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LADIES, I WANT TO BEG YOU, DON'T MARRY A MAN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!

Helping your man succeed is not a problem, ing a man who has nothing and earns low is not a problem, assisting your man to pay bills till he finds his footing is not a problem but helping a man who is proud, stubborn, unteachable, arrogant, naive or narrow minded because he is plagued with low self esteem is a big problem! A huge mistake! A disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never help a man who is not ready to help himself!

Never marry a man with an entitlement mentality!

Do not think of going to the altar with a man who lacks vision, who doesn't know where his future is heading, who envies you, resents you, argues with you or even fights you whenever you advice him or offer suggestions that will improve his life! You don't need any prophet to tell you he is a disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never marry a man who keeps talking faith but has no work! You hear? what the Bible (James 2:26) says!

Do not marry a man who borrows from you and never pays back!

You can only marry a man who has a sound, clean-clear vision for his life he is pursuing! Read that again, HE IS PURSUING! If he has a vision of building a super successful ministry, he is not at home sleeping by 10:00am claiming he is a full time Pastor! By 5:00am (latest) in the morning, he is up, praying, studying, working and out in the area of his calling ministering to people! Not flirting with you on phone, asking for nudes and masturbating till afternoon when all his mates are at work earning decent income!

Wake up LADIES! I often get questions that make me wonder if these ladies ever think or they are under a spell!

Bottom line, marry with sense!

Ensure he has a job, work or vision he is pursuing!

Ensure he is not lazy or idle!

Ensure he has a growth mentality!

Ensure he records progress daily, weekly, monthly or yearly!

Ensure he is humble, teachable and sees you as his partner not a competitor other wise, he will be bitterly jealous of you, limit you and destroy your chances of ever succeeding in life!

May you not mischoose!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2024.
[email protected]
Facebook: Seun Oladele

By 5:00am (latest) in the morning, he is up


Are you taking us back to bordering house days of secondary school? Ah! Wake up 5 am daily. Ah !

You don't need to tell women this, every woman knows this instinctively.

It sounds like your message is aimed for men.

This should be both ways. A woman with low self esteem is even worse.

the above stands for women AND men...

Never help a woman who is not ready to help herself!
Never marry a woman with an entitlement mentality!
Do not think of going to the altar with a woman who lacks vision, who doesn't know where her future is heading, who envies you, resents you, argues with you or even fights you whenever you advice her or offer suggestions that will improve her life! You don't need any prophet to tell you she is a disaster going somewhere to happen!
Never marry a woman who keeps talking faith but has no work! You hear? what the Bible (James 2:26) says!
Do not marry a woman who borrows from you and never pays back!
You can only marry a woman who has a sound, clean-clear vision for her life she is pursuing! are under a spell!
Bottom line, marry with sense!
Ensure she has a job, work or vision she is pursuing!
Ensure she is not lazy or idle!
Ensure she has a growth mentality!
Ensure she records progress daily, weekly, monthly or yearly!
Ensure she is humble, teachable and sees you as her partner not a competitor other wise, she will be bitterly jealous of you, limit you and destroy your chances of ever succeeding in life!

Points taken

So who should marry them? Other men??

Hmmmm

I want to ask a question, your gf recently bought a car and you ask her what is the cost and she says "I can't say".

I see it as disrespect, buying a car isn't much of a secret that you will hide it from your man.

What's your input on this issues.

I do not understand what is behind all these Seun posts of recent. Has he met the typical Nigerian woman? A woman who has 2 naira more than her man and who makes that man's life hell?

Nigerian women do not know how to manage success without making their homes casualties. Yes she got more change than the man and begins lording it over him and the man reacts. Should that be termed as the man has low self esteem?

Nigerian women are a pitiful lot. Give up on them. Take the time and see how Kamala Harris eyes glows anytime she is looking at her husband. He is an officer in the US army. She is running to be US president... his future commander in chief. But she still adores him and respects him. She has no children of her own but she shows her husbands kids so much love that they call her mom and her husbands ex-wife has become Kamala's close friend. The kids see how she loves thier father even though she has a higher societal ranking than him. How many Nigerian women can love a man they are more than?

We have a generation of damaged women in Nigeria. Women who can't manage small success. That's why when they go to the West, they unleash hell on thier husbands. All over Europe and America, why is it Nigerian women always having issues with husbands?

The worst thing that can happen to a Nigerian man is if his woman has more change than him. He will suffer. When he chooses to speak out against the disrespect his woman shows him, he is termed insecure. That's rubbish!

