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ravensckar:
If my wife is secretly crushing on another man, that one na her problem. My own be sey make she just dey give me the OPUEH whenever I need it.

If she's cooking for me regularly and giving me the OPUEH whenever I need it. I care less with whatever she does with her feelings.

Who Naija woman love don help self? If them love you self na problem.

#Picks_tooth

So, you don't care if your wife is thinking of another man while you're having sex with her?
How disgusting!

Totally wrong

This generation of women no get secret... actually what the OP said is true but ladies will never it it.
Usually it's the guy they like, but didn't act fast enough by asking them out, or an ex or even their friend (bestie) that they've grown very fond of over the years.

Babatunjo:
Women have a very dark side, when it comes to who they are attracted to, that most men are not aware of.

A lot of people don't know this.
You would be shocked most women are very much attracted to little boys

otipoju:
Women no dey love. Them be calculator.

Everyone is being used to meet a need

Flesh and blood nor reveal this thing to you! 👏👏

Men of this generation don hear'am.
Insecure much!

Manculated:


Be like every man eye don clear DSTV now due to the Shege wey those people don use their eyes see

shege is necessary sometimes.it resets brain.

Manculated:


I have said it and i will say it again.

If no lady chooses me, I am not getting married. And the attraction and choosing has to be genuine. I have my ways of knowing.

90% of men are the ones who chased and choosed their spouse after sessions and series of beggings before they accepted men proposal. Not me though, It won't happen.

Later one wonders who among the partners is always bringing up threat of divorce lol

you are on point. Be the chosen one and you will enjoy her.also,get her to sponsor or cosponsor the marriage and you are fully insured.

Mariangeles:


So, you don't care if your wife is thinking of another man while you're having sex with her?
How disgusting!

Sister, do not take everything we post here seriously. Some of them na cruise o!

It's only family meetings, business meetings or church meetings that should be taken seriously.

Naya25:
Dem say every married woman gets one guy wey she like her husband

Ngbo, naija ladies is this true...

Even more than one

Lanre1st:


Don't mix things up! Share love is different from sharing toto. If God say love your neighbours does not mean say all your neighbours can access your toto at requests.

That kindly of sharing is only for animals

Don't mind that guy. He's just looking to justify jumping from one vag*na to another.

Chief2410:
you are on point. Be the chosen one and you will enjoy her.also,get her to sponsor or cosponsor the marriage and you are fully insured.

Thanks Comrade.

Exactly, I feel so much for the GenZ Ladies, They are unlucky. I have them around me, No Boyfriend, No Calls, Nothing..

Their Mothers aren't helping situation. I know some of them, their Mothers are still singing the "Bring Home A High Value Man" lol. These are Ladies in their late 20's. We still have the ones in their 30's piled up.

In Nigeria currently, Lot of men in their early and late 30's aren't even thinking of marriage due to the diaplated economy. Some do not even have girlfriends to tell you how serious is the situation.

koxi:
She’s probably speaking from her own personal experience…

The thing is when one is involved in a thing and probably in the person's circle as well( birds of the same feather) , they tend to think every other person is doing same. Shame

That's not true.
Some women do end up in such a situation especially those that just want financial stability.
Some might not love their husband at first but grow attached and deeply in love with him.
Some love a guy because of the fun but doesn't want to marry that guy.
Some ladies can even love a guy they have never met physically.

It just depends on the lady.

Successsearch90:
Is this true?

I want to know as well and how can one manage such situation pls?

Very simple. It is for the man to look for another woman that he will also love more than the wife. Is the problem not solved? Can you force someone to love you? No.

On the flipside, I have had so many married women professing love for me, even telling me how unhappy they are in their marriage, and how they wish it was someone like me that they married. They want affairs. But I keep telling them that if I was married to them, the would be feeling the same way about me too.

The truth is after some efforts to make me date them fail, you see them forming vex and tagging along with their husbands. Married women pretend a lot, and many of them seek sexxxual pleasures outside in any opportunity they have.

Is all about meeting their expanding needs nowadays,not really love,unfortunarelu

Manculated:


Be like every man eye don clear DSTV now due to the Shege wey those people don use their eyes see

Some of know since. We just have to let others know about how women play men with emotional manipulation

Make nobody talk again, you done talk finish
Salute you

otipoju:
Women no dey love. Them be calculator.

