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I Don't Mind If My Girlfriend Or Wife Smokes And Drinks! Am I Weird? (19135 Views)

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Skooltynz: 11:28pm On Dec 05, 2024
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.

All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.

I dont know if I am weird or its just normal?

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Fenrir(m): 11:35pm On Dec 05, 2024
Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she mustnot do it were my kids are,all I just want is a woman that understands or think like me and is willing to me,I dont know if I am weird or its just normal

Not really mate
My mrs doesnt care that i smoke

As they say, a spliff a day keeps arguments away

All hail thc

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Skooltynz: 11:39pm On Dec 05, 2024
Fenrir:


Not really mate
My mrs doesnt care that i smoke

As they say, a spliff a day keeps arguments away

All hail thc

All I want in a woman is loyalty,understanding and

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correctyourself(m): 4:36am On Dec 06, 2024
What type of weed did you take before this your topics? Could be lemon 🍋 grass!

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Wealthoptulent(m): 10:59am On Dec 06, 2024
no
the earlier people face reality the better it gets... that why people got a lot of Stuff in the dark, which are not even suppose to be .... but CULTURE n HYPOCRACIES under RELIGION doesnt allow this
Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.

All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.

I dont know if I am weird or its just normal?

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medropoly(m): 10:59am On Dec 06, 2024
you are not weird bro, you are only a MUMU man

Imagine your children, coming home to meet their mother like those picture you ed.

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MadamVanessa(f): 11:00am On Dec 06, 2024
shocked



I appreciate your authenticity, and it's refreshing to encounter someone like you. If I were to consider dating or marriage in the future, I'd look for someone with your qualities.

I want to be upfront about my personal habits. I'm a heavy smoker, although I don't smoke weed. I'm addicted to cigarettes, and I don't try to hide it, even when I'm in Nigeria. I've faced judgment from others, but I've learned to ignore it. Quitting is not something I've been able to do, at least not yet.

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sboga: 11:00am On Dec 06, 2024
no you ok...as long as its gf
just to not wife d whre
Mandatemovent: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
correctyourself:
What type of weed did you take before this your topics? Could be lemon 🍋 grass!
Don't judge him things are fast changing

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PulaPower: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
No, you’re not..

So long your GF medulla is intact, ain’t nothing wrong with that..

Personality is personality, habit is habit..

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Hopebringer: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.

All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.

I dont know if I am weird or its just normal?

IF YOU REALLY DO NOT MIND WHY DID YOU BRING THIS HERE?

All these attention seeking kids who dont know their right from their left angry If you truly are an adult and know what you want why then are you asking for the opinions of us strangers? Do you see me or any other real man asking for any ones opinions on our choices?!! that is why it is called a personal choice!!! Personal! meaning no one else needs to know!!!

ALL THESE JOBLESS SMALL BOYS DISTURBING THE INTERNET WITH THEIR STUPIDITY EVERYTIME angry

No one cares to know what decisions you have made!!! better go find a job!!!
angry

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vincenteger: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
There's nothing wrong with smoking or drinking

It's the overdose that's the problem.

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Shawarmagirl: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
Likes attract likes mind they say. I can't marry anyone that smokes or a drunkards. Before I even accept to date you, these are questions I will ask. If you hind it, I'll find out one that and that will be the end.

There is nothing wrong with smoking or drinking. But it's my personal decision.

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pocohantas(f): 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
Smoking and drinking are not even seen as vices to some people. Especially those who indulge in them or have many in their circle.

Nigerians hate tattoos.
But I don't. I don't have a problem with someone spotting one. As long as it is properly done and not all over the place.

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BlueRayDick: 11:01am On Dec 06, 2024
I have a friend who shares the same line of thought .

I going to visit him one time like that and met him and his fiancé smoking loud .

Personally I don’t smoke but I don’t have anything against people who do provided they are responsible and don’t become nuisance to the society. However , I cannot marry someone who smokes . The people who marry them, I have nothing against them cos it is their choice .