Seun is asking women to push their men to standards even the women themselves can't meet. His posts are becoming a poison. Adopt what he is saying at your peril.

Another SPECIAL ADVISER

It's easier said than done, how many young men here are currently dating ladies whom does the above qualities she mentioned at the beginning of her epistle?

It's easier to find a virgin at a night club in Lekki than finding such girls now in that Nigeria.
Before you meet the little good ones, you would have met the unfortunate ones that you'd have forgotten what the word love even means anymore.

please guys please don't just scroll . please I beg you in the name of almighty GOD pls someone should please help me, my little sister and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on Thursday last week. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since on Wednesday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for kid sis please am a primary school teacher and a house painter, our mom is late and my dad has retired. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD in heaven come to your aid as you have come to ours. Amen Opay M.A

Low Self esteem man with Money, bar, bucks, Dough, pepper, raba, ego, kudi, shandi, gbemu, paper

Babes will fall in. They will what

FAAAAAALL IN..

Advice from a lady who brings nothing to the table except her watery smelly p**sy

Not flirting with you on phone, asking for nudes and masturbating till afternoon when all his mates are at work earning decent income!

Come on bro nobody does this

Women on average don’t notice men with low self esteem. If anything, the men repulse them. No matter how handsome a man is, lack of confidence will chase potential partners away. The trait is worse than bad odours of any sort.

This post is terribly annoying abeg. If no be say thunder inform person say e dey for mechanic shop for repairs, we for tell am to align go this Seun house.

Na to see man first.


All these plenty standards when all a man wanted is a lady with BIG YANSH and BREAST.

If she like make she no get sense.

What if a low self esteemed man is the right man for a particular sister?

Woman that is on her very late 40s can marry a man that don't even have self esteem

Oya o

sweetkev:
Advice from a lady who brings nothing to the table except her watery and smelly p**sy

Relax papi.. She's actually bringing somtin to d table


Its called CLASSY BULLSHIT

Men with low self esteem. Lol.sheera calls them dusties. Tufiakwa. Their controlling,obsessive rivalry and envy ...tuehhhh

Ladies raise the babies.... including the 'low self esteem'

Those are the only men left that are willing to marry .... The rest done drink red pill 💊💊💊

seunoladele:
LADIES, I WANT TO BEG YOU, DON'T MARRY A MAN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!

Helping your man succeed is not a problem, ing a man who has nothing and earns low is not a problem, assisting your man to pay bills till he finds his footing is not a problem but helping a man who is proud, stubborn, unteachable, arrogant, naive or narrow minded because he is plagued with low self esteem is a big problem! A huge mistake! A disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never help a man who is not ready to help himself!

Never marry a man with an entitlement mentality!

Do not think of going to the altar with a man who lacks vision, who doesn't know where his future is heading, who envies you, resents you, argues with you or even fights you whenever you advice him or offer suggestions that will improve his life! You don't need any prophet to tell you he is a disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never marry a man who keeps talking faith but has no work! You hear? what the Bible (James 2:26) says!

Do not marry a man who borrows from you and never pays back!

You can only marry a man who has a sound, clean-clear vision for his life he is pursuing! Read that again, HE IS PURSUING! If he has a vision of building a super successful ministry, he is not at home sleeping by 10:00am claiming he is a full time Pastor! By 5:00am (latest) in the morning, he is up, praying, studying, working and out in the area of his calling ministering to people! Not flirting with you on phone, asking for nudes and masturbating till afternoon when all his mates are at work earning decent income!

Wake up LADIES! I often get questions that make me wonder if these ladies ever think or they are under a spell!

Bottom line, marry with sense!

Ensure he has a job, work or vision he is pursuing!

Ensure he is not lazy or idle!

Ensure he has a growth mentality!

Ensure he records progress daily, weekly, monthly or yearly!

Ensure he is humble, teachable and sees you as his partner not a competitor other wise, he will be bitterly jealous of you, limit you and destroy your chances of ever succeeding in life!

May you not mischoose!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2024.
[email protected]
Facebook: Seun Oladele

i no read this long thing......
which one be man wey get low esteem.... or na low libido you dey talk......
so men get bar and every stew for this present situation....?
we are dynamic beings... we rise and fall.....
dont this age get that.....?!

Dey play for where money dey?
Any lady will lick the underwear of these men as long as he is way richer financially