and he's comes to the beach regularly. He told me he has been seeing me at the beach. He asked some questions about my background and education and I told him I couldn't further after my WAEC due to lack of finance.
He asked me to enter his car and he drove to a boutique. Bought me some clothes, shoes and bag. I was wondering why he did that. Though my work bag was worn out. Including my shoes. He noticed I used a rubber band on my phone and he asked me the cost of a new phone. I told him 120,000. He gave me 130,000. Asked me to buy a new phone and keep the change.
He drove me back to where he picked me. He said I should let him know when it's time for jamb and he will pay for the registration and if I get itted into the university he's going to put me on scholarship. I was dumbfounded and tears came out of my eyes. He gave me his number to give my parents in case they ask questions, and he drove off.
My dad called him. I wasn't around when my dad called but my dad said the man asked him what he does for a living and also told him to always reach out when he needs financial assistance.
I was confused, is this love at first sight? It's been 2 months and I'd deliberately wait on the road for him. I've met him 4times since then. But he has not said anything. I will greet him and he will just wind down and answer with a smile and drive off.
He has not defined our relationship. I don't know if he's shy to say something. Though I have a boyfriend but I'm ready to end things with my boyfriend if he indicates interest. I thought of calling him to shoot my shot because I could no longer concentrate.
I stopped wanting him and created boundaries after I came across his instagram profile and I realized that he's happily married with a beautiful wife and daughter. His family, friends and everyone around him must be so lucky to have him in their lives.
He reshaped my mind and made me realize that not all men are after your body. Some just want to help you grow without expecting anything in return and I'm not going to jeopardize this opportunity. I pray God keeps and blesses him.

This sounds like another fiction put up for traffic. But let's assume it is a true-life story.

Many possibilities.
It is in a situation like this that the Bible, for Christians, says we should not judge. Don't judge what you are not sure of. Don't reach a conclusion on what you have not confirmed. Now let me list the possibilities.

1️⃣
He might have sexual interest in you and is taking his time to study you well before voicing it out. But as long as he has not expressed sexual interest in you, let nobody fool you into believing that he is after your body. Never treat assumptions as facts.

2️⃣
He may not have sexual interest in you. It may be that he sincerely wants to help you for whatever reason. It could be that he suffered and someone picked him up and established him in the same manner. It could be that his family suffered and someone established them by picking his mother or sister up in that manner.

3️⃣
It could be that he was never in your shoes but he is empathetic and God has decided to use him to change your life for good.

4️⃣
It could be that his instinct tells him good things about you and he is possibly trying to nurture you to marry someone close to him.

Now, let me talk about you.
You said you are ready to dump your boyfriend if this man expresses sexual interest in you. This clearly shows that you are one of those misguided ladies who see dating as a poverty alleviation program. The worst part is that if this your boyfriend dumps you first for another lady, you will claim that you truly loved him, and that you planned to spend the rest of your life with him. Hypocrites!

Fakes, bloggers at it again

immortalcrown:
This sounds like another fiction put up for traffic. But let's assume it is a true-life story.

Many possibilities.
It is in a situation like this that the Bible, for Christians, says we should not judge. Don't judge what you are not sure of. Don't reach a conclusion on what you have not confirmed. Now let me list the possibilities.

1️⃣
He might have sexual interest in you and is taking his time to study you well before voicing it out. But as long as he has not expressed sexual interest in you, let nobody fool you into believing that he is after your body. Never treat assumptions as facts.

2️⃣
He may not have sexual interest in you. It may be that he sincerely wants to help you for whatever reason. It could be that he suffered and someone picked him up and established him in the same manner. It could be that his family suffered and someone established them by picking his mother or sister up in that manner.

3️⃣
It could be that he was never in your shoes but he is empathetic and God has decided to use him to change your life for good.

4️⃣
It could be that his instinct tells him good things about you and he is possibly trying to nurture you to marry someone close to him.

Now, let me talk about you.
You said you are ready to dump your boyfriend if this man expresses sexual interest in you. This clearly shows that you are one of those misguided ladies who see dating as a poverty alleviation program. The worst part is that if this your boyfriend dumps you first for another lady, you will claim that you truly loved him, and that you planned to spend the rest of your life with him. Hypocrites!

