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I just think I have failed in life, each day I wake up the first thought on my mind is always sucide, how to end it all because I feel hopeless and think I can't make it or that I'm cursed, I have been unemployed since I graduated and no skill, I'm 29, will be 30 this year but I don't know what to do with my life, I'm clueless and don't know how to fix mylife, I don't have ion or zeal to learn any Skill because I don't think at my age I can cope, with the high cost of living now, who will I depend on while learning or what best to do just Pity my family because with the level of the depression in me now I don't think I can survive it beyond this year if nothing changes.I just feel I should go on exile I just don't know how to help my self and I don't speak up or seek for help.

Where there's life, there's hope. never give up, always believe it will end in glory for you. please go and learn a skill now, don't depend on the assistance, it would only drag you backwards.

believe and trust in God, you will succeed at the end. never lose hope, hope is very important in life. it serves as a purpose to keep us strong against all odds. the reason you're feelings suicidal is due to your lack of hope.

rebuild your hope and start again, it shall be well with you.

Giving up at 30? Don't just try suicide ooh. You still have full life to achieve anything oooo.

Now that u know u are not adding value to ur life and family and dying is the only option on the table...why not take the biggest risk by starting all over again.

Forget that graduate shit...see yourself as one who is learning to start all over again.

Start planning to leave ur parents now,living under the bridge in another state is far better than wasting away as it will make u realised no one is there to help but u.

Leave ur parents and leave that location u are presently,it has hampered u badly and it will further do u more harm if u fail to take any action.

You should find a job where you can simulatenously acquire new skills. How about you start helping out in garage and by doing so learn to service or even fix cars? Just an example.

You are too young to quit your life. The best is yet to come.

hookupagent1:
I just think I have failed in life, each day I wake up the first thought on my mind is always sucide, how to end it all because I feel hopeless and think I can't make it or that I'm cursed, I have been unemployed since I graduated and no skill, I'm 29, will be 30 this year but I don't know what to do with my life, I'm clueless and don't know how to fix mylife, I don't have ion or zeal to learn any Skill because I don't think at my age I can cope, with the high cost of living now, who will I depend on while learning or what best to do just Pity my family because with the level of the depression in me now I don't think I can survive it beyond this year if nothing changes.I just feel I should go on exile I just don't know how to help my self and I don't speak up or seek for help.

You are losing hope at just 29 years? I won't like to compare you with some people but I want you to know that there are many over 40 years old people who are much hopeless than you, and they are still living their lives hoping for better days.

All you need to do is to pick your bag and run far away from home. When you reach a new environment, state or country, the new hustling spirit will enter you, and from there, you can take drastic steps to repositioning your life. If God had giving us power to know tomorrow, no one would've been suffering in this life.

yemmit90:


You are losing hope at just 29 years? I won't like to compare you with some people but I want you to know that there are many over 40 years old people who are much hopeless than you, and they are still living their lives hoping for better days.

All you need to do is to pick your bag and run far away from home. When you reach a new environment, state or country, the new hustling spirit will enter you, and from there, you can take drastic steps to repositioning your life. If God had giving us power to know tomorrow, no one would've been suffering in this life.

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Change of environment is very important.

Hookup agent.

hookupagent1:
I just think I have failed in life, each day I wake up the first thought on my mind is always sucide, how to end it all because I feel hopeless and think I can't make it or that I'm cursed, I have been unemployed since I graduated and no skill, I'm 29, will be 30 this year but I don't know what to do with my life, I'm clueless and don't know how to fix mylife, I don't have ion or zeal to learn any Skill because I don't think at my age I can cope, with the high cost of living now, who will I depend on while learning or what best to do just Pity my family because with the level of the depression in me now I don't think I can survive it beyond this year if nothing changes.I just feel I should go on exile I just don't know how to help my self and I don't speak up or seek for help.

