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A lot of Lagos men need to be taught the importance of boundaries. They need to learn when to stop and how to stop. When you approach a woman and she says I'm married it is important you step back but some men will refuse and still decide to move mad.

It's okay to accept rejection and respect people's wishes. I have had this experience with a lot of Lagos men that is why I had to make a video about it.

https://youtube.com/shorts/zYH4KY2qQg0?si=pGEBHPbOx3ySW6nd

It’s seriously serious this days

Wittyglam:
A lot of Lagos men need to be taught the importance of boundaries. They need to learn when to stop and how to stop. When you approach a woman and she says I'm married it is important you step back but some men will refuse and still decide to move mad.

It's okay to accept rejection and respect people's wishes. I have had this experience with a lot of Lagos men that is why I had to make a video about it.

https://youtube.com/shorts/zYH4KY2qQg0?si=pGEBHPbOx3ySW6nd

They way you dress and present yourself matters.

Truvelisback:
They way you dress and present yourself matters.

This is a lie from my end because I dress 100% decent but some men are going loose.

Ritaezinne:
It’s seriously serious this days

Very serious.

Those guys dey try
How do u find another man's meal attractive

OP, start insulting them after the first rejection, they should respect themselves enough to stop that

Truvelisback:
They way you dress and present yourself matters.

Please tell me this theory is applicable to all men? Yes?

superCleanworks:

Please tell me this theory is applicable to all men? Yes?

Maybe.

Wittyglam:
This is a lie from my end because I dress 100% decent but some men are going loose.

You dey whine. Until i see you. Aside that, the way you present yourself or the way you relate with the opposite sex.

Wittyglam:
A lot of Lagos men need to be taught the importance of boundaries. They need to learn when to stop and how to stop. When you approach a woman and she says I'm married it is important you step back but some men will refuse and still decide to move mad.

It's okay to accept rejection and respect people's wishes. I have had this experience with a lot of Lagos men that is why I had to make a video about it.

https://youtube.com/shorts/zYH4KY2qQg0?si=pGEBHPbOx3ySW6nd

You should note the following...

1. No stranger would hit on you on publicly unless you're immorally dressed. So look at yourself carefully and try to look more like a married woman. If possible let your ring be on your finger always.

2. If you're experiencing this at your place of work, limit the way you relate with males there. Maybe you're the friendly type, and knowing Nigerian men, many would easily mistake an innocent smile for green light thus hitting on you.

3. You may have formed the habit of asking favours from men; ranging from money, lift, lunch...etc. Some married women do this. If you fall into this category, men would always hit on you. Cos they'll feel you owe them. They wouldn't care if you're married.

4. If you're the party and club type, or you do hang out with your friends at bars and lounges. You'll definitely have men hitting on you. So search yourself and see where you need to change.

I have a handful of married female friends, and none of them has ever complained about this to me. In fact one even told me that she finds it difficult to make male friends ever since she got married. That once they know she's married, they'll just withdraw.

Wittyglam:
This is a lie from my end because I dress 100% decent but some men are going loose.

Unyime Umoh when did you get married?