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How can I disentangle myself from this love triangle (1302 Views)

IsiahRashad(m): 10:17pm On Mar 26

I wonder how I got myself in this mess. One is an American, she is so sweet and a genuinely good person and she has fallen head over heels in love with me. Sent me money frequently and is expecting me to her soon. I actually really like her, the issue was she's in her early 40s and had kids already and I'm turning 31 this year. The second is a Nigerian she's closer to my age, and honestly I can see myself getting married to her, I tried to stay away because of my entanglement with the American lady but something recently happened and we were in close proximity and had to follow up with each other on an official assignment. This led to sparks flying between us and before I even knew how it happened we became an item and even thinking of tying the knot.
I don't want to break any of their heart and I think I actually love both of them, although I may love one more than the other. This thing has been eating me up inside and I just had to rant and clear my mind here. I feel so guilty

Attached is some messages with the American lady

Sonnobax15(m): 10:19pm On Mar 26

Mr. Man,with all due respect,i think you're only in love with the American lady simply because of the benefits you're getting from her........cuz i don't see why and how a young man of your age should be fantasizing and dreaming about tying the knot with a woman whose womb is old enough to accept your entire adulthood as her foetus angry

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IsiahRashad(m): 10:30pm On Mar 26

Sonnobax15:

Mr. Man,with all due respect,i think you're only in love with the American lady simply because of the benefits you're getting from her........cuz don't see why and how a young man of your age should be fantasizing and dreaming about tying the knot with a woman whose womb is old enough to accept your entire adulthood as her foetus

Tbh that may have been what drew me close to her in the first place but she's a good person and I really hate to break her heart cause she'll be devastated and she doesn't deserve that at all

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MrOreo(m): 3:23am On Mar 27

Sonnobax15:

Mr. Man,with all due respect,i think you're only in love with the American lady simply because of the benefits you're getting from her........cuz don't see why and how a young man of your age should be fantasizing and dreaming about tying the knot with a woman whose womb is old enough to accept your entire adulthood as her foetus

Bruhhh! Why so vexed?!

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MrOreo(m): 3:25am On Mar 27

IsiahRashad:
I wonder how I got myself in this mess. One is an American, she is so sweet and a genuinely good person and she has fallen head over heels in love with me. Sent me money frequently and is expecting me to her soon. I actually really like her, the issue was she's in her early 40s and had kids already and I'm turning 31 this year. The second is a Nigerian she's closer to my age, and honestly I can see myself getting married to her, I tried to stay away because of my entanglement with the American lady but something recently happened and we were in close proximity and had to follow up with each other on an official assignment. This led to sparks flying between us and before I even knew how it happened we became an item and even thinking of tying the knot.
I don't want to break any of their heart and I think I actually love both of them, although I may love one more than the other. This thing has been eating me up inside and I just had to rant and clear my mind here. I feel so guilty

Attached is some messages with the American lady

Better double check to be sure it's not an A.I or no be one black dude dey behind the scene...

Starboytwo(m): 4:15am On Mar 27

Give me the American... Mafo

Continue your journey with my sister, I fully 👍

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Baronthecelebri: 5:12am On Mar 27

Leave the Nigeria lady

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cenaman(m): 5:27am On Mar 27

Use cutlass

Ibkay32(m): 7:30am On Mar 27

Abeg where una dey get this update, abeg make una dey drop update now

odinson1(m): 7:33am On Mar 27

Na dating work you dey do with the white woman?

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Aleem26(m): 8:15am On Mar 27

Sonnobax15:

Mr. Man,with all due respect,i think you're only in love with the American lady simply because of the benefits you're getting from her........cuz don't see why and how a young man of your age should be fantasizing and dreaming about tying the knot with a woman whose womb is old enough to accept your entire adulthood as her foetus

🤣🤣🤣

lenghtinny(m): 12:16pm On Mar 27

Enter America first

If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow

sabbiboi: 2:35pm On Mar 27

odinson1:
Na dating work you dey do with the white woman?

As in, the convo looks like that of a white head and a nigga cool

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IsiahRashad(m): 4:06pm On Mar 29

It's official. I dey run the two of them at the same time.
If I perish, I perish lool

AllBlack: 3:08am On Mar 30

You are a liar with fake stories.

Oya show us screenshot of your chat with the Nigerian babe if e sure for you.

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