NewStats: 3,263,944 , 8,181,994 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:48 PM 696y3f

JustcallmeFavou:


In some cases as a lady, you can buy the
garri, the groundnut, sugar, coconut, milk, cold water, and add fish ontop. Yet, an ungrateful man will still leave you when he becomes better. This goes both ways too!

Yen yen yen
In which cases... How many ladies have even done that

JayEdm:

Som of us did all that,bought the garri,gave money,motivated , encouraged...basically everything. Guess what I got afterwards...." After all,I never forced you to help me"....just pray not to meet an ingrate who's also entitled.

Yea

Ofekongsk:
Mehn even if she helped you get on your feet, leave her so that she can go help another brother.

Seems you a fan of Future

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Brother, I see you man. You know what's up.
Respect

Dpsychologist:

Seems you a fan of Future

Dpsychologist:

Yen yen yen
In which cases... How many ladies have even done that

And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather , than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

Mariangeles:


What was she gaining when the guy didn't have much to offer in the first place? Waste of time?



Thankfully, sensible ladies don't do that.
They just patiently wait for y'all to blow, then come for them, while they build themselves in the meantime.
And come for them, you all will eventually.
You have no choice.

Kudos to the ones that are holding fort though.

I hope U know there's a whole lot to gain from someone asides material things...

Speaking of those waiting for guys to blow lol.. I even prefer not to be indebted to anyone woman cos Una wahala na . You will never rest from the "I made U who U are" just because she managed to come through a few times forgetting all U have done for her too. But then if she's worth it like she doesn't remind me at the slightest or tries to take advantage of my lowly situation at the time, any man will move mountains for that woman who really sacrificed for him and believed in him when no one did.

That's such a hurtful experience. Sorry for the heartbreak. You've definitely learnt your lessons and wouldn't allow any other man to take you for granted

JayEdm:
I did all the above...was loyal,gave money,advice, everything I had. Would even share money people dashed me with him. I was so open. Helped him apply for jobs,talked to pple on his behalf,prayed for him etc...what did I get after he started seeing small cash (which is still as a result of my effort o). He said and I quote " I never forced you to help me". This life ,never help an ingrate who is also e titled.

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

She sacrificed nothing jare. I don't understand why men like to put themselves at disadvantage...

Dpsychologist:

Yen yen yen
In which cases... How many ladies have even done that

Yen, yen, yen, unless you want to pretend that there are no such women.

Well, such good women still do exist, but are rare.

tunnyl:
What she meant was, “When so many peoples left you when you were drinking Garri i was there with you”

“When you were drinking Garri I could have gone to date other men and left you but i stayed, not to buy the Garri o but to watch you drink the garri and maybe drink out of it too.”

Women too get sense!

Or maybe she got no where else to go that's why she stayed?

Helpout12345:
That was how one was telling me she was with me when I was living in a self contained apartment. The way I washed her d0wn eh, she never tried that rubbish with me again.

This was a lady that was homeless, pulling up with friends, was working a 10k naira monthly salary job, dating a market errand boy when I met her.

Me on the other hand had finished all my suffering. I had been working with number 1 oil company in the world for 6 months earning more than a university professor then, have travelled 2 times to Europe, I bought my first car same month I met her. The so called self contained was a first class apartment.

Hope you didn't marry her ?? Or you are not dating her anylonger ??
Cos that girl na better manipulator o

Great question! When he was drinking garri, did she offered him pounded yam with turkey?
Staying with him is not enough, what did you offer?

Any lady that’s collecting the little you have in your struggling stage is a devil’s incarnate, she’s holding you back from your growth and success while still acting like she’s there for you. Now here’s the truth…

You’ll never understand this until you come out of it.

Mariangeles:


And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather , than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

Men are still the number one sponsors of women lifestyles, any day any time. Majority of you are still low income earners anywhere in the world!

dkidd:


I hope U know there's a whole lot to gain from someone asides material things...

Speaking of those waiting for guys to blow lol.. I even prefer not to be indebted to anyone woman cos Una wahala na . You will never rest from the "I made U who U are" just because she managed to come through a few times forgetting all U have done for her too. But then if she's worth it like she doesn't remind me at the slightest or tries to take advantage of my lowly situation at the time, any man will move mountains for that woman who really sacrificed for him and believed in him when no one did .

