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Skooltynz: 3:49pm On Feb 06
My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her,this girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me,when we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house,when she visited she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. she even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.. angry
The day she visited first she refuse to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me ,I went to sit with her on the chair kissed her and press her breast then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm.. angry

Omo I am starting to get frustrated,from my observations my girl is not the wild type,but I know she is not a virgin,the funny thing is the moment we left my room just outside my door she hugged me again and started our normal cuddling ,hugging and kissing,she will let me touch everything in her body but she will , but she will never do it when we are inside the room,she will try to keep distance from me,I asked her why she does so,she said she doesn't trust her feelings that it may dissapoint her.
I am beginning to get tired of the relationship because I love sex and cannot be in a sexless relationship because women are unpredictable,if I quit asking for sex from her she may give it to another guy outside in the long run and nothing hurts a man more than that,I am beginning to get confused wether to patient maybe she will give me chop very soon or she is just playing with my head.

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saintbillion(m): 3:58pm On Feb 06
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.

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Skooltynz: 4:05pm On Feb 06
saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.

How did you come into this conclusion? And since you are concerned about the situation of you country what are you doing in the romance section were sex and romance is being discussed? It's just like pastor Chris going to xvideos site comment section to preach the gospel hypocrites full this country ajeyyy.

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The6thAustralia: 4:43pm On Feb 06
she is trying to form innocent good girl. dont fall for it

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Dtruthspeaker: 4:50pm On Feb 06
Omo, see format!

Anyway, thou shalt not fornicate, yet, una no go hear. Anyway una experience dey make story sweet.
dkidd: 4:52pm On Feb 06
Probably a terrible sexual experience from her past relationship or she's just frigid. What to do?
Disembark from that mission. Don't front it like Ur thirsty as U already giving her. Make her very comfortable with U the way she is when she outside. Can't U read the signs? She doesn't feel safe alone with U and I'm guessing that stems from her past that she hasn't gotten over. A lot of U guys don't know mindfuck is more important than actual fvck.

Mindfuck isn't just about sex. It's about opening a portal of her soul make her feel one with U. Put sex for one side first and make her at ease with U do other things and even avoid bedroom but subtly be suggesting sex not verbally and not direct touching. Since she loves PDA, do it in a way that will be putting her pants on fire for U. Make the most of it There's a way U talk to a girl and address her and everything U say and do towards her has another obvious message leaving her guessing if it's what U mean but she will know exactly where it's going. I miss my bad boy days sha, na these type of girls dey sweet cheesy

Make it interesting and be unpredictable. Don't just be grabbing bwess and pussy anyhow like king Kong. Be stylish be the lion. Don't rush but tease Ur food before devouring. In all u do the goal is to make her very free with U. She will open up when she can finally tell U anything... But one thing bro.

Is her juice worth the squeeze? If yes then go ahead and play by her pace but always stylishly hinting and showing her Ur still in charge but allowing her to open up and be at ease will help U more.

SAME MISSION DIFFERENT ROUTE/ TACTICS. She will serve it to U on a golden plate by herself.

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Lalami3232(m): 4:57pm On Feb 06
cheesy
I would have loved to analyze this issue but I won't because it seems you're just there for the sex. Both of una know each other so well, so una dey play game. She know say if she gives you kpekus, you will soon leave her, while you know say if you no collect the kpekus, she will give it to someone else out there grin. Make una dey play una games and I pray say "may the smartest win".
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

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SyrusdeHansome(m): 4:57pm On Feb 06
saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.

That's his problem, u have urs so deal with urs and let him deal with his. You can't be coming here to instruct matured pple on what to do and what not to do. Pple like u are the worst when it comes to sex in real life.

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Dtruthspeaker: 4:59pm On Feb 06
SyrusdeHansome:


That's his problem, u have urs so deal with urs and let him deal with his. You can't be coming here to instruct matured pple on what to do and what not to do. Pple like u are the worst when it comes to sex in real life.

Bros he can. Do you not see that the op is asking for instructions?