Yorubas do say : Ohun to wunmi o wun ọ, nĂ­ o jáșč kĂĄ pawọpọ fáșč́ obĂŹnrin " Meaning : what I love is quite different from what U love, that's why multiple men don't pool together resources to marry a single woman

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opera1(m): 11:02am On Dec 06, 2024
And
HitSong: 11:02am On Dec 06, 2024
grin
You won't mind if you don't mind eating

LEFTOVERS
USED PRODUCTS
OLOSHOS
PUBLIC TOILETS
PUBLIC COMMODITIES
MARRIED MEN 4K OBJECTS
WASTED AND DAMAGED WHORÉS

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Wealthoptulent(m): 11:02am On Dec 06, 2024
Hopebringer:


IF YOU REALLY DO NOT MIND WHY DID YOU BRING THIS HERE?

All these attention seeking kids who dont know their right from their left
smoking aint even a social life but way of life and Culture, its a CHOICE it doesnt DEFINE U

idahme:



Smoking can define you, it depends what you smoke, you didn't say cigarettes but smoking. Someone smoking hard drugs can defined him
Lolz what's is hard drvg ? Is nicotine not also hard on health? It can only become Definition when it's ABUSED or ADDICTION (When u cant behave well and sane when u don't have one on time). All those things has its benefit at required quantity but dangerous n life threat in excessive .

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NewDea4: 11:03am On Dec 06, 2024
Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.

All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.

I dont know if I am weird or its just normal?

I pity you bra

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play5050: 11:04am On Dec 06, 2024
Am like u bro

I dnt know while, anytime I see a girl smoking it turn me on immediately

I actually like girls who smoke not kolos oh abeg

But if she can smoke weed, laud, AZ or cigarettes then she is my type

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lereinter(m): 11:05am On Dec 06, 2024
Smokers that want to born pikin, but don't want pikin to see them

If it's good thing why hiding it from pikin

Have you seen what's drawn on a pack of cigarettes?



Lolzzzzz đŸ€Ł

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incogni2o: 11:05am On Dec 06, 2024
It shows how terrible of a Father you will become.

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lereinter(m): 11:06am On Dec 06, 2024
play5050:
Am like u bro

I dnt know while, anytime I see a girl smoking it turn me on immediately

I actually like girls who smoke not kolos oh abeg

But if she can smoke weed, laud, AZ or cigarettes then she is my type

Pervasive

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monerozi5590: 11:07am On Dec 06, 2024
Things people normalise these days are shocking. Chai!

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Ogakokorokoman: 11:07am On Dec 06, 2024
You are not weird.
Many people do mot mind either.

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monerozi5590: 11:08am On Dec 06, 2024
lereinter:


Smokers that want to born pikin, but don't want pikin to see them

If it's good thing why hiding it from pikin

Have you seen what's drawn on a pack of cigarettes?



Lolzzzzz đŸ€Ł


Is really shocking.

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saasala(m): 11:08am On Dec 06, 2024
While there is nothing wrong with your desires, you should however look beyond the surface.

Your girlfriend has a very high chance of becoming your wife. Imagine having a wife who s you in smoking. Imagine the kind of home you will build, the kind kids you will raise. The kind of questions your parents and loved ones would ask.

Come on man
Gt321(m): 11:09am On Dec 06, 2024
Skooltynz:


All I want in a woman is loyalty,understanding and

Honestly most of this ladies that smoke watever are not really genuine in the game, something led them into it.
Some na heartbreak. Some na rape

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lailo: 11:09am On Dec 06, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



I appreciate your authenticity, and it's refreshing to encounter someone like you. If I were to consider dating or marriage in the future, I'd look for someone with your qualities.

I want to be upfront about my personal habits. I'm a heavy smoker, although I don't smoke weed. I'm addicted to cigarettes, and I don't try to hide it, even when I'm in Nigeria. I've faced judgment from others, but I've learned to ignore it. Quitting is not something I've been able to do, at least not yet.
No wonder ya marriage Vanish, madam Vanish sorry Vanessa undecided

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Starboytwo(m): 11:10am On Dec 06, 2024
I'm live and let's live. But then I don't like the following.

Woman who speak broken.. Nah

Women who smoke.

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Deicide: 11:10am On Dec 06, 2024
Then why do you have a problem with your kids ing her to smoke?

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owoshuyi(m): 11:10am On Dec 06, 2024
Have you considered the effect it may have on your children when they are born, If you marry her?

Skooltynz:
I see no qualms dating or marrying a lady that smokes or drinks like myself even though I know most guys will call it quit,as long as she is not a LovePeddler or irresponsible but she must not do it where my kids are.

All I just want is a woman that understands or thinks like me and is willing to me.

I dont know if I am weird or its just normal?

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