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AllenSpencer: 4:49pm On Jan 01
“Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level''

Move away from poor people without ideas and sense of creativity.

Some people are poor, but they could make stock picks for you and you will hit big. The are well updated than you with the money.


Some poor people have got brilliant ideas they cannot implement due to their financial status, and why they got deeper insight on metrics to make money.

They don’t have the money, but they can tell you better investment strategies

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hosemujica: 4:50pm On Jan 01
You are one step closer to a happy life.

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Omalicious1: 4:50pm On Jan 01
zanshi:
Many years aback, my mother use to make a statement, "Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level'', i use to find that statement to be rather classist, but i can tell you that she was right. Yes inequality and poverty is rife in our society, but there is a limit to what you can do to help people's situation.

The year 2024 has been a blessed one for me business wise, as i got to invest more of what i earned in my business but the call for help, please help me send, can you lend me request can be overwhelming.

As a hyper independent person it is sad to say that i haven't even gotten a gift from people i have helped touched their life in one way other. Even people who borrowed with the promise to pay back haven't fulfilled their commitment.

I am blessed to have a bit of financial success which i hope to last long and outlive my generation, i can't inconvineince myself to beck on everybody's call. At every point i must look at how i put myself first. So this 2025 i plead with all netizens to put themself first and discard any freeloader that may be a threat to your finances.

Quote: ''If it fininsh, dem go hail another person."

Happy new year!

I will rather say "Stay away from people with a poverty and scarcity mindset"

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yemmit90: 4:50pm On Jan 01
zanshi:
Many years aback, my mother use to make a statement, "Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level'', i use to find that statement to be rather classist, but i can tell you that she was right. Yes inequality and poverty is rife in our society, but there is a limit to what you can do to help people's situation.

The year 2024 has been a blessed one for me business wise, as i got to invest more of what i earned in my business but the call for help, please help me send, can you lend me request can be overwhelming.

As a hyper independent person it is sad to say that i haven't even gotten a gift from people i have helped touched their life in one way other. Even people who borrowed with the promise to pay back haven't fulfilled their commitment.

I am blessed to have a bit of financial success which i hope to last long and outlive my generation, i can't inconvineince myself to beck on everybody's call. At every point i must look at how i put myself first. So this 2025 i plead with all netizens to put themself first and discard any freeloader that may be a threat to your finances.

Quote: ''If it fininsh, dem go hail another person."

Happy new year!

And who would you move with before you become rich? Because if rich people also think like you, they will not allow you to get close to them before you become rich.

The best bet for you is to become rich in isolation and start looking for rich people to associate with.

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santaclaws: 4:50pm On Jan 01
zanshi:
Many years aback, my mother use to make a statement, "Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level'', i use to find that statement to be rather classist, but i can tell you that she was right. Yes inequality and poverty is rife in our society, but there is a limit to what you can do to help people's situation.

The year 2024 has been a blessed one for me business wise, as i got to invest more of what i earned in my business but the call for help, please help me send, can you lend me request can be overwhelming.

As a hyper independent person it is sad to say that i haven't even gotten a gift from people i have helped touched their life in one way other. Even people who borrowed with the promise to pay back haven't fulfilled their commitment.

I am blessed to have a bit of financial success which i hope to last long and outlive my generation, i can't inconvineince myself to beck on everybody's call. At every point i must look at how i put myself first. So this 2025 i plead with all netizens to put themself first and discard any freeloader that may be a threat to your finances.

Quote: ''If it fininsh, dem go hail another person."

Happy new year!

So what happens when those poor friends become rich? You can avoid billing but staying away from people because of their current financial status is being short-sighted. No condition is permanent...

people like Osimhen etc used to be very poor, but see where God brought them today.

Make una relax oo

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onadana: 4:51pm On Jan 01
immortalcrown:
Did you become rich by staying away from yourself when you were poor? If not, you are not being factual here at all.

Guy leave factual....poverty is infectious.Run away from anything that resembles it.

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jojothaiv(m): 4:51pm On Jan 01
bknight:
Some don't have so much, but are not interested in your money.

There is something called 'friendship'

Some have-nots are independent and do not feel entitled.
Rare breed, man.

They are uncommon, not to toot my own horns though, my friends rich or poor, in wealth or not owe me nothing, I no go yarn dem as e dey be for me, make everybody hold him side, God go take take of all.

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immortalcrown(m): 4:51pm On Jan 01
Fryx:
I become rich by providing value to people who have money, not freeloading off others.

In fact, I don’t have 0 reason to give any one a dime. My pride didn’t allow me beg, I worked hard instead.

I did odd jobs, slave off as a cleaner/house help etc till i can save enough to get what I need to learn a skill.

After learning a skill, I look for job, manage my money and utilize the little I have till it becomes big.

You see, I owe no one.

Towards the end of last year, I did some calculations, realized I am being too much of Father Christmas, and made that decision to cut off freeloaders.

I’m with OP.
You have not answered my question.
DrDoc: 4:51pm On Jan 01
bknight:
Some don't have so much, but are not interested in your money.

There is something called 'friendship'

Some have-nots are independent and do not feel entitled.