Lots of positives to take from your contribution
I must say I'm impress and I hope many will take from this comment especially our women who society has cloned their mindset completely

G

Cock n bull story

IBenardoo:
I left secondary school 3 years ago but couldn't further because of money. I'm from a poor family and as the first child, I had to get a job so as to myself and my siblings. I got a job at a beach in Lagos.
I was coming back from work one day when a car drove by and stopped. He wind down and asked me how I am. I recognized him. He's one of our customers and he's comes to the beach regularly. He told me he has been seeing me at the beach. He asked some questions about my background and education and I told him I couldn't further after my WAEC due to lack of finance.
He asked me to enter his car and he drove to a boutique. Bought me some clothes, shoes and bag. I was wondering why he did that. Though my work bag was worn out. Including my shoes. He noticed I used a rubber band on my phone and he asked me the cost of a new phone. I told him 120,000. He gave me 130,000. Asked me to buy a new phone and keep the change.
He drove me back to where he picked me. He said I should let him know when it's time for jamb and he will pay for the registration and if I get itted into the university he's going to put me on scholarship. I was dumbfounded and tears came out of my eyes. He gave me his number to give my parents in case they ask questions, and he drove off.
My dad called him. I wasn't around when my dad called but my dad said the man asked him what he does for a living and also told him to always reach out when he needs financial assistance.
I was confused, is this love at first sight? It's been 2 months and I'd deliberately wait on the road for him. I've met him 4times since then. But he has not said anything. I will greet him and he will just wind down and answer with a smile and drive off.
He has not defined our relationship. I don't know if he's shy to say something. Though I have a boyfriend but I'm ready to end things with my boyfriend if he indicates interest. I thought of calling him to shoot my shot because I could no longer concentrate.
I stopped wanting him and created boundaries after I came across his instagram profile and I realized that he's happily married with a beautiful wife and daughter. His family, friends and everyone around him must be so lucky to have him in their lives.
He reshaped my mind and made me realize that not all men are after your body. Some just want to help you grow without expecting anything in return and I'm not going to jeopardize this opportunity. I pray God keeps and blesses him.

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Pls don’t allow your fantasies to send the man away from you

He has not defined our relationship. I don't know if he's shy to say something. Though I have a boyfriend but I'm ready to end things with my boyfriend if he indicates interest. I thought of calling him to shoot my shot because I could no longer concentrate





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Someone helped you but you now want to dig gold, bumans

Why not see the man as your helper rather than shooting your shot to him... he is happily married... He might not have the intention of dating you .

immortalcrown:
This sounds like another fiction put up for traffic. But let's assume it is a true-life story.

Many possibilities.
It is in a situation like this that the Bible, for Christians, says we should not judge. Don't judge what you are not sure of. Don't reach a conclusion on what you have not confirmed. Now let me list the possibilities.

1️⃣
He might have sexual interest in you and is taking his time to study you well before voicing it out. But as long as he has not expressed sexual interest in you, let nobody fool you into believing that he is after your body. Never treat assumptions as facts.

2️⃣
He may not have sexual interest in you. It may be that he sincerely wants to help you for whatever reason. It could be that he suffered and someone picked him up and established him in the same manner. It could be that his family suffered and someone established them by picking his mother or sister up in that manner.

3️⃣
It could be that he was never in your shoes but he is empathetic and God has decided to use him to change your life for good.

4️⃣
It could be that his instinct tells him good things about you and he is possibly trying to nurture you to marry someone close to him.

Now, let me talk about you.
You said you are ready to dump your boyfriend if this man expresses sexual interest in you. This clearly shows that you are one of those misguided ladies who see dating as a poverty alleviation program. The worst part is that if this your boyfriend dumps you first for another lady, you will claim that you truly loved him, and that you planned to spend the rest of your life with him. Hypocrites!

Bro lemme send you data ?
.You got wisdom... Blessings follow you.

Oh God someone is interested in building your future and all you need think of its about getting down with him... I shake my head 🙆‍♀️

NollyWood online

xtianchris:
Bro lemme send you data ?
.You got wisdom... Blessings follow you.

