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Married Women, what's your biggest regret about marriage? Share some advice for the single ladies—anything you wish you'd known before getting married.

Those ones that always get fatter after marriage?

Not having full access to his bank and phone

I wouldn't say it's a regret, but I'm someone who easily gets home sick and I sometimes wish I wasn't married to someone who lives far from home.

Samantha125:
I wouldn't say it's a regret, but I'm someone who easily gets home sick and I sometimes wish I wasn't married to someone who lives far from home.

That's hard. But u moved on as culture says. So make ur new home a place u dont wanna leave.

I know its hard - Make use of video calls to see dem all the time, tell them how much u love and miss them (u probably didnt tell them enough while with them )

I like d fact that u said its nt regret but homesick. One love. ✌️

Hmmm!

Wished you can still get married and still not be married!

Like eating your cake and still having it...ish!

dalass:
I miss single and carefree life

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it

Marry who you're attracted to in all ways, desperation shouldn't push you to marry who's available and ready to do the needful. In a long run, you'll feel irritated and disgusted in whatever he does and nothing he does to please you will please you.

7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regrets or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


To me, Marriage isn't worth it at all. It's simply overrated. I regret ever getting myself involved in this nonsense. I was probably naive then , I can't blame myself much.

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I miss single and carefree life

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it

No regrets just for them to Bleep around

WeddingParol:
Not having full access to his bank and phone

Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo

dalass:
I miss single and carefree life

You get to do what you want, how and when you want to do it

Your ex included

nothing to regret after marriage especially If u took out time to study your spouse...even at that u have to make it work...missing your single life is been childish....it like a grand father wishing he was a toddler....that irresponsible...but if there's something to regret it should be getting married in Nigeria with crazy leaders in charge of national life

If you're single and promote breakups, abeg me on this bench.

My biggest regret.

I married a man I couldn't control to do my bidding

I want to quit even though we are financially more than comfortable but he doesn't care about my emotions and manipulations.

I'm sure for most of them their biggest regrets will be marrying for money (and then finding out the money is not really there) instead of the one they truly loved.

Okpo full time
Good for you

MadamVanessa:

7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regret or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.
Marriage doesn't worth it at all. My story is long but let just stop.

whytediamond:
My biggest regret.

I married a man I couldn't control to do my bidding

I want to quit even though we are financially more than comfortable but he doesn't care about my emotions and manipulations.

You're angry you can't manipulate your husband?
Just leave him and become a single mother. You'll get what you're looking for. Your mentor is above u, check.

Hear to read lies and truth...
I sell herbs

The biggest regret of most married women is that they were not able to optimize their hypergamy properly, after being dick downed by the Alpha's who won't commit, hence they settle for "less", the beta provider.

Of course they won't it this out loud.

Not too many persons with regret. Does it mean that men are doing

When you're of age and your son is about to get married, your daughter in-law would wish thesame and so shall it be.

You'll not escape it

OboOlora:
Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo

We need your honest opinion so that the men can make the necessary changes.

A prospective mother in law just laid a curse on herself up there, I won't quote though.

On God!

OboOlora:
Mother-In-Law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you must marry, wait the mother of your spouse is late.

Werey ni awon MIL yen ooooooooooooooooo

I suppose it will be fair to assume that you have no plan of staying alive to see your son get married? I don't understand the kind of needless hatred Nigerian wives extend to their husbands mom. That table turns and it will be your turn one day. That's if you remain alive to witness your son get married.

No Regrets. He is not a perfect person and I am not too. I have studied him like a book and I am still learning. We both have our moments, in all we move.

MadamVanessa:



7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regret or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


Marriage doesn't worth it at all. My story is long but let just stop.

Go check yourself