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Married men's greatest r£gr£t about marriage: you could learn from this too. Separation is better than divorce, I love that.

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Love is never enough.


Never be with a woman because you love her. Love is temporary.

Zonefree:
Love is never enough.


Never be with a woman because you love her. Love is temporary.

Exactly bro

Zonefree:
Love is never enough.


Never be with a woman because you love her. Love is temporary.

Seconded!

Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

Samantha125:
Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

These are public knowledge, not specifically invented by SA men. By the way those men are Simps, real men don't say sorry or care for their wife.


Damn someone hit me for head just now...

Yes oh I pray my daughter marry a man like me, but maybe a financially richer version of me

Public knowledge from SA men, the most disliked men on nairaland... I never thought I'd see this day whereby Naija men are applauding SA men...

Whatever is it that Tinubu has given you guys, he should continue and not stop...🤣🤣🤣

NairaLikes:

These are public knowledge, not specifically invented by SA men. By the way those men are Simps, real men don't say sorry or care for their wife.


Damn someone hit me for head just now...

Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

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Now I know why Igbo and Yoruba men easily takeover their wives in Sad Africa, Nigerians just tell their women how beautiful they are with their rounded nyansh, take care of their physical and emotional needs and this SIMPle men will be there issuing yeye motivational talks like these ones and when their wives elope with Nigerian men they will turn to xenophobia.

Even their Presidents daughters dey rush Nigerian men because we don't talk about love, we show love to women and ask for only thing in return in marriage and relationship which is "RESPECT"

Ok

lol

I'm not married yet and I won't ever marry.

I have no regret at all.

If u can set up a boundary and also put ur financial life in order,then u have resolve 90% of ur marital troubles.

You are absolutely right! A lot of married men end up with regrets because they didn’t fully understand what they were getting into. Sometimes, separation is a wiser and more peaceful option than going through a full divorce. I really like that perspective, it makes a lot of sense. There’s definitely a lesson there for all of us to learn before making big commitments

Nonsense, none of them is making any sense, women have one character “selfishness is in their dna

Never marry a lady that is not brilliant or not working..

Women are naturally selfish ( unsatisfiable), your best can't upturn that. However show her limitless love

Noted.

Lol

Peakdesign23:
Married men's greatest r£gr£t about marriage: you could learn from this too. Separation is better than divorce, I love that.

Great points

Marry responsibly. Choose who choose you and be Intentional about loving such regardless of any situation (aside cheating).

Do not marry solely because of
1. Money
2. Beauty
3. Shapes
4. Out of pity.


Sadly, people nowadays marry for the wrong reasons.


I believe in "together forever". It's achievable.

Successsearch90:
Great points

What is separation? What is divorce

Greatest regret about marriage is not realizing there's no such thing as forever......She can love you today and detest you tomorrow, you might adore her today but life takes her away from you tomorrow.........It's not about your money, your looks or your personality......Marriage is a arrangement that gets more complicated with time.......You'll either live long enough to see the challenges(divorce, financial trouble, external family) or die while still figuring it out.........Either way, you came, you saw & you conquered

Why will this make front page kwanu?

NokiaN8:

What is separation? What is divorce

Divorce isn't worth it. Better to marry right

Peakdesign23:
Married men's greatest r£gr£t about marriage: you could learn from this too. Separation is better than divorce, I love that.

Living close to home and inlaws after marriage. Extended family sometimes na wahala

Sad Africa men are SIMPle men

Yawn!!