Dis one too . grin
Moniya4Real(m): 5:00pm On Feb 06
Is it your sex? What is your own.





saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.
Cousin9999: 5:10pm On Feb 06
shocked Chill. You're acting like a...
SyrusdeHansome(m): 5:18pm On Feb 06
Dtruthspeaker:


Bros he can. Do you not see that the op is asking for instructions?

Dis one too . grin

He can by not trying to impose his values or priorities on the guy. What u prioritize doesn't have to necessarily be my priority and u don't have any right to condemn me for prioritizing what I choose to prioritize.
Dtruthspeaker: 5:27pm On Feb 06
SyrusdeHansome:


He can by not trying to impose his values or priorities on the guy. What u prioritize doesn't have to necessarily be my priority and u don't have any right to condemn me for prioritizing what I choose to prioritize.

Now you have moved post to impose and he was not imposing. He only gave his version of instruction which you and him both know that you have a right to reject.
Lanmonfishery(m): 5:33pm On Feb 06
Follow my steps and watch her beg u for sex

Continue to be a loving guy, even this time be more caring than before
When she tries to kiss u, don’t let it be. Do like u no Dey feel an if she near u
Be distant from her but still shower her with love and care
Invite her again but this time don’t even go near her, make her feel like u have no interest in touching her
Ignore ionate eye
Be more mature, no force conversations
Find a game to play maybe ludo or card game
After a few hours discharge her, don’t kiss her just hug and turn back

Reason: she will go home thinking her brains out like what is wrong with her, but this guy is always all oVer me

Do it again
After the third time try enter her and u go see she go open leg, I bet with u



Thank me later

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wiseone28: 6:05pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:
My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her,this girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me,when we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house,when she visited she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. she even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.. angry
The day she visited first she refuse to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me ,I went to sit with her on the chair kissed her and press her breast then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm.. angry

Omo I am starting to get frustrated,from my observations my girl is not the wild type,but I know she is not a virgin,the funny thing is the moment we left my room just outside my door she hugged me again and started our normal cuddling ,hugging and kissing,she will let me touch everything in her body but she will , but she will never do it when we are inside the room,she will try to keep distance from me,I asked her why she does so,she said she doesn't trust her feelings that it may dissapoint her.
I am beginning to get tired of the relationship because I love sex and cannot be in a sexless relationship because women are unpredictable,if I quit asking for sex from her she may give it to another guy outside in the long run and nothing hurts a man more than that,I am beginning to get confused wether to patient maybe she will give me chop very soon or she is just playing with my head.

Hope you are ready to become a father?

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Skooltynz: 6:11pm On Feb 06
wiseone28:
Hope you are ready to become a father?

If she takes in I will accept my responsibilty
wiseone28: 6:12pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:


If she takes in I will accept my responsibilty
Go and marry her legally she will be all yours

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Skooltynz: 6:12pm On Feb 06
Lalami3232:
cheesy
I would have loved to analyze this issue but I won't because it seems you're just there for the sex. Both of una know each other so we'll, so una dey play game. She know say if she gives you kpekus, you will soon leave her, while you know say if you no collect the kpekus, she will give it to someone else out there grin. Make una dey play una games and I pray say "may the smartest win".
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Nope I want her to be my bitchh and wife
Skooltynz: 6:15pm On Feb 06
wiseone28:
Go and marry her legally she will be all yours

It doesn't work that way,let me know her full character first before I make I mistake.
wiseone28: 6:18pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:


It doesn't work that way,let me know her full character first before I make I mistake.
If you want to know her first then why the rush to fk?

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Skooltynz: 6:25pm On Feb 06
wiseone28:
If you want to know her first then why the rush to fk?

Because if I don't another man will woman are like pendulum
wiseone28: 6:39pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:


Because if I don't another man will woman are like pendulum
You can't monopolize a woman just be calm and wait for your turn to the Honeypot
ValCon888: 7:52pm On Feb 06
If you're not giving her money, it's a stalemate but if you're spending on her, she's currently winning 1-0.

