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celeb10: 11:21pm On Oct 11, 2024
A man claims that he is an alpha male and would rather invest his money in appreciating assets over engaging with women he perceives as undesirable. However, he spends considerable time writing about why one should check a woman’s phone instead of writing on investment strategies, don't be fooled people we know fake men when we see then, real men don't have time for trash like this.

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cococandy(f): 11:21pm On Oct 11, 2024
iLegendd:
If my crypto s that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police..

What if she had a crypto that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?

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Winnin009: 11:25pm On Oct 11, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens


Lol! bro, you need to get a life. If na woman matter make you write all this trash, you clearly have too much time on your hands. LOL

No go get better thing to do! Dey there dey find woman weh go be slave to you the way your mama was a slave to your father.

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cococandy(f): 11:25pm On Oct 11, 2024
All this because of Guinness?

Haydens:


A lot of men will marry dustbins and rubbish in the incoming years.

Give women freedom and they will over use it, give them power and they will abuse it.

Women don't deserve any atom of power because they are abs naturally, that's why in this life I will never take any woman serious.

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iLegendd(m): 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2024
Haydens:


Well said.

Who gives a flying fvck about women and their stupid thinking?

A man has himself and that is more than enough.
So, with that, you should know that me being dramatic tonight doesn't define me, but my energy based on her energy.

She might engage me two hours later and I won't even notice her, so I just wanted to give her the attention as e dey hot.

These women just love drama, so it's not everytime you keep quiet just to maintain steez to be regarded as alpha.

If you keep maintaining steez to your woman or a woman, you're automatically boring to her.

No be every argument women bring up na him you suppose avoid. Roll on the dirty with them once in a while. This is a secret most men don't know. Make them happy by doing a little Cho Cho Cho. They may never have the opportunity again or might only be lucky after some years to see you engage in another Cho Cho Cho.

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Haydens: 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2024
JimD:
There is a difference between being intrusive and being centered as a man. You should have a degree of control but you should respect her space as she respect yours, making sure she knows your "rules". Anything beyond that is narcissistic behaviour.


Any self made man has every right to be a narcissist because he worked very hard to reach there.

Women are naturally narcissistic because of simps and foolish men that inflate their ego but men have to work hard to be narcissistic.

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Chetas81(m): 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2024
xtianchris:

Hahaha Omo I just get Better Update .. Confidential 🤣🤣 God Bless you OP 💯. And you my guy Tokskob2008❤️
YOU GUY'S WON'T FINISHED US ON THIS FORUM😀😀😀🦖😀😀😀
alimiadedayo1: 11:30pm On Oct 11, 2024
iLegendd:
Hi
How is work are you into IT
Haydens: 11:36pm On Oct 11, 2024
jrusky:
So accessing phone now your biggest headache ba?

Pls some of you guys need thorough slapping at the back of your head to reset your brain.

You never hear where gate man dey knack oga wife inside oga compound before ba, do they need phone to commit such?

Better grow up and stop being a bloody simp.

Woman wey go cheat go cheat if you like carry her phone and pur it inside your boxer short na hypertension go kill you las las better go focus on your life not to die too soon on top woman matter.

💯💯

But there are somethings that are beyond your control just that what op is trying to say is that you should always keep your woman in check.

What I'm after in a woman these days is that if I marry let all my children be mine, if she doing whatever outside and I found out she's leaving that day without me even thinking twice.

Loving a woman and still letting her go immediately if she fvcks up is the BEST decision a man should make.

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iLegendd(m): 11:40pm On Oct 11, 2024
cococandy:


What if she had a crypto that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?
I have never met a woman with a crypto — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their s with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.

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iLegendd(m): 11:51pm On Oct 11, 2024
Too many SIMPs on here fighting against the truth. Giving a woman freedom is a sign that you don't care about her and you're careless.

You just want to knack and you don't care who she's knacking behind. When she comes back from her adventure, you'll still knack her raw, isn't it?

Don't worry, when you spend 1m treating infection, you'll understand too much freedom corrupts a woman. This same SIMP will be the one to abuse her and call her ashawo.

Try to know the difference between having access to her phone and being desperate/needy. That's what these Gen-Z SIMPs don't understand.

For me, if you deny me access to your phone, you'll never be upgraded to a girlfriend status let alone a wife—that thing you're hiding, keep it up and let's play the game together.

SIMPs can think otherwise, but real men don't care—there principles or rules must be obeyed, else, she's just a friend with benefits.

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TheFinesseKid: 11:51pm On Oct 11, 2024
iLegendd:


Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.
grin This man! Make I lick your ass small na.
cococandy(f): 11:53pm On Oct 11, 2024
Great

So then my first question stands. If crypto is a good reason for you to safeguard your phone from her, is she allowed to safeguard hers from you as well?

iLegendd:
I have never met a woman with a crypto — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their s with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.

