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Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

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What do you want us to do about it?
Oga try to take a glass of clean water and rest

Congratulations.

Am not married to a single parent. Not planning to get married anytime soon.

But from my depth knowledge about relationship matters, you will enjoy the economics, socials, profits, incentives, istrations of this kind of marriage in the short-run. In the long run, the disasters will start coming. It takes a very strong-man to endure the long-term services.

Peace!

Hey, you did not update us about virgin and DNA. Abi you forget!

Lalami3232:
What do you want us to do about it?
Oga try to take a glass of clean water and rest

Watch before you leap bro, no one can give you the best advice you seek cos we are not in your shoes... Observe very well and do what's best for you, else, tears loading

If u like her and she's ok for u, pls go ahead and marry her, it's conditions that make crayfish to bend. She's human too. Most people learn from their past mistakes and improve better good luck.
I know most of us has been bitten by snakes, even when we see a rob we screen thinking it's a snake.

Marry her and watch how the relationship goes eccentric. Its superficial love.

Seems you already made up your mind,so our input holds no water in this conversation..

I wish you goodluck in your endeavours my bro...



I sell herbs tho

You're only with her for her money

Tribalism??
Yet she birthed not one but three children?
This isn't adding up.

Are you with her for love or are you with her for the money because we all know no single Nigerian guy would willingly marry a single mother with 3 children if there is no potential financial benefit at play?

Follow your heart.

I'm already weeping for you in advance
Suicide mission

Wainey:
Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

Hmmm! Think am well when she go time for u, and give u ur own wards. If not na FOSTER Daddy u dey Enter so!
Abi make we no TELL am?

You are a finished man





















End.

Run
Nothing good can come out of this .. run

Shall we tell him?

My guy... You need to know some stuffs
Loyalty of some single mothers is as a result of the fact they see you as a Messiah cos in relationship they are already disadvantaged.
They are well experienced trying not to make same mistake twice.
Be ready to take the kids as yours anything short of that is a deal breaker for most of them.
Please ask her what really went wrong with her ex get the details in full...
And Bros honestly ask yourself if you truly want her? Them no dey start match for 3-0 oh but if you feel say the scoreline no mean and you get the ability then fire down... All the best!

You go hustle hard o because you must take care of her with her 3 children 🤒

How can you knowingly dig your own grave?

It's not easy getting married to single parents!

And having an affair aka dating is different from marriage!

What do you see in her? Beauty? Experience? Wealth?

Of course she's far experienced than you and will do whatever it takes to hold you down!

How many guys today will want to marry a woman after 3 kids?

Na your choice!

But think about 10, 20, 30 years time with her! How he go be?

Hehe see brother wey we go soon attend him wake keep lol

Do whatever ur mind says.

But don't be too quick to conclude

People actually hide their true self

A woman is like a snake they are only dangerous if u get to trust them and love them too much

BareFacedLies:
Are you with her for love or are you with her for the money because we all know no single Nigerian guy would willingly marry a single mother with 3 children if there is no potential financial benefit at play?

My thoughts, exactly

Just listen to this idiot.

By the time she gets into your house, you will see the reason why the father of her kids ran away.

Wainey:
Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.

So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.

Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do.
She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.

Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.

So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?

If u can not locate the ex, find the people that knows her and the ex together to make enquiries about her....especially her living with the ex, those are the people to hive you the info u need.


Don't be cajoled by her generosity, you have not bn hooked yet, when u guy get hooked there is 90% of certainty that she would change.

Jzbb

You are finished bro... She will keep weaponizing your love/feelings to feed her children, whose father will show up somewhere in the future to claim his kids.

I hope the father(s) of her Children is/are not in same town with you? Because he/them go dey knack steadily. Anytime she go check on the other children go collect 😂😂😂

You carry SIMP mindset enter 2025. Weldon service chief 😋😋🤗 she is richer than you, you claimed 🤣 you are already transacting your future for expired overused kpekus, that is if you even have a future to start with because no young man with good future will mumu like this.

Tarh!! I forbid

Errh! You are looking for a mature response.

Because you can’t get a mature response offline, it is online you want to get it. Good luck to you.