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For a girl who is to be wedded to man in a days' time to visit another man the day before whom she previously had a relationship with only spells one thing....parting gift, because she obviously did not go there to do devotion...perhaps the groom to be suspected foul play and put a PI on her...that said, she is guilty because she was caught,but this can go 2 ways........what was the man doing the night before too, we know what goes on in bachelors eve and the likes, could it be one of his exes visited too?? we should blame the woman but also know that the man might also not be a saint.....i rest my case

There's a great & deep mystery about HOW WOMEN THINK/REASON.

If truly, they're ruled by emotions, then guz, help your wives, sisters, daughters, nieces, cousins, aunts & mothers; it kinda means their vulnerability is how easily they capitulate to emotions, blackmails, threats, temptations, et al, irrespective of status, religion, education, exposure... Eve, Lot's wife, the 400 women who slept with the Equatorial Guinea randiest man, & finally, millions of women who have fraudulently given other men's children to their husbands to cater for?!??

GUZ; IN ALL EARNESTNESS, LET'S HELP THIS GENDER; they're indeed WEAKER VESSELS!

Good decision though bad for d guy... Avoidance of bastards being taking into matrimonial homes cannot be overemphasized...Good one..

Not my business

Darkness upon the face of the deep.

Gistmedia10:
Drama unfolded at a wedding ceremony that was supposed to be a day of joy and celebration. A groom reportedly abandoned his bride at the altar after discovering that she had visited her ex-boyfriend just a day before their wedding.

In footage making rounds on social media, the distraught bride can be seen weeping profusely as guests whispered in shock and confusion. Sources close to the couple revealed that the groom confronted the bride after receiving the troubling news from a reliable source, which left him with no choice but to walk away from the ceremony.

Eyewitnesses said the wedding atmosphere turned chaotic, with family attempting to calm the situation while others sympathized with the devastated bride.

Netizens have been buzzing with mixed reactions to the incident. While some the groom’s decision to end the relationship, others argue that the situation could have been resolved privately.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuhBXQGVu7M

Never get marry, e get why? Men don't enjoy in marriage, it's only an illusion the society design to force on men so they can fit in. Now you see this, women are not loyal. Nigeria females are the most useless entities in the world. They are master of manipulation. Marry them at your own peril. As for me, marriage MBA!❌


As per to OP's answer, I use all my breath, all my lungs to say the bridegroom's action IS VERY JUSTIFIED!!!

Zonefree:
My concern is the jollof rice.

What happened to the innocent jollof rice?

If jollof rice at mourning places such as burial are never wasted, na dis one you want make e waste?

Let the bride cry blood, jollof cooler go still empty.

Gistmedia10:
Was the groom’s action justified, or was it too extreme?

She asked for it !

18 years later and the boyfriend is asking the groom to return his son to him.

Diligence:
There's a great & deep mystery about HOW WOMEN THINK/REASON.

If truly, they're ruled by emotions, then guz, help your wives, sisters, daughters, nieces, cousins, aunts & mothers; it kinda means their vulnerability is how easily they capitulate to emotions, blackmails, threats, temptations, et al, irrespective of status, religion, education, exposure... Eve, Lot's wife, the 400 women who slept with the Equatorial Guinea randiest man, & finally, millions of women who have fraudulently given other men's children to their husbands to cater for?!??

GUZ; IN ALL EARNESTNESS, LET'S HELP THIS GENDER; they're indeed WEAKER VESSELS!

Keep dreaming in lala land. It seems you never see anything. You will learn by your own experience if you don't profit from other people's experience. Keep being female apologist.

calabaman:
The groom is a no nonse real man.

Imagine being asked to dance like a fool..

Onto tradition... Told em I am not doing it.

Offcourse they capitulated.

I know it was fun for em.... But a man has to put his feet down.

#you paid her dowry na....

So you refused to dance at your traditional marriage? Sounds interesting. Want to elaborate a little, sir?

