NewStats: 3,264,062 , 8,182,471 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 01:51 PM 272r3b

I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband were most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband we're most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

Date any age you want to date as long the age gap is reasonable. For example, 25 year old woman dating a 33 year old man is descent

atoliman:


Date any age you want to date as long the age gap is reasonable. For example, 25 year old woman dating a 33 year old man is descent

That's decent enough.

My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

atoliman:

Date any age you want to date as long the age gap is reasonable. For example, 25 year old woman dating a 33 year old man is descent

Let women go out there and make money first. They should forget about dating

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband we're most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

sorry o.. But this your comment makes very little or no sense at all.. One of my ex.. I'm the youngest guy see's been with. I'm six years older than her. Last time i saw her(less than a week ago) she's still not married. So what's your point?

Madups:
sorry o.. But this your comment makes very little or no sense at all.. One of my ex.. I'm the youngest guy see's been with. I'm six years older than her. Last time i saw her(less than a week ago) she's still not married. So what's your point?

why will she date an unstable man like you despite your age gap? She's not smart to have dated you

Every woman I've talked to who is over 25 has at some point in their youth rejected several suitors for various reasons.
They have themselves to blame .

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now because obviously you are broke. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

U are wicked..

Sarcasm on steroids

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now because obviously you are broke. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

This is BS! Women are not meant to work. Their place is the HOME taking care of children.

EreluRoz:
why will she date an unstable man like you despite your age gap? She's not smart to have dated you

Its very obvious u are the one who's is unstable between the both of us.. Now dating older men its no longer the issue? Its now shifted to smart men.. Pls dont quote me again cos i wont even read it.. I thought i was trying to converse with a reasonable human not knowing its a mad person with phone and access to the internet.

Advice for bannies who wanna go into a boxing ring with meno-stop ..

Continue to work on yourself as a woman. It's better to be single and happy than being in relationship with an irresponsible man in the name of marriage. Get pregnant, raise your kids and enjoy your life.

Madups:
sorry o.. But this your comment makes very little or no sense at all.. One of my ex.. I'm the youngest guy see's been with. I'm six years older than her. Last time i saw her(less than a week ago) she's still not married. So what's your point?

Next time, don't say Sorry o when Replying that Iyaebe aka Ereruloz woman.

@38yrs of Age, She is NOT married but likes to form Relationship or Marriage Mistress.

Ereruloz na YoungMama Youngie.😒🙂

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband were most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

Come let me marry you now. Nairaland is bearing witness that I want to marry you and you're wasting time.

It's the society that pushes them to accept any offer of marriage.

Nigeria is especially unkind to women when it comes to relationship matters.

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now because obviously you are broke. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

My brother my brother.

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now because obviously you are broke. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

hmmmm correct your self please. Most Nigeria men don't run after rich ladies biko.

Madups:
Its very obvious u are the one who's is unstable between the both of us.. Now dating older men its no longer the issue? Its now shifted to smart men.. Pls dont quote me again cos i wont even read it.. I thought i was trying to converse with a reasonable human not knowing its a mad person with phone and access to the internet.

So you weren't mad with that your first response? Go home if you are looking for someone to massage your bruised ego.

udede:
hmmmm correct your self please. Most Nigeria men don't run after rich ladies biko.

person like me, I no send your money. Na peace of mind I dey find.

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All of una dey funny here

They have been waiting and they are at that age and can't find a partner of their dreams, is it when they enter menopause that's when they can find a partner of their dreams?

Delusional mindset and lack of self awareness and ability is what is mes most ladies as regards looking for a partner.

A poor, average looking lady wants to marry a rich man ., she didn't ask herself how many people are comfortable in the environment where she find herself to know if that is possible. To bring to your notice about 5% of people have 500k and above in their in the country and 80% of the ladies in Nigeria are looking for those 5% , why won't you have difficulty looking for a partner?

The story long I don tire to type maybe I go complete wetin dey my head later

All of una dey funny here

Polynek:
All of una dey funny here

Very funny

NSNO:
It's the society that pushes them to accept any offer of marriage.

Nigeria is especially unkind to women when it comes to relationship matters.

Someone can't find a dream husband in her peak sexual market value is it when it has plummeted that's when she can find her dream husband? Make Una bring down the delusional mindset down ooo, it's not about Nigeria it's obtainable everywhere. Once you ed your time to select a partner your ability to select one afterwards tends towards zero than 1

Hmm

No hard & fast rules in life...

You may rush & still find Mr Right
You may rush & get Mr Wrong
You may rush & still not get married

You may wait & find Mr Right
You may wait & still find Mr Wrong
You may wait & not get married

The race is not to the swift,
Nor the battle to the strong,
Nor yet favour to men of skill;
but time and chance
Happeneth to them all.

Na so life just be.

Anytime u choose to marry, marriage challenges must surely meet u. Even if you married an angel, which is impossible.

The earlier you start to carry your own marriage burden, the beta for u or you rather remain single but think of old age. Except you don't pray to get to 70's and above

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now because obviously you are broke. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

And you want to make heaven like this with all these vawulence in your heart? Mr, your mind no clean at all o!