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ufotunang: 12:04am On Oct 12, 2024
Can she also have access to your own phone

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ufotunang: 12:05am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
Don't Take Her Seriously Except This Happens

..can you also allow her to have access to your own phone?

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iLegendd(m): 12:08am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
Great

So then my first question stands. If crypto is a good reason for you to safeguard your phone from her, is she allowed to safeguard hers from you as well?


As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank , yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.

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TheFinesseKid: 12:09am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
Great

So then my first question stands. If crypto is a good reason for you to safeguard your phone from her, is she allowed to safeguard hers from you as well?

This one sef dey bored.
iLegendd(m): 12:13am On Oct 12, 2024
ufotunang:
..can you also allow her to have access to your own phone?
Yes. Na she go even vex return am. Na screenshots of business ideas, transactions, trading, unfinished books, investment plans, this and that and lots of boring things she go see. It seems a lot of Nigerians have too much to hide. E come be like say na only me and a few be sane person for this country.

But, let me ask you. Between Ned and Regina, who do you think has access to the other person's phone?

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TheFinesseKid: 12:13am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:


As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank , yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.
boss why you dey engage these lots na?
cococandy(f): 12:14am On Oct 12, 2024
All the follow up about money wasn’t necessary.
The point is that if you can safeguard your phone because of your financial assets, a woman can too.

iLegendd:


As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank , yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.

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iLegendd(m): 12:14am On Oct 12, 2024
TheFinesseKid:
This one sef dey bored.
She dey try pull my legs so that she'll laugh and scream, "I gotcha, double standard."

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TheFinesseKid: 12:16am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:
She dey try pull my legs so that she'll laugh and scream, "I gotcha, double standard."
lmao. 🤣🤣 Majority of these feminist dey moomoo die. They don't even know what or whom they are fighting for/against. With them moomoo herd mentality.

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iLegendd(m): 12:21am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
All the follow up about money wasn’t necessary.
The point is that if you can safeguard your phone because of your financial assets, a woman can too.

You can't tell me what is necessary. You were looking for a fault, but I didn't give you room to spot any, so it pissed you off. Hahaha. Women!

No matter how educated a woman is, she can't win me in an argument that requires logic and nature. If I quit, it's just because I feel I have spoken too much already and I'm looking too available. Over availability reduces value.

Safeguard your money, I have zero interest in it, but you can't hide your social media apps from me if you want a serious relationship with me.

Anyway, have a nice day.

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budaatum: 12:28am On Oct 12, 2024
Haydens:

A lot of men will marry dustbins and rubbish in the incoming years.

Give women freedom and they will over use it, give them power and they will abuse it.

Women don't deserve any atom of power because they are abs naturally, that's why in this life I will never take any woman serious.

Give women "atom of power" fuq, like pigs have the nucleus of power to give or we need your permission to get it. Why don't you just put a burqa on me while you at it please?

Fez up dude, you are afraid. You are there wondering how you will dominate women because dominating women is all you know, about give us "atom of power", lol. As If the fact you are afraid of women is not sufficient evidence of how powerless you are and how free we are.

You be there thinking you can use your lack of power to convince women they are mere ribs that you can shackle and you the man.

Women, in this 21st century you've found yourself in are not asking anyone to give us freedom, because we are out there using our compounded power to be free while snivelling ignorant weak men aren't aware what's happening around you as you cower in fear.

But personally? I love that you exist. You show that we must not only put life in you with our tit, but must also put sense in your head with the wisdom and knowledge in our heads so we don't end up breeding pigs. Or carpenters, if not for very educated Mary.

You, sir, will live very very long.

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budaatum: 12:30am On Oct 12, 2024
Haydens:


Ilegend, see the way a woman is just playing with you because you want to prove yourself because of a pussy.

See as she dey use you dey mop floor.

Your post doesn't even depict an atom of you.

You saying he ain't hard enough?

Hmm.

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Tendd: 12:31am On Oct 12, 2024
You better live with your wife in Nigeria with this your mindset,if you expect such from a wife.However,wage disparity makes it impossible for feminism to thrive here,despite various policies for women emancipation.The dependency mindset of our women also makes it even harder.

I can understand men from the west who go to countries like Thailand, Philippines to check for foreign brides but that won't change anything in the west because women rights are deeply entrenched in western culture.



I disagree with you on videos that you say are taking down because of their stance on overweight women.No,there are many on YouTube.

All in all,guys, make money so you can determine the kind of lady you want to spend your life with.

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iLegendd(m): 12:42am On Oct 12, 2024
TheFinesseKid:
lmao. 🤣🤣 Majority of these feminist dey moomoo die. They don't even know what or whom they are fighting for/against. With them moomoo herd mentality.
Na women na. Las las, na man wey dem no dey respect go still hang their legs for up, except they're lesbians, as most of them are.