They don't understand that majority of the men don't forget.

Mariangeles:


What was she gaining when the guy didn't have much to offer in the first place? Waste of time?

Thankfully, sensible ladies don't do that.
They just patiently wait for y'all to blow, then come for them, while they build themselves in the meantime.
And come for them, you all will eventually.
You have no choice.

Kudos to the ones that are holding fort though.

I wonder why baby mamas and single mothers litters everywhere. May be women are now impregnating women

maasoap:


They don't understand that majority of the men don't forget.

Never

dkidd:

Never

My wife is an example. She has near absolutely free

Mistersolar:
wait ooo, you married for sex even if shes illetrate, dirty and insulting

No naw haba
Wetin bring dirty and illiterate here now?

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Below quote should be enough to cure your Simpson symptoms. No need to rain on you, you just need our to liberate. No need to lose another brother to Simpson disease.

HawkTuahGirl:
Most Nigeria women struggle with you because they don't have better options.

Mariangeles:


And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather , than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

You see their mentality. They cannot do zero of what they expect from a man.

You are asking if she is the man's mother?? But you expect men to carry all your liabilities in life. Is he your father too

And NO, IT IS MEN THAT ARE BECOMING WISER. Women have been s of men from time immemorial.

dkidd:

At all... If ur eyes are truly open U will see the real reason and motive behind her staying there. She was definitely gaining a lot but U probably didn't know what it was. Most women are s and will use U even when U are at Ur lowest and some of us men think they're being loyal staying when no one else was available lol baba check am well the real reason for her staying isn't to ur benefit but hers

Some of them could really smell potentials in men which they themselves are lacking. All what they need to do is to patiently wait for few years to see you transform. It is a prediction game

JustcallmeFavou:


Yen, yen, yen, unless you want to pretend that there are no such women.

Well, such good women still do exist, but are rare.

And you are not one of them.

maasoap:


Some of them could really smell potentials in men which they themselves are lacking. All what they need to do is to patiently wait for few years to see you transform. It is a prediction game

They have specialize in that expect.

FORWARDEVERLY:


Hope you didn't marry her ?? Or you are not dating her anylonger ??
Cos that girl na better manipulator o

It's one of the reasons I downgraded her a.ss. I have no time for such manipulation.

Mariangeles:


And why would you expect any lady to do that?
Is that her responsibility?
Is she your mummy?
Does she owe you that or anything for that?
It's the entitlement mentality for me.

Y'all better wake up and smell the coffee, because this manipulation will not work.
Ladies are becoming wiser and investing in themselves instead. They have families they'd rather , than strangers in the name of boyfriend. 🙄
No time to waste on nonsense!

But you expect a man to bring down the world for you.

You can't even handle what you dish out. Double standards

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsuTlts rain on me.

.pls list out all she sacrificed

😏😏😏

africandictator:
They gave you their Nigerian kpekus when you were broke. Hahahaha that's the garri they bought

.kpekus wey fit ruin ones life with their fishy scents

😂😂😂😂

geh geh syndrome

Helpout12345:


You see their mentality. They cannot do zero of what they expect from a man.

You are asking if she is the man's mother?? But you expect men to carry all your liabilities in life. Is he your father too

And NO, IT IS MEN THAT ARE BECOMING WISER. Women have been s of men from time immemorial.

Taa!

No sensible lady is expecting y'all to carry jack!
They've got brains to do that themselves, and they know their worth.
I mean, how much can you give? Are you kidding? 🙄
You think it's by shouting?
You think every lady is chingum lady?
You all bother about taking care of yourselves first.

Like I stated earlier, you all should blow first, then you can come for the high value lady.
Otherwise, boy bye!

Nobody dey follow una drink garri again.
Make everybody work out their own salvation.

Dpsychologist:


But you expect a man to bring down the world for you.

You can't even handle what you dish out. Double standards

Oh prrruh! 🙄

DixseenMktPlace:

You have a point ❤️
Personally I’m not comfortable with my woman bringing what we shall eat or drink to the table.

Na knacks I marry you for, if children come during the knacks it’s fine but no disappoint for the knacks wey I marry you for.

. Lol .. so knacks is the usefulness of our Nigerian gels .. nawa oo