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When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.

Life...

Anyway... we came in here with nothing...we leaving with nothing... married or unmarried

Life is just a vacation centre...we will all go back home.

Just be good and enjoy your vacation.

Everything is a blessing or lesson.

It's all good

What goes around comes around. You marry bad boy and you expect not to become a punching bag in your home.
Those saluting you for choosing the bad boy over the nice man with good intentions are the ones who will still sing “say no to domestic violence” when they see how disfigured your face and how haggard and emaciated you have become.

Wahala

The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.

NoChill:


When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie

Women will make you doubt the bible the are more of a curse than blessing unlike what bible said about them,if not for that hormone testosterone nothing will bring men close to those hideous vaginal creatures.

After 2 don drop quote.

ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie

Thanks for making this equal.

ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie

To marry or to fvck? Please know the difference oooo.

A rational man is always deliberate and careful in making his choice. He can sample around but will choose the best or at least close to the best.

NoChill:


When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

may God protect all of us abeg when the thing cast do come back and update us, because I know e must surely cast one day.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Wow. You have a very terrible sister who will learn life the very hard way. She has before her the greatest opportunity to start afresh and enjoy this guy but she's still plotting and manipulating him and taking him for granted. She might never have this opportunity again if she blows this. You better sit her down or call a family meeting on her. She's lost and to imagine with her previous experiences she ought to be wiser but then reverse is the case

Chevrolet076:


To marry or to fvck? Please know the difference oooo.

A rational man is always deliberate and careful in making his choice. He can sample around but will choose the best or at least close to the best.

Exactly

purples25:


Thanks for making this equal.

There's nothing equal here. The topic is for you girls to wise up. Stop trying to make everything a comparison between genders. Learn the lessons

You can't talk ladies out of loving bad guys.
They stay hooked to them until they are fed with bitter pills.

Women love bad boys and it is natural. Unfortunately, women without a male figure usually fall for this trap because men know themselves.

Samantha125:
I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.

There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.

If you spend time on Facebook, TikTok and Instagram, you would agree that the speed with which women learn about life after becoming single mothers is more than lightning speed. Most women learn only in the hard way

This is true,some ladies have bad taste when it comes to choosing a life partner. They use their early twenties to play around with jokers and wants to start being serious when they are now getting older.

Unfortunately,not all of them are lucky to correct their mistakes on time,some regret it for the rest of their lives.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

most likely, she didn't love the guy. And sadly, the guyman na simp. Simps love blindly. That's to tell you that most women don't really change, they only pretend.

Don't be surprised that she dey knack another bad guy behind the mumu man.

Bookhub:
Women will make you doubt the bible the are more of a curse than blessing unlike what bible said about them,if not for that hormone testosterone nothing will bring men close to those hideous vaginal creatures.

You seem to be hurting badly. 😢

May the Almighty heal you. 🙏🤲

What about men who overlook good girls for those with more prominent features?

AcadaWriter0:
What about men who overlook good girls for those with more prominent features?

Yes, thanks for evening things out !

I've already talked to her about it as her sister, but she didn't listen... So I'm now minding my business because I don't like getting too involved in other people's love lives the same way I wouldn't want them to get too involved in mine.

Benniemannz:

Wow. You have a very terrible sister who will learn life the very hard way. She has before her the greatest opportunity to start afresh and enjoy this guy but she's still plotting and manipulating him and taking him for granted. She might never have this opportunity again if she blows this. You better sit her down or call a family meeting on her. She's lost and to imagine with her previous experiences she ought to be wiser but then reverse is the case

The guy's mother loves her so much that she even secured a piece of land as their wedding gift, but my sister says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to live far away from our family house.

Already she has issues with the guy's family and honestly, we her family have seen nothing but love from the guy's family.

CosmicJames:


There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

That your sister is a terrible human being beast, I now understand why some men are scared of getting married.

Those men who ghosted her should thank their stars for dodging a bullet that would have sent them to early grave......I just pity this innocent man that has fallen into her trap, I feel like crying for him.

Samantha125:
I've already talked to her about it as her sister, but she didn't listen... So I'm now minding my business because I don't like getting too involved in other people's love lives the same way I wouldn't want them to get too involved in mine.

Too bad for her and those kids

ebubeson:
When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.

Apology accepted bannies should be wise

So, over 90% of them. I mean, do u even see the coming generations ? Well it's always the same story: the next-gen never learn from the current and last-gen.