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Are you tired of being repulsive to men? Do they just date you and then dump you? Here are things you can do to make a man fall in love with you, propose to you, get married to you and stick to you forever...

1. RESPECT HIM: Learn-to respect men from the bottom of your heart. No man can resist a woman who shows him respect, it's a huge turn on.

2. SHOW GRATITUDE: learn to appreciate every good thing men do for you. A woman who knows how to appreciate a man has him at her beck and call.

3. IRE HIM: men love to be ired. His intelligence, achievement, good looks and career means a lot to him.

4. PRAISE HIM: each time he does something extra ordinary, lavish praise on him. Don't flatter him though, men hate flattery, it's a big turn off.

5. DON'T COME CHEAP: Don't be too desperate to get married. Men can smell it afar off and keep off. No one wants a desperate woman.

6. HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE : One sure fire proof way to make a man pursue you is to have self confidence. Confident women turn men on. You make your self a grand prize that requires extra effort to be won. Men like to win. Your confidence makes him wants to "win" you.

7. GET A LIFE: have a career, business, vision, goals, great dreams. Men love women who do something worth while with their lives not a sleeping beauty waiting for some Prince Charming to rescue her from the doldrums of poverty. No one wants to marry a liability.

8. BE FRIENDLY: friendly women easily attract men. Learn to laugh, crack clean jokes, share intelligent conversations and really laugh at the funny side of things. In other words, don't take life too seriously. Be fun to be with.

9. BE YOUTHFUL: If you keep acting like a grandma. You will stay single for a long long time.

10. BE BEAUTIFUL: You don't need to be an Agbanidarego, Aishwarya Rai, Kim Kardashian, Omotola Jolade Or Angelina Jolie before you appear beautiful. Be clean, wear clothes that fit you, eliminate body odour. Do the right hairstyle that fits your head not the one in vogue. Avoid dry lips. Learn to trim and brush your eyebrow, avoid mouth odour, use the right perfume. Learn to look sweet and presentable.

11. BE FEMININE: Act like a lady not a Tomboy. Learn to sit, talk, walk and laugh like a lady. Be feminine, be girlie, let a man feel like he is with a woman, not a man!

12. BE YOURSELF: Don't pretend to be who you are not. Lies and deceit turn a man off faster than anything else. Be real, be down to earth. If he is your God ordained spouse, he will love you for who you are.

13. SAY NO TO PREMARITAL SEX: I am yet to come across a man who does not doff his hat for a woman who is beautiful, confident, intelligent yet sexually pure. Learn to treat your body with respect. Refuse to be touched inappropriately. It will increase his respect for you and he will see you as a lady worth having, worth winning, worth pursuing and worth getting married to....https://www.relationshipaffair.site/?m=1

How is the lady supposed to test the guy's machine if she says no to premarital sex?

Samantha125:
How is the lady supposed to test the guy's machine if she says no to premarital sex?

Perhaps any man whose machine isn't working should indicate to any interested lady

Since when do men indicate to their women that their machines are not working?🤔🤔🤔

kiddkash:

Perhaps any man whose machine isn't working should indicate to any interested lady

Samantha125:
How is the lady supposed to test the guy's machine if she says no to premarital sex?

LOL

That machine needs to be well oiled and tested...

Exceed15:


LOL

Samantha125:
That machine needs to be well oiled and tested...

If his pre-intimacy game is dope no need for oil.

Yeah... It's very important to check whether that engine is working perfectly or poorly.

Exceed15:


If his pre-intimacy game is dope no need for oil.

Samantha125:
Since when do men indicate to their women that their machines are not working?🤔🤔🤔

These are the kind of conversations that should happen during courtship

Samantha125:
Yeah... It's very important to check whether that engine is working perfectly or poorly.

What if it's not working well but he's highly responsible and caring?

You know very well that you men are very terrible at opening up to women, especially if you're a two minutes noodles.

You'll gladly be in of the lady waiting until marriage knowing very well that you can't perform... And when she starts voicing out her concerns after getting married, you'd find a way to pin it on her... Plus I've heard how manipulative you Nigerian men can be.

kiddkash:

These are the kind of conversations that should happen during courtship

How will him being responsible and caring keep the lady well fed? We still need to eat at the end of the day.

They might as well just become platonic friends, if that's possible.

Exceed15:


What if it's not working well but he's highly responsible and caring?

Samantha125:
How is the lady supposed to test the guy's machine if she says no to premarital sex?

So, of all the things Op said, it is the guy's machine that you are obsessed with.

There won't be any marriage without a well functioning machine.

Truvelisback:
So, of all the things Op said, it is the guy's machine that you are obsessed with.

Samantha125:
Plus I've heard how manipulative you Nigerian men can be.

Manipulative? If we were really manipulating, your women wouldn’t be chasing after our men and neglecting your own men. The truth is, they see something in us that they don’t find in your men, whether it’s confidence, ambition, or the way we carry ourselves. Instead of channeling your energy on us, maybe it's time to reflect on why they’re making that choice in the first place.

Truvelisback:
So, of all the things Op said, it is the guy's machine that you are obsessed with.

What do you expect from her? That’s just their way of life. Besides, I’ve heard that South African men aren’t exactly well-endowed, which is probably why their women are always running after Naija men. 😂

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt2s1SjhANg?si=bNwNiLWTO7RZ05xt


I'm done here.

Ibkay32:


Manipulative? If we were really manipulating, your women wouldn’t be chasing after our men and neglecting your own men. The truth is, they see something in us that they don’t find in your men, whether it’s confidence, ambition, or the way we carry ourselves. Instead of channeling your energy on us, maybe it's time to reflect on why they’re making that choice in the first place.

K.

Ibkay32:


I heard you graduated as a law student, but honestly, I can’t see any sign of that in the way you argue. If you think calling out misinformation or staying on topic is 'derailing,' maybe it's time to reassess your stance. But sure, go ahead and call the s, I’m sure they’d be interested in seeing who’s actually contributing something meaningful here.

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Thanks

Samantha125:
There won't be any marriage without a well functioning machine.

And you think it isn't functioning?

The last thing a lady wants, even though she might not say it, is getting married to a two minutes noodles man.

How will she then respects you as the head of the house if you can't dominate and leave her exhausted but satisfied with your machine?

Truvelisback:
And you think it isn't functioning?

Samantha125:
The last thing a lady wants, even though she might not say it, is getting married to a two minutes noodles man.

How will she then respects you as the head of the house if you can't dominate and leave her exhausted but satisfied with your machine?

How many minutes of sex would you consider as satisfactory? estimate please.