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I don't know if this the right place to share this but I hope to get Answers! A bit lengthy but hear me out guy!! 🙏🏽
How do I cope with GF’s high body count?
I’ve been having trouble recently trying to deal with my partner’s past.
I am 29 years old and have been dating her 25 years old for well over a year, and honestly it has been amazing. She’s attentive, gives me reassurance, tells me she loves me every second she gets, and never invalidates my feelings. Our conversations are engaging, we always try our best to communicate our issues and resolve problems in a way that lets us both meet in the middle, and our intimate life is really good. All of this and then some, on paper she is the perfect person and partner.

Unfortunately, I’ve met a bit of a speed bump as of late that I could really use some advice for. I had always assumed her body count to be up there as she’s attractive, has a good personality, and is overall just a great girl. However, about 6 months into dating she revealed her count to be “no more than 40” in her words. On the contrary, she is the second person I’ve been intimate with so it came as a huge shock. I freezing at the time, just trying to process what I’d heard. Seeing my face she started to tear up, begging me not to leave her. I comforted her and told her I’m not going anywhere, so I put my feelings aside and tried to move on to the best of my ability. Now, 9 months after that day, I’m on the verge of losing my mind. I’ve told myself every day since then that I’m secure, body count doesn’t matter, I’m going to get over it, etc. I had actually been doing really good for a while until recently. It all came crashing down when I accidentally saw some old screenshots of texts with ex’s from 2+ years ago in her camera roll (no, I wasn’t snooping, just stumbled upon it). I know I shouldn’t have read them but I did, and it was vile. It looked like conversations from the worst smut you’ve ever read, just straight phone intimacy. There was much more than one screenshot (with multiple people involved) but I didn’t have the heart to keep looking. Her and I have an open communication style so right away I brought it up to her, and she reassured me that she was different then and she only spoke to guys like that because she thought it would make them like her. She expressed how she regretted ever acting that way and how she was used over and over by men manipulating her for sex. She started crying saying how she was naive and how she wished that she had met me sooner. She apologized profusely and deleted everything straight away. Here’s the thing, I have no reason to not believe her. In this relationship I’ve come to always place my trust in her and give her the benefit of the doubt. She is genuinely the sweetest person I’ve ever met, so I could never dislike her and she’s given me every reason to trust her. I guess what I just need now is advice… I’m so lost in my head it feels like I’m drowning. I itted to her after seeing those screenshots that her sexual past bothers me (where I brought up her body count for the first time since speaking about it 9 months ago), and that it’s going to take time for me to feel better. She thanked me for being open and honest and has been doing nothing but catering her time and effort towards me to try and make me feel better. She has been so understanding and reassures me that I’m her person and she will only ever love me every time she’s seen me looking down. During those times I cant help but shed some tears, but she doesn’t care and holds me and reassures me throughout it all.

With that said, I’ve had some major anxiety the past week, kinda like the breath has been sucked from my lungs and there’s a pit in my stomach. I keep telling myself how “it’s okay” and that “she loves me” over and over again but my body won’t listen. I’ve been eating less, less focused at work, and losing sleep at night. I also know she’s been crying secretly as well, wiping her tears before I come into the room or I’ll hear sniffling from around the corner. I’m concerned that my mental state and overthinking is eventually going to kill this relationship if I don’t do something about it.

So, other than leaving her which is the absolute last thing I want to do, does anyone have any recommendations? Thank you so much in advance.

First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

The werey op even said leaving her would be the last thing he'd ever do

Op,what color of stupidity is diz? .

Well,I don't know how to advise you but I just want you to know that her body counts are gone and there's nothing you can ever do that will help restore it

The number on your moniker though.

[redacted]

Igodomigodo419:
I don't know if this the right place to share this but I hope to get Answers! A bit lengthy but hear me out guy!! 🙏🏽
How do I cope with GF’s high body count?
I’ve been having trouble recently trying to deal with my partner’s past.
I am 29 years old and have been dating her 25 years old for well over a year, and honestly it has been amazing. She’s attentive, gives me reassurance, tells me she loves me every second she gets, and never invalidates my feelings. Our conversations are engaging, we always try our best to communicate our issues and resolve problems in a way that lets us both meet in the middle, and our intimate life is really good. All of this and then some, on paper she is the perfect person and partner.