As long as a cho cho cho woman will one day humble herself and spread her legs for a man, from a gender she feels she's equal to, she has been defeated.

Only a woman that'll NEVER allow a man breed her will be considered a strong woman — the rest are just depressed noisemakers with flat yansh, tiny breast, also ugly face, etc. that men have rejected and out of anger, they started hating men.

You hardly see beautiful and endowed women hating on men except she was too full of herself because of her assets when this was younger and now men are no longer interested because of her current age.

18 to 25 or max, 27 is all we want—even men at 60. Only teen boys from 13-19 want older women for the fun and humiliation so they can brag to their friends and say, "I have knacked your aunty—you think say I be small boy?" It's just for the pride. When they grow, they'll switch to 18-25 years girls, except the old woman is tooooo rich.

If a woman can't take advantage of this age 18-25 bracket, she has 6 options left.

1. She gets lucky and a SIMP or Church member finds her worthy (all these career women think we care about their money and career — we only care about their respect and faithfulness)
2. She becomes an angry feminist
3. She switches to lesbianism
4. She adopts a child
5. She goes diabolical
6. She stays single, rich and happy (but deep down, she's not happy—make we just pretend say she dey happy for peace to reign cheesy )

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iLegendd(m): 12:45am On Oct 12, 2024
Tendd:
You better live with your wife in Nigeria with this your mindset,if you expect that from your wife.However,wage disparity makes it impossible for feminism to thrive here,despite various policies for women emancipation.The dependency mindset of our women also makes it even harder.

I can understand men from the west who go to countries like Thailand, Philippines to check for foreign brides but that won't change anything in the west because women rights are deeply entrenched in western culture.



I disagree with you on videos that you say are taking down because of their stance on overweight women.No,there are many on YouTube.

All in all,guys, make money so you can determine the kind of lady you want to spend your life with.

It's recently they allowed it. YouTube used to bring them down. Tiktok, a Chinese company, doesn't care about it because they mostly think like Africans in of culture.

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budaatum: 12:46am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:


Most women would rather turn transgender than to it the truth, so I don't expect honesty from you. You're so fixated on the dick I mentioned, yet you're acting disgusted by it because you're a lesbian hiding under feminism. Alright, e don do. Enjoy. Deceive and convert all the women. We know you people's agenda.

Shame dey catch me say I dey exchange words back and forth with you, a lesbian feminist that would rather die than to listen to a man.

I'm from a complete home, so we don't add bitterness to our lives — we just want our beautiful women to be women-like and not depressed lesbian feminists who think equality has a room in a real man's life.

All of a sudden, and just because your precious big diq is worthless to me, you have now decided I must be a lesbian, lol, and it is me that is ashamed because I don't listen to pigs?

You don't want your beautiful women to be beautiful anything, iLegendd. What you specifically want your women to be is slaves that listen to your crap and those other pointless things, and you've never considered not being crap or that some woman might appreciate your brain instead.

You might be a lost cause, though I trust I'll get through to you one day, but the good thing is that you might end up blessed with daughters.

I, buda, curse you today with my immense feminist lesbian power that you will bring them up to believe they breath fire so a real man is worthy of them and not some worthless pig.

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iLegendd(m): 12:46am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:


All of a sudden, and just because your precious big diq is worthless to me, you have now decided I must be a lesbian, lol, and it is me that is ashamed because I don't listen to pigs?

You don't want your beautiful women to be beautiful anything, iLegendd. What you specifically want your women to be is slaves that listen to your crap and those other pointless things, and you've never considered not being crap or that some woman might appreciate your brain instead.

You might be a lost cause, though I trust I'll get through to you one day, but the good thing is that you might end up blessed with daughters.

I, buda, curse you today with my immense feminist lesbian power that you will bring them up to believe they breath fire so a real man is worthy of them and not some worthless pig.

I didn't bother reading. I have given you too much attention. Now rest.

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budaatum: 12:50am On Oct 12, 2024
dipsx:
One of the easiest way to live with a spouse/partner is to share to your phones.
It helps you to be very careful and responsible especially as a man.
Started it long before marriage still doing it till date including my ATM pins.
It gives you almost 0% suspicion.

You are a trustworthy person and you trust your partner who trusts you in return.

How I wish you would consider telling us how your experience has made you both grow and produce what will grow more so we all may learn.

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budaatum: 12:58am On Oct 12, 2024
iLegendd:


I didn't bother reading. I have given you too much attention. Now rest.

You can not rest. And even if you have tried hard not to read what you claim you never "bother reading", you and I know there is a definite limit to which you can cover your eyes and claim you are blind.

As for me rest. 3 pints of Guinness, fuq. And I got transport at 7! Definitely shouldn't have done that. So wake me up at 6 please. I'm setting you as my alarm.

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