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Please, experience people in the house most especially married Nairalanders.
Is it possible for a dirty and untidy lady to change with time starting from dating to after marriage as you keep correcting her and making her to be what you want. Because you love her. Can she changes with time or Na Military Zone?

I'm sure you must be dirty too kos if you were clean dating her will irritate you.

Two dirty lovers, marry yourselves already.

Op you can't change her , it's better you leave that relationship or continue with it like that till death.

you can teach her on how to be clean, and she may do it for you (for a while), but ultimately what she is... is A DIRTY PERSON and this you wont be able to change. so when she no longer needs to make any effort to impress you (aka after marriage or childbirth) thats exactly who you will be stuck with....a DIRTY wife comfortable in her filth, raising dirty children in a filthy environment.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure you must be dirty too kos if you were clean dating her will irritate you.

Two dirty lovers, marry yourselves already.

. Don't say that dear......

Let me gist you small here.....See en, before I started this Keke riding Job,I used to be very neat.....As a matter of fact,even when I first started riding the Keke,I was also very neat .....Used to wear perfumes,nice clothes and smelt very good.....But as time went on,na once my babe begin notice say I don dey deviate from my normal neatness routine . It was then she started bombarding me with her many many talks untill I began to retrace my steps back small small.....I think I'm doing better now,than how I was as at some months ago...

But op, being dirty before pre-season doesn't mean such a partner can change when the mean season begins......

Ayomide11111:
Please, experience people in the house most especially married Nairalanders.
Is it possible for a dirty and untidy lady to change with time starting from dating to after marriage as you keep correcting her and making her to be what you want. Because you love her. Can she changes with time or Na Military Zone?

Dirty or not prostitute or not most Nigerian women The Pussy is very big and huge so it does not really matter whichever one you go for they are all the same

Sure! She can change, that is if diseases don't kill you first.

NO

Ayomide11111:
Please, experience people in the house most especially married Nairalanders.
Is it possible for a dirty and untidy lady to change with time starting from dating to after marriage as you keep correcting her and making her to be what you want. Because you love her. Can she changes with time or Na Military Zone?

Dey play

Ayomide11111:
Please, experience people in the house most especially married Nairalanders.
Is it possible for a dirty and untidy lady to change with time starting from dating to after marriage as you keep correcting her and making her to be what you want. Because you love her. Can she changes with time or Na Military Zone?

Cleanliness can be learnt. You have to be intentional about it.

The dirtiness alone shouldn't be your main fear right now but other little things folks fail to consider when the romance is still hot.

- Her zest for progress and new things

- How innovative is she and how easily does she budge when encouraged to leave her comfort zones

- Her attitude to correction

- Is she the communicating type or the moody ive aggression quiet type.

- Dirty or not, do you have any Class Difference between you two. Is she just dirty perceptually or consummately? Like, I mean, does she just do things that would look clean to those at her level like running around with unshaved armpits, not showering before bed, not using body sprays, cologne etc OR is she the eating with dirty hands, leaving the whole house dirty, eating without picking plates, leaving stinky filled kitchen sinks for days OR the absolute worst type, the holding-spit-in-the-mouth-all-morning-without-brushing type?

If she's any of the above and she's the type that doesn't take correction or makes you an enemy for pointing out these simple things to her, your marital life, mental health and future happiness does not have a snowball's chance of survival in hell.

She will settle down, settle in, unpack her gross antecedents and start raising little piglets for you after making your home a pigsty.

This question coming from an Ayomide sounds so ironic and iconic.

She will not change after marriage, instead she gets worse.🥱

chachanga:
The dirtiness alone shouldn't be your main fear right now but other little things folks fail to consider when the romance is still hot.

- Her zest for progress and new things

- How innovative is she and how easily does she budge when encouraged to leave her comfort zones

- Her attitude to correction

- Is she the communicating type or the moody ive aggression quiet type.