Unfortunately, I’ve met a bit of a speed bump as of late that I could really use some advice for. I had always assumed her body count to be up there as she’s attractive, has a good personality, and is overall just a great girl. However, about 6 months into dating she revealed her count to be “no more than 40” in her words. On the contrary, she is the second person I’ve been intimate with so it came as a huge shock. I freezing at the time, just trying to process what I’d heard. Seeing my face she started to tear up, begging me not to leave her. I comforted her and told her I’m not going anywhere, so I put my feelings aside and tried to move on to the best of my ability. Now, 9 months after that day, I’m on the verge of losing my mind. I’ve told myself every day since then that I’m secure, body count doesn’t matter, I’m going to get over it, etc. I had actually been doing really good for a while until recently. It all came crashing down when I accidentally saw some old screenshots of texts with ex’s from 2+ years ago in her camera roll (no, I wasn’t snooping, just stumbled upon it). I know I shouldn’t have read them but I did, and it was vile. It looked like conversations from the worst smut you’ve ever read, just straight phone intimacy. There was much more than one screenshot (with multiple people involved) but I didn’t have the heart to keep looking. Her and I have an open communication style so right away I brought it up to her, and she reassured me that she was different then and she only spoke to guys like that because she thought it would make them like her. She expressed how she regretted ever acting that way and how she was used over and over by men manipulating her for sex. She started crying saying how she was naive and how she wished that she had met me sooner. She apologized profusely and deleted everything straight away. Here’s the thing, I have no reason to not believe her. In this relationship I’ve come to always place my trust in her and give her the benefit of the doubt. She is genuinely the sweetest person I’ve ever met, so I could never dislike her and she’s given me every reason to trust her. I guess what I just need now is advice… I’m so lost in my head it feels like I’m drowning. I itted to her after seeing those screenshots that her sexual past bothers me (where I brought up her body count for the first time since speaking about it 9 months ago), and that it’s going to take time for me to feel better. She thanked me for being open and honest and has been doing nothing but catering her time and effort towards me to try and make me feel better. She has been so understanding and reassures me that I’m her person and she will only ever love me every time she’s seen me looking down. During those times I cant help but shed some tears, but she doesn’t care and holds me and reassures me throughout it all.

With that said, I’ve had some major anxiety the past week, kinda like the breath has been sucked from my lungs and there’s a pit in my stomach. I keep telling myself how “it’s okay” and that “she loves me” over and over again but my body won’t listen. I’ve been eating less, less focused at work, and losing sleep at night. I also know she’s been crying secretly as well, wiping her tears before I come into the room or I’ll hear sniffling from around the corner. I’m concerned that my mental state and overthinking is eventually going to kill this relationship if I don’t do something about it.

So, other than leaving her which is the absolute last thing I want to do, does anyone have any recommendations? Thank you so much in advance.

I think you should gauze her based on the present. If there has been no cause for you to suspect her since you met her why bother.

Is it the same single mother your mom is against you marring?

Olosho na wetin she be, jennyclay dem

OP, body count isn't the problem here!
The problem is, she is a good player, and obviously manipulating you; urging you on to destruction.

The unease you're feeling is your instinct warning you of an impending doom. You know what you're doing is wrong, but her crocodile tears and her "well packaged" personality is holding you captive!

Young man! Cut your lose and run as fast your legs can go.

How did she end up with 40 body counts? Because no way she dated 40 men before you. Was she into hookups or she was animashaun? Either way, her red flag is brighter than China's flag.

Namaster:
First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

At the bolded! You're a cold ass mofo !
Bitter truth OP .... He just said it all!

40....at 25yrs of age
And you dey call that one wife material...you sef dey act like simp

This one na professional licensed olosho na
RUN FOR YA LIFE


That one wey she tell you 40 sef na one BIG life...you heard me right?

if she loves you, she will have no choice but lie about her body count just to make you stil get interested with her...so she lied by saying 40...

Omo! Her lie still go far ooo

she must have nothing less than 160 body counts,if i may guess

Namaster:
First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

Abasi mmi mbok!

You stole this from Twitter, give credit to what's due Mr thief.

Namaster:
First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

NAMASTER abeg naw. Abeg 😂

Leave her if you don't want her

I have no recommendations for you. All I want to tell you is that, that relationship will get your burnt really bad. We don do all these lovey lovey things in our 20th. It doesn't always end well.

Of a true, that lady is promiscuous, trust me. We don tay for the street o. We no be JJC. So, when we see JJCs dey lament, we always shake our heads.

Don't believe the cry of a woman especially these Gen-Z generation.