Amen. I wish you the good things you wish me.

IBenardoo:
I left secondary school 3 years ago but couldn't further because of money. I'm from a poor family and as the first child, I had to get a job so as to myself and my siblings. I got a job at a beach in Lagos.
I was coming back from work one day when a car drove by and stopped. He wind down and asked me how I am. I recognized him. He's one of our customers and he's comes to the beach regularly. He told me he has been seeing me at the beach. He asked some questions about my background and education and I told him I couldn't further after my WAEC due to lack of finance.
He asked me to enter his car and he drove to a boutique. Bought me some clothes, shoes and bag. I was wondering why he did that. Though my work bag was worn out. Including my shoes. He noticed I used a rubber band on my phone and he asked me the cost of a new phone. I told him 120,000. He gave me 130,000. Asked me to buy a new phone and keep the change.
He drove me back to where he picked me. He said I should let him know when it's time for jamb and he will pay for the registration and if I get itted into the university he's going to put me on scholarship. I was dumbfounded and tears came out of my eyes. He gave me his number to give my parents in case they ask questions, and he drove off.
My dad called him. I wasn't around when my dad called but my dad said the man asked him what he does for a living and also told him to always reach out when he needs financial assistance.
I was confused, is this love at first sight? It's been 2 months and I'd deliberately wait on the road for him. I've met him 4times since then. But he has not said anything. I will greet him and he will just wind down and answer with a smile and drive off.
He has not defined our relationship. I don't know if he's shy to say something. Though I have a boyfriend but I'm ready to end things with my boyfriend if he indicates interest. I thought of calling him to shoot my shot because I could no longer concentrate.
I stopped wanting him and created boundaries after I came across his instagram profile and I realized that he's happily married with a beautiful wife and daughter. His family, friends and everyone around him must be so lucky to have him in their lives.
He reshaped my mind and made me realize that not all men are after your body. Some just want to help you grow without expecting anything in return and I'm not going to jeopardize this opportunity. I pray God keeps and blesses him.

We are many, and we are always married, just be a good girl, that's all

He wants nothing.
Also know this he is not interested that's why he stays away from you

Mind you, you are.not.the only he is helping.
Now take note young lady, if you try forcing or throwing your self at him he will simply fade out of your reach and your eyes will clear.

I don't know why many of you ladies just jump to hasty conclusion. Must some body sleep with u ... Haba. They help u, u complain
Them no help u, u go still lament

If they request for any thing in exchange for money u go lament say all men are scum.

To give u mind reset slap just dey hungry me.
What a disoriented approach to life

If u like your self just run, to the nearest school and secure ission. At least enjoy your answered prayer now b4 sin go begin hungry u like gala.

Na for Nigeria pastor go dey shout receive destiny helpers una go shout amen. Yet when God brings destiny helper your little sense go come frustrate the mighty work God want start for your life.


Nonsense and ingredients

Our environment has been so corrupted that no one gives help without strings or rope attached

And relationships has been so engineered to seem like a transaction, money in exchange for access to the cookie

It's a sad but painful reality

He noticed I used a rubber band on my phone and he asked me the cost of a new phone. I told him 120,000.

Broke girls and foolishness. From rubber hand phone to 120K phone.

The problem with ladies is... He must be after something...when I do something good for u ,it's not ur glamour or aura that made it be done to u or lack of it that made it not done, the inability to understand this perspective makes one not different from a child who believes the world rotates because of him. Paranoia of his reasons is understandable, but the first line of thought should have been because he is good at being a man who has power and doesn't hoard it , not because u assume he is after relationship. He is kind period. And coincidence is Gods way of staying anonymous.

Hmmm.... This is to good to be true abi Na Nollywood film? I sha like the story.

Wow nice movie

There are some good men out there but I think you should be prayerful because you can't say no to any of his request now

When will men get this kind of opportunity. Not that I believe what's up there, though.

I only read of such men from books and watch them in Nollywood movies.

Abeg where can I see this kind of a man?

He is what the Bible calls Destiny Helper

Hope your boyfriend knows he is gone already?