| Baronthecelebri: 7:50pm On Apr 07 |
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Common divorce that bastard, stupid SIMP
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| yinkeys(m): 7:59pm On Apr 07 |
It appears a lot of people just get married for the sake of ridiculous attributes like beauty, swag, fake lifestyle, façade etc without discussing God, goals, family structure, income, character, logical stuff etc
Anyway goodluck to guys picking people that are simply after reaping where they never sowed.
When you choose to marry an immature mind that’s all about social media & not real life
The performance burden in keeping a home is largely on guys not women 
From guys experience, young women usually move on to the next person once dudes talk about reality & not fun related topics. They then commence to calling dudes trash when play/fun boys dump them
The average 22 year old is seeking fun & adventure
Marrying an illogical spouse can be the worst life decision you ever make
Any politician will easily take this guys wife 
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| yinkeys(m): 8:03pm On Apr 07 |
Baronthecelebri:
Common divorce that bastard, stupid SIMP
Would’ve been easier if they had no kid
Not as easy as you think
They are bonded for life
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| missjekyll: 9:06pm On Apr 07 |
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Dis one na proper book of lamentations.
Oga, shey she is submissive and never questions you and beautiful. What more do you want?
Get a cleaner and increase your wife's allowance.
What option are you considering? There are no options
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| MrCork: 9:13pm On Apr 07 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
puccccci is only N20k sir...u can even get students discounts
Cant u juss pay for puccci sir??(no oofencsse)) 
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| Dogalmighty17: 10:49pm On Apr 07 |
missjekyll:
Dis one na proper book of lamentations.
Oga, shey she is submissive and never questions you and beautiful. What more do you want?
Get a cleaner and increase your wife's allowance.
What option are you considering? There are no options
Why you wan provoke thunder make e fire you?
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| Austinjosh98: 10:58pm On Apr 07 |
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Op no courtship?
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| Georgekyrian(m): 12:20am On Apr 08 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
Quit, although that type can sometimes be very respectful and don’t want to leave you as long as your detriments covers her excesses, but quit because her type hardly do well and your children may grow up siding her when you want to correct them
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| Georgekyrian(m): 12:22am On Apr 08 |
yinkeys:
Would’ve been easier if they had no kid
Not as easy as you think
They are bonded for life
Kid or no kid, men should know that polygamy is the best and I can divorce anytime any day
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| intruder15(m): 12:48am On Apr 08 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
Brother. Throw more light on how your dating life with her was. I Want to check something.
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| Exceed15: 1:00am On Apr 08 |
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If she's respectful and submissive Abeg keep her o
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| RealityKings1: 1:37am On Apr 08 |
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Don't stop helping her, but try to consistently guide her
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| missjekyll: 3:00am On Apr 08 |
Dogalmighty17:
Why you wan provoke thunder make e fire you?
Whatever mehn. Thunder is not dangerous, did you know that?
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| id4sho(m): 3:42am On Apr 08 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
You don enter one chance
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| yinkeys(m): 4:17am On Apr 08 |
Georgekyrian:
Kid or no kid, men should know that polygamy is the best and I can divorce anytime any day
Do all abrahamic religions this ?
Some people just wanna do good by God
I don’t think Jesus approves this, could be considered adultery ?
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| Blitzking: 5:13am On Apr 08 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
She must be a baddie..wat were the criteria u used in picking her as a wife.
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| laivwire(m): 7:03am On Apr 08 |
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Atoliman has said it all.
Put her (and the kids) on a strict budget that's comfortable for you. Continue to build your life and career in parallel because in the end all your selfless efforts will not be appreciated.
Women like that feel they are beautiful and deserved to be spoilt for it. I'm sure you must have heard it from her mouth. She also doesn't care about you but herself and her kids.
By 60, your kids would be trying to climb their own ladders and your wife would still be looking for ways to benefit herself. You'd be on your own except you secure your own future yourself now and not for other people.
Old age poverty is real.
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| aloshio(m): 7:21am On Apr 08 |
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| VicM6: 8:48am On Apr 08 |
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The way women make men so eager to commit suicide now adays is overwhelming.........why don't u jst take a break from home for like 4months make hunger teach her lesson small.....na dat small pikin i pity aje
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| luminouz(m): 10:08am On Apr 08 |
Gboom:
@Op If all what you wrote is the truth, you have a lot of work to do. Firstly, you need to sit her down and state what you want from her in of so that you can have a peaceful home. Secondly, stop giving in to all her financial needs. Thirdly, lead by example as in cleaning the house together on your idle hour and instruct her on the you want henceforth. As per business, don't invest on her if she is not vast in the type of business
I need to SIT YOU DOWN AND WHOOP YOUR ASS for this mumu advice.
What rubbish is this?
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| Gboom: 10:43am On Apr 08 |
luminouz:
I need to SIT YOU DOWN AND WHOOP YOUR ASS for this mumu advice.
What rubbish is this?
Am I not entitled to my own opinion?
Who are you to sit your father down and whoop his ass?
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| rickleye: 12:57pm On Apr 08 |
Wakatumbit:
I and my wife have been married for close to 5 years now and we have a 2 year old baby.
The issue I'm having with my wife is that she has become a liability to me, she doesn't want to do anything.
I opened a business for her which I have spent almost 3m+, she doesn't even go to the business, I've paid rent twice on the place but I'm not sure she has even made upto 100k from it.
She doesn't do anything at home aside from cooking, she just wakes up in the morning and press her phone from morning till night, she won't sweep or clean the house, I can't even have an unexpected guest in my house because the house is always dirty and everything. The kitchen always looks like a cesspool of infection because she can't even clean it
All she wants to do is take pictures and look fine, recently she complained that I don't give her money for her upkeep and I told her that the reason I opened the business for you is so you can have your own personal income as a woman.
Through out last year, all the money I made I didn't see anything (I just struggled to get a car), because of expenses of my family and my wife isn't helping out at all.
She wants expensive things and she doesn't want to work. I'm really considering my options in the marriage because I can't continue living with that sort of a woman.
You didn’t mention your ages.
Married 5 years with one kid 2 years. Which means you didn’t get married because she was pregnant. It could also mean she wasn’t ready for motherhood or that the kid was planned.
That said her behaviour could be due to a myriad of societal factors
1. She doesn’t want to give up yet her youth card for motherhood.
2. Needs some routine in her life ( which you provided with the business )
3. She needs some attention which someone else appears to be providing.
Someone always on their phone means there is someone on the other end.
At your stage in life ( married with kid) one’s mindset is usually changed to how to provide and how to contribute to the family ? So it’s strange why hers is not to work .
You have to talk to her parents and if possible find out what is making her spend so much time on her phone.
Then take a stand- he who doesn’t work shouldn’t eat. You need her to start contributing or we discuss separation.
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| luminouz(m): 2:06pm On Apr 08 |
Gboom:
Am I not entitled to my own opinion?
Who are you to sit your father down and whoop his ass?
Lol...
Small boy..come here and kneel down. I'm gonna whoop your black ass
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