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Bride-to-be cancel their wedding prior to the D-Day in Vom, Jos.

The wedding scheduled for Saturday, May 4th, 2024, in Farin Lamba, Vom, Jos South Local Government Area of Plateau State, was cancelled prior to the D-Day.

Florence Friday, the bride-to-be, requested N30,000 from her groom-to-be, Morgak James, on March 28th to book her wedding gown. Morgak, unable to provide the full amount, offered N15,000 with a promise to complete it the following week. Florence, in anger, insisted on receiving the full amount before the week's end, threatening to call off the wedding otherwise.

Two days later, Morgak managed to gather the N30,000 and sent it to Florence to proceed with the booking. However, this resolution led to another condition from the bride-to-be.

Tudun Wada Broadcast, while collecting first-hand information, reported that Florence requested Morgak to move out of his family house and get his own apartment. After a lengthy debate, they agreed to live in the family house for two months after the wedding before renting their own apartment. This agreement was reached before Morgak proceeded with the introductions, church g, and paying the bride price. But Morgak was shocked prior to the main day when he received a call that the wedding has been called off by his bride-to-be for not parking out of his family house.

According to our source, Morgak had invested significantly in the wedding. Despite this, Florence's family had canceled their introduction dates more than three times due to various reasons, including visiting a student in school. Our sources also mentioned that her family had once canceled their introduction a day before the D-Day.

"I've never seen a responsible man who would bring his bride into his family house for his parents to take care of or claim he doesn't have money while planning his wedding." - Florence, the bride-to-be

⚠️ Groom-to-be narration

My name is GOTAU NENPOJI GOTAU

THIS IS THE STORY BEHIND MY COUSIN'S WEDDING CANCELLATION AT VOM.

According to Morgak, it all started like a joke. In about two weeks to the wedding, one faithful day while they were on phone call gisting about their wedding plans. She then ask him a question, where did you say we are going to stay after our wedding. He replied; at Vom. and she ask, with your parents? He answered yes, and further said, but for just two months so i can figure out what next, probably to rent a place in Vom since that's where i make my earns need. Then he ask, why is she asking him that question when they have discuss about it already. She said she is no longer inline with that agreement and insisted that he must rent a house before the wedding date, with emphasis that the house must be rented in Jos not Vom.

Politely, he responded; we will rent a house wherever you so wish and desire but after the wedding, because i have a lot of things to put in place at the moment before the wedding date which you're aware, he said!
He even went too weird to calculate for her what her family ask him to provide before he comes to pick her the day before the D-Day (eve) and it cost more than 500k (+ T.P) aside from the wedding plan itself.

Upon that, she still insist that he must rent the house "IF NOT NO WEDDING".
He again reminded her of their agreement to stay for two months in the family house after the wedding before parking out and sequel to that, renting a house now will be more or less economic illiteracy and again at a peak of this hard time, his strength can't shoulder that burden and it's too late to go about looking for a house prompt to the wedding date. He further said, beside what is the essence of renting a house in Jos when none of them is working or running any business there. He could have consider that option if any of them is working in Jos or running any business there. But she said she is not going to stay in the village and that's her final decision. She had given him her condition to rent the house before the wedding hold, hence she is calling off the wedding.

After realizing that she seems to be serious he then decide to visit her so they can have a heart to heart discussion on the matter. So when he got there he ask her;

Their conversation 👇👇
Morgak: Did I do anything wrong to you?
Florence: Yes.
Morgak: What are those things?

Florence: 1. I have never seen any responsible guy who will marry and stay in his father's house.
2. I have never seen any responsible guy who will love to marry and keep the wife to his parents to take care of.
3.I have never seen any responsible guy, that barely a month to his wedding and he will say he doesn't have money to rent a house, that means he is not serious & ready. He should go and find money before coming back.

Morgak: All these are things we have discuss I don't know where it's now coming from.
Anyways,
1. my father hasn't send me out of his house, even though you have no idea how the said house was built.
2. I can't telling you I will bring you to my parents whom I pay their bills to take care of you. Beside, not like I'm leaving you with my parents. We are only staying there for just 2 months.
3. It's God that gives money and if he didn't give me today it doesn't mean he won't give me in some time to come. So please be patient and understand my position for now. I will definitely get a place for us wherever you want after the wedding.

However, all plea and effort to reconcile issues didn't yield any positive result.