God bless you abundantly
jojothaiv(m): 4:51pm On Jan 01
tunwumi:
No gree for anybody including me self
Fiscus105(m): 4:51pm On Jan 01
Toosure70:
You're not well raised, poverty is not contagious man. Do you know tomorrow? I just hate this write up, please delete it mod


You might hate it, but 80% truth,
When you surrounded yourself with poor people, thr is higher tendency you will die poor.
Not only that, (poor people do have entitlement mentality, I CAN SEE AGGRESSION & ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY IN YOUR COMMENT...... "the rich must give them whenever they ask, and they don't usually believe, rich people do broke atimes, the day they ask and not given, you automatically become bad person, they wouldn't even think of, how you had been good to them.)

To cap it all, poor people normally think that you are Mugu, for you to be given them. if you opportune to hear what they are saying behind you)

God forbid you go bankrupt, they would be the first to mock you and mock you bad in the neighbourhood.( the debtors that do buy on credit from Iya Sade in the neighbourhood, would be the first to tell, who ever care listen, if the business down,that iya Sade can never do any business succefully.)


I THE OP TO REPEAT IT TO YOU, STAY AWAY FROM POOR PEOPLE.

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immortalcrown(m): 4:52pm On Jan 01
onadana:
Guy leave factual....poverty is infectious.Run away from anything that resembles it.
You have not answered my question.
Quebec91(m): 4:52pm On Jan 01
cheesy
Donchieli:
Ah


So I no go get frndz dz year

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Eniolohunda: 4:52pm On Jan 01
100% Correct
Maj196(m): 4:53pm On Jan 01
My God I hate leeches and freeloaders, if you can't work hard to foot your bills and take care of yourself please go back to your village.

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wahles(m): 4:54pm On Jan 01
lol. Quite ironic . Most comments here are actually coming frm the same mindset of people d op is actually talking about. Let me add this for you op, people with low/poor mindset.
gigabyte13: 4:55pm On Jan 01
No be person wey you help in most cases go help you.....
If you dey expect help from those you help, you go dey disappointed....
If you keep staying away from the needy because, they are asking from you
One day , you will need the needy to help you out, it may not be financially this time.....

Look at it this way, God bleseses you financially, for the sake of those in need.
Avoid the ungratefuls, but don't get tired of helping the GRATEFULS.....

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ednut1(m): 4:55pm On Jan 01
To many people you are still poor. Be humble

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AirBay: 4:55pm On Jan 01
@OP

Why were you friends with freeloader that may be a threat to your finances at first?

Meaning you sef be freeloader before. Don't leave your friends especially the good ones because of their current financial situation.

No one knows tomorrow grin

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Ifexibe(m): 4:57pm On Jan 01

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Fryx: 4:57pm On Jan 01

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abba190b: 4:57pm On Jan 01
Shut the FCK up. You are just stingy

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abba190b: 4:58pm On Jan 01
Fryx:


If your reasoning is below that level, here is your answer.

I HATE MY POOR SELF THATS WHY I DID EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME MY POOR SELF. I STAYED AWAY FROM MY POOR SELF, I WAS NEVER COMFORTABLE IN POVERTY. AND I NEVER HAD ALL THISE FUNNY POVERTY MENTALITY.

I’m sure OP can agree with me. If he is comfortable being poor, he wouldn’t build a business or think of cutting off some people.
help me with 2k abeg

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onadana: 4:58pm On Jan 01
immortalcrown:
You have not answered my question.

All this from poor to rich story.Who told you,you must be poor before becoming rich.

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Celestialsword: 4:59pm On Jan 01
Negroid001:
It is true.
If you're moving with friends that have a car, in time, you'll have 1 too.
If you're moving with yahoo boys, in time, you'll become one of them.
If you're moving with politicians as friends, in time you sef go chop national cake.
when you use paper to wrap a soap, with time the paper will become soap.

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Kavod: 4:59pm On Jan 01
immortalcrown:
Did you become rich by staying away from yourself when you were poor? If not, you are not being factual here at all.
There are broke people and there are poor people. Broke people have ambitions and take risks while poor people have no ambition and always seek handouts.

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georgeakins: 5:00pm On Jan 01
It's mostly those who are born into poverty that often develop this mindset of yours, once they begin to have little change.

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CLRF: 5:02pm On Jan 01
immortalcrown:
Did you become rich by staying away from yourself when you were poor? If not, you are not being factual here at all.

He is partially right because I link him in 2024. But he can do better than staying away from the poor.
He can make a better judgement by investing in sincere ones rather than giving out indiscriminately, 5k, 5k, 10k.

However, he needs to learn how to say know first so he can later decide whether to give or not.
Ifexibe(m): 5:03pm On Jan 01
lafuria1:
You are right, poor friend will borrow and never pay back And also steal from you because they feel you have enough And so you will understand.
Truth.
Basicend: 5:03pm On Jan 01
Wao!

Both the rich and the poor, God loves us all, and associates with us all. Take it easy o.

Pursue your clear goals and make money. But relate with people in need and help in the best way that is convenient. That's all.

You must balance it.

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Ifexibe(m): 5:03pm On Jan 01
georgeakins:
It's mostly those who are born into poverty that develop this mindset of yours once they begin to have little change.
True sha.....

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Ifexibe(m): 5:05pm On Jan 01
AllenSpencer:
“Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level''

Move away from poor people without ideas and sense of creativity.

Some people are poor, but they could make stock picks for you and you will hit big. The are well updated than you with the money.


Some poor people have got brilliant ideas they cannot implement due to their financial status, and why they got deeper insight on metrics to make money.

They don’t have the money, but they can tell you better investment strategies

True.............

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