And for that lady, abort mission. Look for a better girl. She is using emotions to manipulate you. We call it emotional manipulation. And as per JJC wey you be, you go think say she is the best after slice agege bread 🍞. Far from it.

She will definitely cheat on you even in your matrimonial bed.

A decent girl body count shouldn't exceed 3-4, give or take. For a girl of 25 to have a body count of 40, calculate the wear and tear and number of thrusts those past men had with her. That will be running into millions of thrusts.

She is a promiscuous woman, but your little mind is still telling you she is not.

40 body counts. God forbid bad thing. Even my enemy Judas1X, I won't allow him marry such a lady let alone you that is not my enemy.

Jacktheripper:
How did she end up with 40 body counts? Because no way she dated 40 men before you. Was she into hookups or she was animashaun? Either way, her red flag is brighter than China's flag.

. Do you believe the story? All na lie.For a girl to open up and tell you she's git up to that would mean a lot; probably you met her in a very bad place like a club, so would just say one number to make you still trust her. Above all, you, too will become kne of those counts because you have only come to do what others had done before you met her. All of them na the same category dem dey. If the story is true, what does the OP want us to say or do? He is already kne of the counts so no PROBLEM. SHEBI NO BE YOUR WIFE (YOU MET HER STARTT TO DEY FORMICATE WITH HER? So you can choose to do whatever you want. The problem is that most ladies in this condition, while trying to get past their horrible pasts by folloshly seeking another guy (MR RIGHT) end up adding to their body counts because ladies are always on the receiving end. So, na una problems o. Yeye people.
My advice to people is, don't other men to mess uo people's daughters even if they act foolishly. Na person go settle with that girl you dey do or manners of irritating things with. If you are into such, then you don't need to complain about body counts. Shebi na men dey put their thing there, too. Shame on all of una!

Blakjewelry:

I think you should gauze her based on the present. If there has been no cause for you to suspect her since you met her why bother.

Don't listen to this one oooo

Because U met a 304 that U like doesn't mean U can make her a housewife. And that body count is usually multiplied by 3 and + 10% to get the actual dick counts on her pussay. Na professional olosho this one go marry and she's very good at manipulating U... U will suffer

queenolofofo:

Don't listen to this one oooo

Saint, tell us your own body count. Moreover this is why it is advised not tell your partner your past. Infact if you must tell, you must check if the person has the mental capacity.

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. For her to get the mind to reveal her past to you shows she has repented. Repented people are the best to work with because they will do everything within their strength to prove their new life. That girl is a good girl.

You either get over it or walk away.

You and your imaginary girlfriend should go and sit down jare..

This story is fake.
But I don't think men ego will allow them settle for a lady more sexually experienced than them.
I've never seen one in my life, only in hollywood and Bollywood.

Namaster:
First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

infact there's nothing to add again

you have said it all.

this type will give the Op another man's child

blessedinnoma:
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. For her to get the mind to reveal her past to you shows she has repented. Repented people are the best to work with because they will do everything within their strength to prove their new life. That girl is a good girl.

jon snow

You're just number 41 bro.....

Namaster:
First of all, women NEVER reveal their TRUE body counts. Especially NOT to a nice husband material like you.

The standard is to take whatever number they give you and MULTIPLY by 3.

So your GF has had about 120 dicccks inside her.
And some of them came for second, third and fourth HELPINGS.

But the other 80 guys were "mini boyfriends" and they don't factor into her body counts.

ALSO, her saying the STEAMY sex chats with MULTIPLE guys was just her trying to get those guys to like her is a FUNDAMENTAL feature of female nature.

When she was younger, she DATED stereotypical bad boys and acted like a SHAMELESS SLUT for them.

Now that she's older, probably out of University, and ready to SETTLE DOWN; she found herself a good guy in YOU and started to pretend to be a REFORMED and RESERVED wife material.

For bad boys, she acted like a BITCH.
For nice guys, she acted like a NUN.

She's a CHAMELEON that adopts whatever colour that appeals to her TARGETS.

Right now, you are the target. And she has MORPHED into your DREAM WOMAN.

That's why you are still MOURNING a relationship with a 25-year old PROSTITUTE.

She is NOT the girl for you.
You will NEVER get past her body counts.

Even if 40 was the REAL number (it's NOT), that is still TWO GIGM BUS FULL OF DICKS (with leftovers) that have been INSIDE your girl.

That's a WHOOOORE!

Only stay in that relationship if you dream of raising BASTARDS.

