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Red flag 🚩

Only abs seek independence from in-laws to continue their cruelty.

Signs of toxic marriage... Run o

Lowkey, I feel like this guy has understudy this girl and struck that lamba.
Now the girl is feeling funky, she'll be well chopped and knacked.

No real man ever sacrifice his family for a woman from another family.
This is not to underestimate or dare simps though. They can do worse for toto.

Is it automatic that once you block off the man's family, your marriage will be peaceful? No.

This man is suffering from adverse childhood upbringing so he needs therapy.

He must have had a toxic childhood and his coping mechanism is avoidance.

You can set healthy boundaries with your families even if they have access to you. You don't have to block them.

, you will have children and become in-laws later in life.

How would you like your children to blot you out of their lives as if you don't exist?

Akinpresident:


No real man ever sacrifice his family for a woman from another family.
This is not to underestimate or dare simps though. They can do worse for toto.

There are lots of guys like that o. Lol!

Have you forgotten Prince Harry of the UK?

This is what NL has been reduced to

njokuuche77:
This guy unlocked a level of wisdom most don’t reach until year 10 of marriage therapy.
Boundary king! Where can we subscribe to his TED Talk

Setting boundary and being bitter is a different thing.

Is either the guy didn't experienced parental love while growing up or he simply doesn't like his family.

Believe me, the wife will have a good share of his bitter life. Women are so naive, you feel someone who don't love his family or know the value of family will make a good family leader ?

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

1. He's either a simp or a deceiver
2. If he's a simp, he'll cry soonest after the lady who helped him isolate himself from his family also abandons him. See Harry and Meghan or Edward and Wallis Simpson
3. If he's a deceiver, the foolish lady who is happy that a man says he doesn't want to his family will cry soonest when he begins to isolate her from her family and friends as well

We are waiting

Zooposki:


The natural order of relationships/marriage is supposed to be one woman to several men, not one man to several women, so you are right that women are very territorial. That is why a woman can take several pricks in a day, but a man can not take several totos in a day, day in day out.

LMAO!

One of the greatest gibberish I've seen in Nairaland, for a long time.

Men are the gatekeepers of commitment/marriage

Women are the gatekeepers of sex


Since women can share toto to unlimited number of buyers, they should use the same toto to shoulder responsibilities that comes with commitment.

Every man has his own reason why he married his wife, but as for me, I like a woman who loves me, values, and respects my family as well.

Basicend:


There a lots of guys like that o.

Have you forgotten Prince Harry of the UK?

😂 😂 😂 😂

Exactly why I said I'm not underestimating simps

APOPTOSIS:
She's correct.
Women are naturally territorialiastic.
They feel threatened by the woman you love the most in your family (mother or sister).
The moment they come into your life, the first thing they do is to go for your favourite women in your family, b'cos such women can decide their fate in a matter of seconds.

Gradually, they start creating discord between you and them. Pitting one against the other.
Dey do this b'cos the want to truncate that love you have for them and position themselves as your favorite. They're naturally Jealous lovers.

They hate men who know this. And they hate stubborn men but also crave to have them because they are brave and would feel protected when around such men.

Only a woman would pack into your apartment today and start dishing out orders on whom to grant entry into your own house.

balanced! Comment from a married man

I visiting an aunt of mine who owns a store. A dude and his bae came , all loved up, dude; I would like to buy this biggest bread, it's just 2k, darling u need to start saving money why don't u buy the small one.. 2 mins later she said...I feel like eating groundnut , lets buy the 2500 own . the dude would have thought she cared about management of his finances. Sometimes setting boundaries for hubby's family is about resource control . An innate internal hypergamous nature to secure resources for coming offsprings , it stems from a scarcity mentality.when the sink of wasteful spending is blocked, then ud start to pay for consultancy fee... Buy ud gladly pay up after all... U are in love. Don't spend on this ... Don't spend on that... It cos there is a future plan for u, which necessarily wouldn't involve you.

You fall for your weaking point,you will alome bear the consequences later,by time you become abadon project

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

Chakam

Next thing you will hear, I married a devil, who don't like my family

Make we tell her? My guy is getting some action tonite, lucky smart baskat

Hisroyalbeat:
But when he bounce your family , no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda,

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

Hope you know that when he misbehave and maltreat you, you have no one to report him to

Ọmọ tó sọ ilé nù, ó so àpò ìyà kọ́... Shege loading for the guy. Hope her family too won't come around.

This type of attitude in a woman is definitely a red flag.... RUN🏃

This one na witch..

DOUBLEBARREL:
I visiting an aunt of mine who owns a store. A dude and his bae came , all loved up, dude; I would like to buy this biggest bread, it's just 2k, darling u need to start saving money why don't u buy the small one.. 2 mins later she said...I feel like eating groundnut , lets buy the 2500 own . the dude would have thought she cared about management of his finances. Sometimes setting boundaries for hubby's family is about resource control . An innate internal hypergamous nature to secure resources for coming offsprings , it stems from a scarcity mentality.when the sink of wasteful spending is blocked, then ud start to pay for consultancy fee... Buy ud gladly pay up after all... U are in love. Don't spend on this ... Don't spend on that... It cos there is a future plan for u, which necessarily wouldn't involve you.

I can relate…😂 before u know it the dude go spend like say tomorrow no Dey thinking he has found rhe right person..

This fabricates a lot of imaginary scenarios. Too many bored people on social media. Nairaland with its lack of original content picks any nonsense and posts.

Hope you will also want to marry a man whom your family don’t like, just so they wouldn’t come to your house at all?

AllBlack:


Exactly what they like to fall for... LAMBA.

this is the same gender that used to fall for I LOVE YOU MY MOTHER. so what do you expect?

Meanwhile, Chilipepper... do you listen to RED HOT CHILIPEPPERS? or your moniker is just random?

Boss you dey listen to Red hot chilly peppers?

biguncle2:
Boss you dey listen to Red hot chilly peppers?

Yesso. Big time fan.

Best Songs - By The Way & Under The Bridge.

Infact,Uganda loves it more...

Hisroyalbeat:
But when he bounce your family , no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda,

Hisroyalbeat:
But when he bounce your family , no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda,

This man.... Wetin u smoke this morning??