6 years ago. I was almost in same shoe. I even made a whole thread her on nairaland about my frustration. Fast forward till today, things changed. Believe bro.

akube34:
6 years ago. I was almost in same shoe. I even made a whole thread her on nairaland about my frustration. Fast forward till today, things changed. Believe bro.

why can't you tell us how things change without going into full details? At least it'd give OP and so many people going through one difficulty or the other sort of hope. I don't think what you said is convincing enough for him and others not to give up and probably keep pushing

Lifeinlight:
why can't you tell us how things change without going into full details? At least it'd give OP and so many people going through one difficulty or the other sort of hope. I don't think what you said is convincing enough for him and others not to give up and probably keep pushing

I am not trying to convince anyone. I just want him to believe.

akube34:
I am not trying to convince anyone. I just want him to believe.

You dunno who your story can help, we are plenty on this forum that feel suicide is the best option when we take into consideration the current state of things

I don't know how to get it off my mind, I'm losing hope each day

hookupagent1:
I just think I have failed in life, each day I wake up the first thought on my mind is always sucide, how to end it all because I feel hopeless and think I can't make it or that I'm cursed, I have been unemployed since I graduated and no skill, I'm 29, will be 30 this year but I don't know what to do with my life, I'm clueless and don't know how to fix mylife, I don't have ion or zeal to learn any Skill because I don't think at my age I can cope, with the high cost of living now, who will I depend on while learning or what best to do just Pity my family because with the level of the depression in me now I don't think I can survive it beyond this year if nothing changes.I just feel I should go on exile I just don't know how to help my self and I don't speak up or seek for help.

Is that all?

Suicideboy:
Just find rope


Stop suffering yourself



Problem solved

This is the most irresponsible and insensitive comment (.. and by far) I've read online this year.
I get the feeling that you're just as frustrated, if not worse than the poster.
If you can't offer him any hope, why don't you just keep quiet and read on.
.. @ poster, pls ignore this comment and rather focus on the ones that offer you hope, however little it may be.
It shall be well with you.

Emmanuel30a:
Is that all?

Yes

hookupagent1:

Yes

Hookupagent1, you know see clients...? No clients? DO WHAT YOU FEELS AND ANYHOW YOU FEELS IT SHOULD BE DONE...

TURN TO THE BIBLE, WHERE HOPE IS FOUND. VISIT THE XTIAN MINISTRY NEXT TO YOU. YOU WON'T REGRET IT

Bro he hard but ask yourself why u won cause people pain mak u go leave for earth when it's hard for all
bro after u die
You go regret

Ginaz:
Where there's life, there's hope. never give up, always believe it will end in glory for you. please go and learn a skill now, don't depend on the assistance, it would only drag you backwards.

believe and trust in God, you will succeed at the end. never lose hope, hope is very important in life. it serves as a purpose to keep us strong against all odds. the reason you're feelings suicidal is due to your lack of hope.

rebuild your hope and start again, it shall be well with you.

helo good morning how do u do happy day.
please do u kindly hav yansh?(no oofencsece)

Nice2023:
Now that u know u are not adding value to ur life and family and dying is the only option on the table...why not take the biggest risk by starting all over again.

Forget that graduate shit...see yourself as one who is learning to start all over again.

Start planning to leave ur parents now,living under the bridge in another state is far better than wasting away as it will make u realised no one is there to help but u.

Leave ur parents and leave that location u are presently,it has hampered u badly and it will further do u more harm if u fail to take any action.

I have no where to go to

Emmanuel30a:
Is that all?

Yes

hookupagent1:
I just think I have failed in life, each day I wake up the first thought on my mind is always sucide, how to end it all because I feel hopeless and think I can't make it or that I'm cursed, I have been unemployed since I graduated and no skill, I'm 29, will be 30 this year but I don't know what to do with my life, I'm clueless and don't know how to fix mylife, I don't have ion or zeal to learn any Skill because I don't think at my age I can cope, with the high cost of living now, who will I depend on while learning or what best to do just Pity my family because with the level of the depression in me now I don't think I can survive it beyond this year if nothing changes.I just feel I should go on exile I just don't know how to help my self and I don't speak up or seek for help.

nothing will change until you decide to get up and change your situation,just imagine your self in a room with no ventilation ,when there is no more oxygen to breath you get suffocated,so what do you do?do you stay in the room and get suffocated or you run outside and grab some fresh air?well the choice is yours.