Well said .. any child must be DNA tested .. and never take her to the altar just give her money

Igodomigodo419:
I don't know if this the right place to share this but I hope to get Answers! A bit lengthy but hear me out guy!! 🙏🏽
How do I cope with GF’s high body count?
I’ve been having trouble recently trying to deal with my partner’s past.
I am 29 years old and have been dating her 25 years old for well over a year, and honestly it has been amazing. She’s attentive, gives me reassurance, tells me she loves me every second she gets, and never invalidates my feelings. Our conversations are engaging, we always try our best to communicate our issues and resolve problems in a way that lets us both meet in the middle, and our intimate life is really good. All of this and then some, on paper she is the perfect person and partner.

Unfortunately, I’ve met a bit of a speed bump as of late that I could really use some advice for. I had always assumed her body count to be up there as she’s attractive, has a good personality, and is overall just a great girl. However, about 6 months into dating she revealed her count to be “no more than 40” in her words. On the contrary, she is the second person I’ve been intimate with so it came as a huge shock. I freezing at the time, just trying to process what I’d heard. Seeing my face she started to tear up, begging me not to leave her. I comforted her and told her I’m not going anywhere, so I put my feelings aside and tried to move on to the best of my ability. Now, 9 months after that day, I’m on the verge of losing my mind. I’ve told myself every day since then that I’m secure, body count doesn’t matter, I’m going to get over it, etc. I had actually been doing really good for a while until recently. It all came crashing down when I accidentally saw some old screenshots of texts with ex’s from 2+ years ago in her camera roll (no, I wasn’t snooping, just stumbled upon it). I know I shouldn’t have read them but I did, and it was vile. It looked like conversations from the worst smut you’ve ever read, just straight phone intimacy. There was much more than one screenshot (with multiple people involved) but I didn’t have the heart to keep looking. Her and I have an open communication style so right away I brought it up to her, and she reassured me that she was different then and she only spoke to guys like that because she thought it would make them like her. She expressed how she regretted ever acting that way and how she was used over and over by men manipulating her for sex. She started crying saying how she was naive and how she wished that she had met me sooner. She apologized profusely and deleted everything straight away. Here’s the thing, I have no reason to not believe her. In this relationship I’ve come to always place my trust in her and give her the benefit of the doubt. She is genuinely the sweetest person I’ve ever met, so I could never dislike her and she’s given me every reason to trust her. I guess what I just need now is advice… I’m so lost in my head it feels like I’m drowning. I itted to her after seeing those screenshots that her sexual past bothers me (where I brought up her body count for the first time since speaking about it 9 months ago), and that it’s going to take time for me to feel better. She thanked me for being open and honest and has been doing nothing but catering her time and effort towards me to try and make me feel better. She has been so understanding and reassures me that I’m her person and she will only ever love me every time she’s seen me looking down. During those times I cant help but shed some tears, but she doesn’t care and holds me and reassures me throughout it all.

With that said, I’ve had some major anxiety the past week, kinda like the breath has been sucked from my lungs and there’s a pit in my stomach. I keep telling myself how “it’s okay” and that “she loves me” over and over again but my body won’t listen. I’ve been eating less, less focused at work, and losing sleep at night. I also know she’s been crying secretly as well, wiping her tears before I come into the room or I’ll hear sniffling from around the corner. I’m concerned that my mental state and overthinking is eventually going to kill this relationship if I don’t do something about it.

So, other than leaving her which is the absolute last thing I want to do, does anyone have any recommendations? Thank you so much in advance.

Hmm... Op no offense, was she a runs girl before ? 40 is a big number and trust me when I say it'd be more than that. But she was upfront about it, and she’s shown she regrets it, here's my advice:

If you can, just let it go. The mental toll is overwhelming right now, but if you are willing to let it go, it'd . From your write up it's obvious she really loves you, try and focus on the present and let go of things that don’t define your relationship now. She’s proven her commitment, and you need to stop making her feel guilty for something she can’t change. People make mistakes, this is her's and I believe she learnt from it.


Or if you are find it hard to let go, leave and find someone purer. If you mind is not at peace, walk run away rather than drag the two of you through unnecessary suffering.

After counting on her, you want to bail out
So if the next 13 girls you meet are like this, what will be your own score? Will you tell the 15th girl
I just want you to know that men are marrying former prostitutes, so this girl will learn her lesson from you and be with the right matured man for her if she has truly reformed. Right now, you're too young to absorb that level of reformation after tasting from her juice so leave her alone for your own good. You'll both learn.

Abortion go don reach 5 chai!

God is with you bro