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After 7 children, you still wan show love to your wife. you better work toward a better life for the family

Obavoh:


Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

ok

I hear u

Is Super Story still on Thursdays? The landlord is jealous of the love though, a couple who bath together bond together.

I believe people who scare you when you can have many children are fear mongers. They have never been there. They are academic analysts. If you can take care of those kids, ride on sir. Nothing do you, na man you be. If dem do conference of Many Men, you and Elon go attend with your many children. You are a great man. You are fulfilling God's instructions to man. All those people, please ignore them. The only people you should listen to are those who have had 5 or more children like you. The world keeps wondering how you do it, that's the world we live in today. Lily livered generation that want to blame Tinubu or whoever is in power for their own irresponsibility when your parents had many kids fighting World Wars and recessions 🤡

God is faithful those who have faith in him. As long as you are responsible, you will keep providing for your family. I know this. Men are scared of marriage because of kids but it's those kids that will force them into becoming men, don't let fear be your enemy and comfort be your friend.

person dey find cashout lol

Firebox123:
is tinubu part of your misfortunes

Tinubu brings misfortune

Na God put you for that room make your children no reach 14

Naa you be the real General Manager

So what do you want us to do? I don't get it.

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

He is part of the problem from northern Nigeria. His wife is less than 28 years with 7 children and he wants to impregnate her again in one room apartment

He said my Growing Family, so my guy is not done yet

Firebox123:
go get yourself a job and fix your life

He didn't ask you for anything.
And who says success/fulfillment has to be by your definition?
Allow people live their lives on their own .

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

It's ok i feel your pain. I will help you with something so you can get 2 bedroom. God is your strength

Obavoh:


Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

water water soup guy stop fvcking on top 150k salary I earn more than that with 1 kid yet it's not enough let alone someone with battalion

Obavoh:


Thank you for the insult sir.

My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering.

I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information.

See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

And you are in single room 😂?

Seven children + #150, 000, good life in a single room?

I don't understand your definition of good life again.

donmixc:
immediately i see this thread on FP, I know it must be you. stop embarrassing the northerners, i can swear with my life you're from the south

He's from Benue State

The poster never said he wants more children, he is only tired of not having good and private time with the wife, Abe one can't enjoy his wife again without make her pregnant?

Please continue having kids like rats until you get to 14

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

Should having kids stop couples from having sex?

Smartwave:


And you are in single room 😂?

Seven children + #150, 000, good life in a single room?

I don't understand your definition of good life again.

Did you read his initial post?

What is your definition of good life?

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

Kid number 8 loading... in one room!

He must be an Aboki man

Sincerely, adequate education will make one plan his future properly.

Educationalserv:
after 7 kids you never retire .

lexy2014:


Should having kids stop couples from having sex?

no, but he ought to have gone for family planning.

I am imagining doggy style inside the bathroom. . You need privacy, save up and move to another house.

For those 'you never tire gang', touching his wife doesn't mean she will get pregnant.

I have two kids and I don't use since we got married for over 5 years

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Lost romance. You should be grateful that bandits spared your family.
Anyway, bandits are offshoots of Boko Haram fighting for a Nigeria to be governed with Sharia criminal laws; the same unconstitutional Sharia criminal laws adopted by the political and religious leaders of the 12 Sharia states in far Northern Nigeria.

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Coly2012:
The poster never said he wants more children, he is only tired of not having good and private time with the wife, Abe one can't enjoy his wife again without make her pregnant?

That guy has been on Nairaland for years and people have advised him about family planning severally but he keeps popping out kids with his wife he married as under age after impregnating her as a secondary school student.
Many people here know his story and he used to post pictures of them before

Sharpsharp00123:
u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick"

After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife?

Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children?

Don't u think of your future and that of your children?

Where in his post does it suggest that he is living in abject poverty?

If you say "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick", are you saying that rich men are celibate?

Where do all these jobless small girls and so called female celebrities get money to buy hair, expensive phones and to do butt lift?

Who are those they call "big gods"?

Sharpsharp00123:
that guy go still give him wife belle before d end of this year

...and a woman will never say no, once belle come. Our women are wonderful. They're never afraid, dunno why

I hope you are using protection during sex with madam?

Don't mind those asking you to stop making love to madam o but make sure you add no more baby to the current equation.

Lastly, what's the plan towards your 2 bedroom house? Do you plan going back?

Why not sell if its in a place worth it, then go to a safer place to build?