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My sin is judging people, especially men, too quickly. But I’m not to blame. However, something happened last week that changed my mindset and I’ve learnt to extend understanding to my fellow men too.


Just like most men were born/trained with the innate urge to protect women’s interest, to give women excuses, and to always stand for them and offer to save them cuz they’re women..I was born with same. I always see us men as the evil ones while women are angels.

Last week, I heard a noise coming from my flatmate. His wife was raining cursed on him and telling him how he’ll never make it in life and all that. In my mind, I was already thinking “what an evil woman..making woman cry” despite knowing this guy for a while and he’d very gentle and meek. Always going his own way.. never troubled anyone . He attend our meeting and makes contributions both financially and resource wise.

What I didn’t know was that the wife was cheating on him with her multiple exes. Now he got tired and asked her to leave. The woman resorted to crying and manipulation. Everyone who heard her crying and cursing the man out that day will definitely hate that man. Until I heard the true story about what happened

But there I was, already judging him.

..

You don’t even know what is called sin ….

I have learned to reason twice before ing final judgements

irumole1975:
My sin is judging people, especially men, too quickly. But I’m not to blame. However, something happened last week that changed my mindset and I’ve learnt to extend understanding to my fellow men too.


Just like most men were born/trained with the innate urge to protect women’s interest, to give women excuses, and to always stand for them and offer to save them cuz they’re women..I was born with same. I always see us men as the evil ones while women are angels.

Last week, I heard a noise coming from my flatmate. His wife was raining cursed on him and telling him how he’ll never make it in life and all that. In my mind, I was already thinking “what an evil woman..making woman cry” despite knowing this guy for a while and he’d very gentle and meek. Always going his own way.. never troubled anyone . He attend our meeting and makes contributions both financially and resource wise.

What I didn’t know was that the wife was cheating on him with her multiple exes. Now he got tired and asked her to leave. The woman resorted to crying and manipulation. Everyone who heard her crying and cursing the man out that day will definitely hate that man. Until I heard the true story about what happened

But there I was, already judging him.

No matter what you heard or always told, just digest it cos some r very good in manipulation and therefore u won't like to be judge as well

How did you hear the full story??

Receive peace

Your sins are forgiven

One silly and annoying thing about some women (esp. the ones with at least 3-5 Ex's) is that...when dating or married to you...they still want the allowance to do anyhow they like (rubbish) that they are already used to before meeting you, thereby disrespecting you in the process...if you accept just for peace to reign...the disrespect continues.....when you say enough is enough.... manipulation starts...

Women....the gender full of wonders!