- Dirty or not, do you have any Class Difference between you two. Is she just dirty perceptually or consummately? Like, I mean, does she just do things that would look clean to those at her level like running around with unshaved armpits, not showering before bed, not using body sprays, cologne etc OR is she the eating with dirty hands, leaving the whole house dirty, eating without picking plates, leaving stinky filled kitchen sinks for days OR the absolute worst type, the holding-spit-in-the-mouth-all-morning-without-brushing type?

If she's any of the above and she's the type that doesn't take correction or makes you an enemy for pointing out these simple things to her, your marital life, mental health and future happiness does not have a snowball's chance of survival in hell.

She will settle down, settle in, unpack her gross antecedents and start raising little piglets for you after making your home a pigsty.

Yes, she has all the above Dirty traits you mentioned. She can goes a whole day without brushing teeth and foods keep going. She can goes a week without thorough bathing with soap just to wash face and legs perhaps taking shower sometimes. Piles up dirty clothes, leaves used plates inside the sink for days and so on

Can't teach an old dog new tricks, you go quarrel tire.

Good luck though.

Ayomide11111:
Please, experience people in the house most especially married Nairalanders.
Is it possible for a dirty and untidy lady to change with time starting from dating to after marriage as you keep correcting her and making her to be what you want. Because you love her. Can she changes with time or Na Military Zone?

Are you asking for a friend or yourself

Sonnobax15:
. Don't say that dear......

Let me gist you small here.....See en, before I started this Keke riding Job,I used to be very neat.....As a matter of fact,even when I first started riding the Keke,I was also very neat .....Used to wear perfumes,nice clothes and smelt very good.....But as time went on,na once my babe begin notice say I don dey deviate from my normal neatness routine . It was then she started bombarding me with her many many talks untill I began to retrace my steps back small small.....I think I'm doing better now,than how I was as at some months ago...

But op, being dirty before pre-season doesn't mean such a partner can change when the mean season begins......

How can U be comfortable being dirty as an adult and only change when another adult takes up the matter with U? Na wah being neat isn't a duty but a way of life. U shouldn't be told before U do it it's just like eating food. Nobody needs to tell U na, U eat when hungry normally and even sometimes when ur not hungry. Na wah ooo

They is only one tribe in Nigeria known for dirty and smelly kpekus. Run from them.

Lai-lai.

Some supposed clean ones turn dirty sef, talk more of already dirty ones.

No she won't change as it has been her attitude and besides she's the one that suggested that to you as a man that why must u be dirty

Run o!

What you see during dating phase is just 10% of what you'll see during the marriage!

EreluRoz:
I'm sure you must be dirty too kos if you were clean dating her will irritate you.

Two dirty lovers, marry yourselves already.

walahi.

i wonder how someone will be standing in front of a rubbish situation and trying to jump into it to STRESS his life instead of turning away to better options

Oracleee:


Are you asking for a friend or yourself

For Myself

Once she is faithful no hookups,no cheating but only dirty is her problem why not you trained her to be neat if you are a neat type. Hold her tight cos 80% of our women are prostitutes both uncode and coded style.

The way una carry marriage for head needs to be studied.

Ayomide11111:


Yes, she has all the above Dirty traits you mentioned. She can goes a whole day without brushing teeth and foods keep going. She can goes a week without thorough bathing with soap just to wash face and legs perhaps taking shower sometimes. Piles up dirty clothes, leaves used plates inside the sink for days and so on

Lord Jesus!🥺 Houston, We Have A Problem!🤷
And you really really love her.
This is gonna pose a big problem o. Especially when she starts appealing to friends and family to help talk you into not letting her go based on her promises to "change". Most of them never do. They just get recalcitrant and start resentfully pushing back at you in the future years when you need peace and stability the most.

Kobicove:
Run o!

What you see during dating phase is just 10% of what you'll see during the marriage!

Totally Agree.
And by that time, they'd be believing that they must have so grown on you enough that you ought to free them to be their crappy shitty self.
Then you'll see them wearing their sloppiness with pride and trying to tell the whole world you're the bad one.