Everyone is being used to meet a need

ChizzyBuna:
Monogamy is no from God.
God created us to love multiple people
No human being can love only one person for life. It is not possible

Open marriage is the highest form of enlightenment. It is divine. The ability to spread love to multiple people is why God said go and MULTIPLY.

Monogamy is a selfish construct of society
That is why it always backfires because monogamy is anti-nature. It is not divine

Love is meant to be spread around
Not to be selfishly controlled by one partner
The more humans understand this. The lesser divorce will be

And probably, that is why you have been jumping from one God to another, from one religion to another, from one religious house to another, from one from one woman to another, from one political party to another and from one house/family to another when there is no food in the formal. Then, define prostitution.
I tell you for sure, there are people who stand by their single stand/decision, come sun come rain, even in the decision o f marrying one wife. Have you heard that from the very beginning God made them just male and female? Matthew 19:4
[4]And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’. Not male and females.

Guyman02:

Na women them ask no be both genders

no fes.

ChizzyBuna:
Monogamy is no from God.
God created us to love multiple people
No human being can love only one person for life. It is not possible

Open marriage is the highest form of enlightenment. It is divine. The ability to spread love to multiple people is why God said go and MULTIPLY.

Monogamy is a selfish construct of society
That is why it always backfires because monogamy is anti-nature. It is not divine

Love is meant to be spread around
Not to be selfishly controlled by one partner
The more humans understand this. The lesser divorce will be

Get ready to face the negative reality of polygamy; don't blame anyone - when you see yourself going down daily under your roof with your four wives!

Naya25:
Dem say every married woman gets one guy wey she like her husband

Ngbo, naija ladies is this true...

We've been over this topic countless times. If women are inherently duplicitous, then I don't see why you men must desperately seek our validation constantly. How about avoiding us entirely, hmm?

Manculated:


Thanks Comrade.

Exactly, I feel so much for the GenZ Ladies, They are unlucky. I have them around me, No Boyfriend, No Calls, Nothing..

Their Mothers aren't helping situation. I know some of them, their Mothers are still singing the "Bring Home A High Value Man" lol. These are Ladies in their late 20's. We still have the ones in their 30's piled up.

In Nigeria currently, Lot of men in their early and late 30's aren't even thinking of marriage due to the diaplated economy. Some do not even have girlfriends to tell you how serious is the situation.

Their mothers are indeed not helping matters.they are still living in wonderland.some are even bragging to their daughters how they had many suitors during their time forgetting that Nigeria of twenty years ago is not Nigeria of today.the earlier the gals start having lower expectations towards their men,the better for them.

immortalcrown:
Why are those pictures attached? Do those two ladies love other men more than they love their husbands?

As for the question, most wives didn't marry whom they love, they married men that were ready.

I would have answered yes to the question but there are exceptions in everything. The poster should have said, "Most married women", instead of saying, "Every married woman".

Simply answered not true. The grammar too much.

DrRasheed:
Yes it's true. it eventually dies with time

So,most women keep such ' In Case Of Needs '
toh!

I was watching a progarm called Family Fued....then there came a question which was "EVERY MARRIED WOMEN HAS A SECRET...." The number 1 top answer to that question was a LOVER.....

So,every women in every marraige has a secret lover...now the question is, does she love the secret lover more than her husband or vise versa?....I think the answer is only meant for the said lady to answer

[quote author=Naya25 post=135612216]Dem say every married woman gets one guy wey she like her husband

Ngbo, naija ladies is this true...[/quot



Every married woman marry men that's is ready

Ask all married men how many women they love more than their wife. Dey dere dey play.

Cheeryfeet:

The thing is when one is involved in a thing and probably in the person's circle as well( birds of the same feather) , they tend to think every other person is doing same. Shame

True talk!

ravensckar:
If my wife is secretly crushing on another man, that one na her problem. My own be sey make she just dey give me the OPUEH whenever I need it.

If she's cooking for me regularly and giving me the OPUEH whenever I need it. I care less with whatever she does with her feelings.

Who Naija woman love don help self? If them love you self na problem.

#Picks_tooth

i like this ur comment ngl

Manculated:


I have said it and i will say it again.

If no lady chooses me, I am not getting married. And the attraction and choosing has to be genuine. I have my ways of knowing.

90% of men are the ones who chased and choosed their spouse after sessions and series of beggings before they accepted men proposal. Not me though, It won't happen.

Later one wonders who among the partners is always bringing up threat of divorce lol

I dey feel this ur comment ngl