MrPresident1:
Darkness upon the face of the deep.

Verse 3: And God said let there be light and there was light.

Verse 4: And the groom saw the light and was sensible enough to borrow Usain bolt's legs and he BOLTED away.

Let somebori shout Hallelluya!

Time for tithe and offering.
Choir, give us danceable songs.

The groom is a hero for all men. Only a brave guy with balls does this. He literally arm-bushed the lady that wanted to force a bastard pikin on him.
Kudos man!

Owo jona .

Chetas81:
Which bingo continue to use this incident to generate traffic,this happened last year not this 2024 but 2023

So? This is a strong lesson reminder to would be groom to not loose guard.

We are proud of you my bro... brotherhood and fatherhood are proud of you

AllBlack:


No it was too childish of him. He should have ignored her past (the visit) and moved on with the very ceremony that would have chained him to the crying scammer.

She got SERVED.

Gistmedia10:
[b]Drama unfolded at a wedding ceremony that was supposed to be a day of joy and celebration. A groom reportedly abandoned his bride at the altar after discovering that she had visited her ex-boyfriend just a day before their wedding.

In footage making rounds on social media, the distraught bride can be seen weeping profusely as guests whispered in shock and confusion. Sources close to the couple revealed that the groom confronted the bride after receiving the troubling news from a reliable source, which left him with no choice but to walk away from the ceremony.

Eyewitnesses said the wedding atmosphere turned chaotic, with family attempting to calm the situation while others sympathized with the devastated bride.

Netizens have been buzzing with mixed reactions to the incident. While some the groom’s decision to end the relationship, others argue that the situation could have been resolved privately.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuhBXQGVu7M

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This is just like avoiding future paternity fraud that could arise but in all that action was too extreme for me considering the parent and guest ....But Ladies what play is the dog playing with Lion in the first place is your Ex Gbola that very sweet that u can't let go off ?

This was really an extreme move. The groom should have visited his ex too. LMAO. Na man dey do man.

Greatzeus:
For the groom to be at the alter on the wedding day,ready to tie the knot,it means he wasn't aware before the wedding day. So how did he get the information and how sure was he that the information was correct,not the work of a jealous person who doesn't want to see the bride get married?
Was there a solid unreputable evidence like video or pictures?
Anyway it's his life, his choice.

Ask OP maybe he will tell you. See questions from a SIMPle chap.

Yeye girl

wonder233:
A girl will have sex with another man and enjoy the thrill of the affair while married or in a committed relationship. But if you mistakenly find out, she will cry down the heavens, lie there was no sex involved, attempt to or even harm herself to prove that she can't live without you.
My brothers, don't ever give in, kick the bitcxh out.
The irony is that if you leave her and that other guy, they won't marry each other, they won't even continue the affair. You were simply the person in the middle they were using to feel excited.
The simple question I asked my ex wife when I found out she had an affair with her male colleague just 3months after marriage was: "What part of what you're crying about didn't you know will happen if caught?"
She couldn't answer. I walked out of the marriage and never looked back.

You did well sir, have you remarried or you don't want to try again?

Ezalb:
For a girl who is to be wedded to man in a days' time to visit another man the day before whom she previously had a relationship before only spells one thing....parting gift, because she obviously did not go there to do devotion...perhaps the groom to be suspected foul play and put a PI on her...haven said that, she is guilty because she was caught,but this can go 2 ways........what was the man doing the night before too, we know what goes on in bachelors eve and the likes, could it be one of his exes visited too?? we should blame the woman but also know that the man might also not be a saint.....i rest my case

What a mumutic take.
Everything shouldn't be a gender war, deal with the topic on ground. If it's the man that did the same thing, the woman has every right to treat him in similar manner.

You leave weytin dey on ground dey imagine a different scenario. What an Ozuo!

