| Moniker947(m): 9:52pm On Jan 18 |
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This guy is supposed to be my closest friend. But the way he gives so much attention to the any girl he is dating is really sad. All the girls I have known him with are girls that leech on him and in the end, dump him in the most despicable manner. He's an adult and I can't control what he does with himself, but as a friend, I am really concerned and worried.
We are neighbors. When he's hungry, he comes to eat in my place. But as soon as he has money, he calls his girl to come over and stay with him for weeks and sometimes, month.
I was deeply hurt today when I entered his place and told him that I was hungry and had nothing on me to sustain myself. I got the shock of my life when he said, "I cook one small rice o.. but comfort(his girlfriend) dey come". In my mind I said, really? Hmmm. It's well. This is the second time he's doing this, the first was about food though.
Honestly I'm not entitled to anything cos I don't own his properties. He can decide to give to whom he wants. This is someone I share things with. He has never asked for anything from me and I deny giving him if I have. I even call him to come eat without him asking.
I want to ask the guys, would u do such to your closest friend? A friend that u both drink garri together when times are tough. It's sad. I am an introvert and I hardly share my pains with even the closest friend, but the day I say I'm lacking this and needs your Help, it means it's very serious.
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| MrBanner(m): 9:54pm On Jan 18 |
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This boy, no kyn format wey you never use. Nairalanders will not send you money. Go and get a job, you’ve been on this racket for too long.
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| PresidObi: 9:58pm On Jan 18 |
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Seems like nairaland now pays people to write fictional stories so they can beef up their forum, then push to frontage?
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| Jidejenson(m): 10:26pm On Jan 18 |
Moniker947:
This guy is supposed to be my closest friend. But the way he gives so much attention to the any girl he is dating is really sad. All the girls I have known him with are girls that leech on him and in the end, dump him in the most despicable manner. He's an adult and I can't control what he does with himself, but as a friend, I am really concerned and worried.
We are neighbors. When he's hungry, he comes to eat in my place. But as soon as he has money, he calls his girl to come over and stay with him for weeks and sometimes, month.
I was deeply hurt today when I entered his place and told him that I was hungry and had nothing on me to sustain myself. I got the shock of my life when he said, "I cook one small rice o.. but comfort(his girlfriend) dey come". In my mind I said, really? Hmmm. It's well. This is the second time he's doing this, the first was about food though.
Honestly I'm not entitled to anything cos I don't own his properties. He can decide to give to whom he wants. This is someone I share things with. He has never asked for anything from me and I deny giving him if I have. I even call him to come eat without him asking.
I want to ask the guys, would u do such to your closest friend? A friend that u both drink garri together when times are tough. It's sad. I am an introvert and I hardly share my pains with even the closest friend, but the day I say I'm lacking this and needs your Help, it means it's very serious.
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| GboyegaD(m): 12:56am On Jan 19 |
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At your protists right with him. You are his neighbor not his savior, treat him the way he treats you.
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| Kobojunkie: 1:05am On Jan 19 |
Moniker947:
➜This guy is supposed to be my closest friend. But the way he gives so much attention to the any girl he is dating is really sad. All the girls I have known him with are girls that leech on him and in the end, dump him in the most despicable manner. He's an adult and I can't control what he does with himself, but as a friend, I am really concerned and worried. We are neighbors. When he's hungry, he comes to eat in my place. But as soon as he has money, he calls his girl to come over and stay with him for weeks and sometimes, month.
➜I was deeply hurt today when I entered his place and told him that I was hungry and had nothing on me to sustain myself. I got the shock of my life when he said, "I cook one small rice o.. but comfort(his girlfriend) dey come". In my mind I said, really? Hmmm. It's well. This is the second time he's doing this, the first was about food though.
➜Honestly I'm not entitled to anything cos I don't own his properties. He can decide to give to whom he wants. This is someone I share things with. He has never asked for anything from me and I deny giving him if I have. I even call him to come eat without him asking.
I want to ask the guys, would u do such to your closest friend? A friend that u both drink garri together when times are tough. It's sad. I am an introvert and I hardly share my pains with even the closest friend, but the day I say I'm lacking this and needs your Help, it means it's very serious.
1. You complain of him allowing girls to leech off of him yet you are guilty of similar that is allowing him to leech off of you and your particular excuse for your own behavior is that he is a neighbor and a friend. 
2. Well, you are OK with a mere friend leeching off of you while he only allows girls who come over to stay and probably offer him sex to leech off of him. So? 
3. Honestly, I don't think your friend is the problem here as it seems you are playing closest friend game with someone who does not regard you in the same way. If you wish to have him share your garri, then let it come from the heart — don't make a big deal of it. Certainly, seems this guy is not on the same page as you in all of this.
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| Free2Fly: 4:33am On Jan 19 |
Moniker947:
This guy is supposed to be my closest friend. But the way he gives so much attention to the any girl he is dating is really sad. All the girls I have known him with are girls that leech on him and in the end, dump him in the most despicable manner. He's an adult and I can't control what he does with himself, but as a friend, I am really concerned and worried.
We are neighbors. When he's hungry, he comes to eat in my place. But as soon as he has money, he calls his girl to come over and stay with him for weeks and sometimes, month.
I was deeply hurt today when I entered his place and told him that I was hungry and had nothing on me to sustain myself. I got the shock of my life when he said, "I cook one small rice o.. but comfort(his girlfriend) dey come". In my mind I said, really? Hmmm. It's well. This is the second time he's doing this, the first was about food though.
Honestly I'm not entitled to anything cos I don't own his properties. He can decide to give to whom he wants. This is someone I share things with. He has never asked for anything from me and I deny giving him if I have. I even call him to come eat without him asking.
I want to ask the guys, would u do such to your closest friend? A friend that u both drink garri together when times are tough. It's sad. I am an introvert and I hardly share my pains with even the closest friend, but the day I say I'm lacking this and needs your Help, it means it's very serious.
Don't give yourself unnecessary headache, abeg
Stop giving him your food and other things.
Learn to pay people back in their own coin
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| Moniker947(m): 6:25am On Jan 19 |
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| yomi007k(m): 7:17am On Jan 19 |
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Stop giving him food.
When he comes, tell him your babe, Sikira is coming.
If you choose to continue giving him then don't make a fuss about it.
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