After that day she call the Pastor and told him the wedding is cancel. The Pastor call both families together and sat them down to see if the issue can be settle but she still remain adamant.

So since she call it off, he really can't force her to marry him, he then respected her decision and move on.

Note: Traditionally she is his wife, but since she have decide no to go ahead with the wedding which the supposed date was on the 4th of May. Our family have ed the middle-man and plans have been made to go and meet her family for the refund of the dowry and every penny he spent in the cause of the wedding plans.

Gotau Nenpoji Gotau

Never tell an old woman to close her legs when you don’t know where she’s getting air from



Telling a guy to leave family house you no know wether things will be rough when he adds rent food to his bills




Anyways this the reason most men are single because of money to live comfort and private life

Abeg guy collect your money!

Buy one sachet of Panadol extra and use am for a week! Forget about her and move on!

That type of lady you want you'll see if you search wella! You for go village go pick educated girl. All those city-girls wannabees will give you migraine!

Do not waste time on what's not meant for you!

Interesting

Na by force? Couldn't even finish the whole write up.. The man should Thank his God and move on

COMRADES, you can see that, this one of the reasons why I always advise my fellow bachelors not to rush into marriage unprepared

As for the bride to be, since after all that the guy had done for you, but you still have the boldness to break the groom's heart at die minute by cancelling the wedding, kindly refund him whatever he has spent on you for peace to reign

Legit news... Like my therapist always say " take out 45mins everyday to fear women"

The ONLY reason a Nigerian Woman want to marry is for SURVIVAL.

THAT IS WHY EVERY SATURDAY I GO TO CHURCH AND LAUGH AT STUPID MEN WHO ARE MAKING THE WORST MISTAKES OF THEIR LIVES IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE

Men marry because of LOVE
Women marry inorder to SURVIVE
You as a man have take care,provide, her for the rest of your life.

Women don't marry for Love
Na MONEY women dey marry oooo

That is why she marry and secure a SIMP that will take care of her for life

While she go and collect gbola from that her poor Ex that she truly love.

Why she no kuku marry the Ex she truly loves??

Because she marry you because YOU CAN PROVIDE
Nothing concern love for marriage for Women

Only 1 purpose for Marriage for men is to provide,provide,provide till they die

And when you can't provide any longer.

She go meet another guy that will provide,provide,provide till they die.
That's why Women live longer, men dey die like fowl
,
And mumu MAN will still kneel down
And propose to be a Woman's slave for the rest of his life.

Make all of una Clap for Women

They have been using Men to cashout for Centuries😂😂😂

Strange behavior

eddychukwu:



Gotau Nenpoji Gotau

E reach to cancel

eddychukwu:



Gotau Nenpoji Gotau

U sure the bride wan marry, abi she just need urgent 30k, otilo

Sad

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In all of these, you'd be surprised to discover that the stupid bride to be made zero contribution.

The marriage would never have worked.

She should fàck off. But men are crazy sha, why are we so eager to carry burdens that we will get no appreciation for?

correct

the bible made it clear that a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife

anything short is an unnecessary interference/stress for the new couple

Her decision is not condemnable.

U suppose not to cancel it

A very valid reason ,I wouldn't date or marry a man that still lives with his parents ,regardless the living condition.

I love ,LOVE my privacy and space a lot ,some days you wake up and just want to be alone and want your thoughts coordinated.

You automatically become the family's Chef ,Advicer, emergency Gele tier ,Nanny to everyone and having someone else make decisions for you and hubby.

Even if it's a face me public compound ,let's contribute and rent . I no need see finish !

Let Florence and her family refund all that James have spent. Fear who no fear woman

Living in a family house is good for some folks,but it slows down the growth and happiness of other folks.

I feel the man is accustomed to living in a family house while the lady does not like living in a family house.

Easy things:

Just enter the papa house collect money for introduction, bride price and things way I don buy way them share for the family.
Next, na to use that money rent house for Jos then marry another lady.
If them no go give me my money and things way I mention, na to go court direct or tell pastor make him pray for my anger spirit else I kill mortals

Hmmm

Two yeye people. Why print IV and waste everybody's time when you've not even concluded on these things?

davies:
Let Florence and her family refund all that James have spent. Fear who no fear woman

Hmm

Better for both parties...

Okies

Did she contribute any money to rent an apartment?

Another superstore...