Greatzeus:
For the groom to be at the alter on the wedding day,ready to tie the knot,it means he wasn't aware before the wedding day. So how did he get the information and how sure was he that the information was correct,not the work of a jealous person who doesn't want to see the bride get married?
Was there a solid unreputable evidence like video or pictures?
Anyway it's his life, his choice.

But the bride did not deny

Ezalb:
For a girl who is to be wedded to man in a days' time to visit another man the day before whom she previously had a relationship before only spells one thing....parting gift, because she obviously did not go there to do devotion...perhaps the groom to be suspected foul play and put a PI on her...haven said that, she is guilty because she was caught,but this can go 2 ways........what was the man doing the night before too, we know what goes on in bachelors eve and the likes, could it be one of his exes visited too?? we should blame the woman but also know that the man might also not be a saint.....i rest my case

Thrash from a clown.

Gistmedia10:
Was the groom’s action justified, or was it too extreme?

It was too extreme for the day he choose to end it
As for him been right, he is .
He for just end it before the wedding day.
My gender no dey hear and may be someone snitcged on her .
She had all the time during wedding preparations to end her previous relationship. Even if her visit was for good , she was supposed to visit with her hubby or better still invite the guy to where her husband is . I feel.for her sha .

cr7lomo:
Women act like teenagers ....... reason real men don't give them chance to 4k up...forget all those " he's controlling " talk.... women easily self destruct... if u give them free choice , they will destroy themselves and u and then start to cry

True words form you.

If you can't control or influence a woman, don't bother engaging her as a partner.

cr7lomo:
Women act like teenagers ....... reason real men don't give them chance to 4k up...forget all those " he's controlling " talk.... women easily self destruct... if u give them free choice , they will destroy themselves and u and then start to cry

I regretted given my girlfriend (now my wife) the chance. We were in a no sex courtship but to my surprise, she was cohabitating with a pastor.

Ezalb:
For a girl who is to be wedded to man in a days' time to visit another man the day before whom she previously had a relationship before only spells one thing....parting gift, because she obviously did not go there to do devotion...perhaps the groom to be suspected foul play and put a PI on her...haven said that, she is guilty because she was caught,but this can go 2 ways........what was the man doing the night before too, we know what goes on in bachelors eve and the likes, could it be one of his exes visited too?? we should blame the woman but also know that the man might also not be a saint.....i rest my case

Men and women are not same. You can argue and write paragraphs about this situation and I'll still tell you that men and women are not same. Just like in this particular case.

If a guy is caught fcckin in marriage, people will just talk and move on. If a girl is caught doing same, not only will she be ridiculed but the marriage ends.

You'll have your points and facts but nothing will change the fact that men and women are not same. The situation is greatly different.

The girl in question will live the rest of her life in regrets. Firstly, she lost a potential husband, the person she went to visit will definitely not marry her because he has a girl to marry. Although for pity sake, he may give her another round of serious banging but again won't consider her good enough for marriage.

MEN ARE THE PRIZE!!!

It's a different situation; know this and understand the dynamics of men and women!

No, I've not remarried. I really don't think it is worth it. Marriage in this part of the world is like forcing people to pair because that is what our society expects of you.

Coolsat:
You did well sir, have you remarried or you don't want to try again?

malaria:

It was too extreme for the day he choose to end it
As for him been right, he is .
He for just end it before the wedding day.
My gender no dey hear and may be someone snitcged on her .
She had all the time during wedding preparations to end her previous relationship. Even if her visit was for good , she was supposed to visit with her hubby or better still invite the guy to where her husband is . I feel.for her sha .

Why won't you feel for her? You feel for her because it maybe you in her shoes though you haven't been caught yet.

Zonefree:
My concern is the jollof rice.

What happened to the innocent jollof rice?

the people will still eat now.....a bi?

arantess:

Extreme ke?

What if she is ovulating and the ex has planted his seed?

You know what that means abi.

Extreme ke?

Sad thing is that cheating girlfriend will not use condoms when wedding is close. Same thing applied to cheating married women.