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onome25(m): 7:54pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:
My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her,this girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me,when we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house,when she visited she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. she even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.. angry
The day she visited first she refuse to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me ,I went to sit with her on the chair kissed her and press her breast then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm.. angry

Omo I am starting to get frustrated,from my observations my girl is not the wild type,but I know she is not a virgin,the funny thing is the moment we left my room just outside my door she hugged me again and started our normal cuddling ,hugging and kissing,she will let me touch everything in her body but she will , but she will never do it when we are inside the room,she will try to keep distance from me,I asked her why she does so,she said she doesn't trust her feelings that it may dissapoint her.
I am beginning to get tired of the relationship because I love sex and cannot be in a sexless relationship because women are unpredictable,if I quit asking for sex from her she may give it to another guy outside in the long run and nothing hurts a man more than that,I am beginning to get confused wether to patient maybe she will give me chop very soon or she is just playing with my head.

U de rub anything for Ur prick b4 she visit U
Sorry bro I'm just asking for a close friend lipsrsealed

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ednut1(m): 8:01pm On Feb 06
Game of manipulation
Nehyooh(m): 8:12pm On Feb 06
Lanmonfishery:
Follow my steps and watch her beg u for sex

Continue to be a loving guy, even this time be more caring than before
When she tries to kiss u, don’t let it be. Do like u no Dey feel an if she near u
Be distant from her but still shower her with love and care
Invite her again but this time don’t even go near her, make her feel like u have no interest in touching her
Ignore ionate eye
Be more mature, no force conversations
Find a game to play maybe ludo or card game
After a few hours discharge her, don’t kiss her just hug and turn back

Reason: she will go home thinking her brains out like what is wrong with her, but this guy is always all oVer me

Do it again
After the third time try enter her and u go see she go open leg, I bet with u



Thank me later
Professor of womanology grin
Gotocourt: 8:23pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:
My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her,this girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me,when we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house,when she visited she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. she even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.. angry
The day she visited first she refuse to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me ,I went to sit with her on the chair kissed her and press her breast then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm.. angry

Omo I am starting to get frustrated,from my observations my girl is not the wild type,but I know she is not a virgin,the funny thing is the moment we left my room just outside my door she hugged me again and started our normal cuddling ,hugging and kissing,she will let me touch everything in her body but she will , but she will never do it when we are inside the room,she will try to keep distance from me,I asked her why she does so,she said she doesn't trust her feelings that it may dissapoint her.
I am beginning to get tired of the relationship because I love sex and cannot be in a sexless relationship because women are unpredictable,if I quit asking for sex from her she may give it to another guy outside in the long run and nothing hurts a man more than that,I am beginning to get confused wether to patient maybe she will give me chop very soon or she is just playing with my head.

Follow her jejely, na you go run las las
Odebayo4010(m): 8:41pm On Feb 06
Skooltynz:


How did you come into this conclusion? And since you are concerned about the situation of you country what are you doing in the romance section were sex and romance is being discussed? It's just like pastor Chris going to xvideos site comment section to preach the gospel hypocrites full this country ajeyyy.

Roman 10 v 14 said How can they hear without a preacher, don't said what is he doing in Sex and Romance is discussed, because of you selfish interests someone should not say the truth again abi,is like you don't know what you're doing 🙄
Lanmonfishery(m): 8:57pm On Feb 06
Nehyooh:
Professor of womanology grin
Reduce the volume comrade 😎

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Meteng: 9:54pm On Feb 06
She’s learnt from her experience of being chopped and abandoned by many guys
JOACHINpedro: 10:04pm On Feb 06
Try being a woman a day in Nigeria, you go understand say societal pressure choke.
First, we bodyshame women for having multiple BC. So why will she settle for knacks in few weeks of dating?
And mind you, being desperate to get into her pant is a strong indicator that you came into the relationship to chop her and you fit clean mouth. Her body wants it but she is not sure she is ready to add you to her bodycount.
I no get advise for you cus it's obvious that relationship was not defined.
Make una continue dey deceive unasef

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Talkisneeded(m): 10:10pm On Feb 06
Game of wits here..
Sha buy herbs,no disappoint me my guy when eee finally sup

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