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Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children (23577 Views)
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Obavoh: 8:46am On May 03 |
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built. We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family. The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I. The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy. I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife. Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped. I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness. 30 Likes 8 Shares |
Educationalserv: 8:50am On May 03 |
Obavoh:after 7 kids you never retire . 249 Likes 23 Shares |
Firebox123(m): 9:07am On May 03 |
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Firebox123(m): 9:07am On May 03 |
Obavoh:is tinubu part of your misfortunes ![]() 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Obavoh: 9:09am On May 03 |
Sharpsharp00123: Thank you for the insult sir. My wife and Children are living the best life I can give. We are not hungry we are not suffering. I earn 150,000 Naira monthly and take good care of my family for your information. See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach 121 Likes 11 Shares |
Firebox123(m): 9:11am On May 03 |
Obavoh:go get yourself a job and fix your life 7 Likes |
emillysmigael(f): 9:26am On May 03 |
Obavoh:I really understand your frustration about this... I pray God blesses you more so that you can get a more suitable apartment. You guys should manage for now, it is all a matter of time. 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Firebox123(m): 9:51am On May 03 |
emillysmigael:he should manage with 7 children for tinubu period Just lol 😂 42 Likes 1 Share |
Sharpsharp00123: 9:58am On May 03 |
Obavoh:u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick" After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife? Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children? Don't u think of your future and that of your children? 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Sharpsharp00123: 10:00am On May 03 |
emillysmigael:that guy go still give him wife belle before d end of this year 54 Likes 2 Shares |
Hopss(m): 10:29am On May 03 |
please obavoh I beg you in the name of what ever you believe in, give your self a break from child bearing and concentrate on training your seven children.
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Dopeboy8701(m): 10:39am On May 03 |
Since u refused family planning, the bandits have help u plan ur family.
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DeltaBachelor(m): 10:41am On May 03 |
lol. Suffer nor dey tire poor man
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Oloki: 10:44am On May 03 |
Educationalserv: I tire o... 7kids in this regime and if care is not taking, he will still add another one. 40 Likes 1 Share |
jmoore(m): 10:48am On May 03 |
Obavoh: Hallelujah 2 Likes |
ChybuzzDD(m): 11:07am On May 03 |
Firebox123: Yes, the clueless and incompetent drug.lord is part of his misfortunes by running the country down. I once came across some Arab men in Qatar with over 9 children each and they had no problems feeding their families and building houses. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Jozilinn: 11:08am On May 03 |
Obavoh:150k in these era is nothing my cousin sister's kids are paying almost 60k per term for school fees and you have 7 kids. Are they going to school? Instead of sex try think of another thing if that you and your wife didn't make it obvious say una get konji the landlord wouldn't have intervened. 47 Likes 1 Share |
ChybuzzDD(m): 11:10am On May 03 |
Firebox123: He has a job already where he earns 150k/month What's your own job? 22 Likes 1 Share |
azelab: 12:08pm On May 03 |
God will pave you through the challenges, my advise for you is that , allow your wife to also go into small business so as to relief the burden on you likewise try to get a room and parlour self contained even if it is little far away to your present residence...... So as to secure a low cost house to rent and it will also assist you to satisfy the nature.
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LordIsaac(m): 12:47pm On May 03 |
7 Souls...+ your wife= 8! Behold the problem of Nigeria! Guy why?
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Houseofglam7(f): 12:50pm On May 03 |
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Firebox123(m): 1:12pm On May 03 |
ChybuzzDD:150k can manage 7 children in Nigeria now 7 Likes |
Ouchbabe(f): 1:14pm On May 03 |
Obavoh:I feel your pain sir, God will make a way. I don't know about you but if I were in your shoes, the last thing on my mind would have been sex. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Firebox123(m): 1:21pm On May 03 |
Ouchbabe:can you be his second wife ![]() 8 Likes |
Ouchbabe(f): 1:27pm On May 03 |
Firebox123:Why you come hate me like this naa ![]() Second wife with 7 children in one room? 25 Likes 1 Share |
UkoAnnang(m): 1:28pm On May 03 |
![]() All thanks to Bola Ahmed Tunibu, Shettima and his bandits brothers who makes life difficult in this country 7 Likes |
donmixc: 1:28pm On May 03 |
immediately i see this thread on FP, I know it must be you. stop embarrassing the northerners, i can swear with my life you're from the south
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Bobloco: 1:28pm On May 03 |
Educationalserv: Man no dey tire not to mention retire 6 Likes 1 Share |
obembet(f): 1:28pm On May 03 |
With 7 children ![]() 23 Likes |
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