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Women can be really funny at times and take frivolous things serious. My girlfriend came around to stay with me for a while, so she was kinda of expecting that we would celebrate Val or stuff but unfortunately I am low on funds cos I just settled some bills earlier this month.

After work today, I just bought only 1k palm wine because we enjoy taking it together, but I observed she was a bit moody. I just faced my front cos I had just 5k on me and I still have about 2weeks to go till the next pay day so I am being very prudent with it.

She kept making side comments about how other ladies would be receiving gifts from their boyfriends by now and other sarcastic talks. She lager opened up this night about how today is her worst val ever and it's more of a haters day for her. I told her to calm down, after all we have celebrated Val for the past two years very well so she shouldn't be upset not going out today. She insisted that it's not going out but I couldn't even get her fish or meat, I simply told her that I can't afford anything now and she's been giving me the cold shoulder.

Dump her ass.
She should have taken you out if she cares
Love is symbiotic

She's insensitive to be talking like that in this current economy, you have done the right, your happiness and comfort first before any other thing.

Remove 500naira from your 5000naira and buy her suya... simple..

Abi suya no be meat?

You have being doing val before,so she expects it .you shud have explained things to her so she go comot mind .I don't see anytin wrong in wat she did

If i may ask, what is Valantine about and what`s it`s relevance to relationships?

Lonestar124:
Remove 500naira from your 5000naira and buy her suya... simple..

Abi suya no be meat?

Of course, it's better than nothing

See me wey even dey talk like say I see even common biro

Vijuchoco:
Of course, it's better than nothing

See me wey even dey talk like say I see even common biro

You no get boyfriend?

Yes or No?

Lonestar124:
You no get boyfriend?

Yes or No?

Lol. I no get, you wan give me one ni

Vijuchoco:
Lol. I no get, you wan give me one ni

Me sef I no get girlfriend..

Who you be my girlfriend?

Yes or No?

Lonestar124:
Me sef I no get girlfriend..

Would you be my girlfriend?

Yes or No?

That depends on who was ruling Nigeria when you were born

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She can always get a job and assist

Are you dating a broke Nigerian girl

What stops her from taking you out? Is she a physically challenged or an orphan that has lesser opportunities available to them?

A one way traffic relationship doesn't always end up well for the man, you will have stunted growth without knowing what is stagnating you.

Lonestar124:
Remove 500naira from your 5000naira and buy her suya... simple..

Abi suya no be meat?

I know, but that 5h can serve a better purpose, we've been eating suya before now.

Aaaaarghmed:
You have being doing val before,so she expects it .you shud have explained things to her so she go comot mind .I don't see anytin wrong in wat she did

She doesn't need explanation, she knows the situation of things first hand.

Lonestar124:
Remove 500naira from your 5000naira and buy her suya... simple..

Abi suya no be meat?

Did you read where he said that's his last card for the month which is two weeks to go? We entertain bad habit from ladies and still turn around to lambast them for doing same.

Aaaaarghmed:
You have being doing val before,so she expects it .you shud have explained things to her so she go comot mind .I don't see anytin wrong in wat she did

Val is meant for the man alone to spend

Clap your hands, you got the answer correctly

SyrusdeHansome:
If i may ask, what is Valantine about and what`s it`s relevance to relationships?

It's a day for ladies to extort men

Vijuchoco:
Of course, it's better than nothing

See me wey even dey talk like say I see even common biro

Give


It's better to give than to receive

How person go carry liability dey nurse am like new born baby still baffles me! Tell her to get a work or start something! Abi, she wan give you high bp?

Supremedrizzy:
I simply told her that I can't afford anything now and she's been giving me the cold shoulder.

Tell her to pack her things and leave your house immediately.

If you allow yourself to sleepwalk into either getting her pregnant or marrying her, your life will never be the same again as she will wreck you financially, mentally and emotionally.

Remove that albatross from your neck 'cos life is hard enough without having to deal with an UNREALISTIC ingrate.

Wotoporiously speaking

This is the kind of news I love to hear today, nairaland never disappoint...🤣🤣🤣🤣

Your girlfriend don sign endorsement deal with Valentine's day, he reach today you cancelled the deal

Comrade I love your style 😂

Op won't see the red flag now...

Years later, he'll get married to her and if things to sideways for him, she'll leave him and OP will come here to lament..

If you can't buy, can't she buy too? Why is she making it one-sided, either way. What do I know? Beans is now 1k per derica

There is really nothing symbolic in Feb 14, do not let anyone push you too hard. Explain to her and tell her that when you get paid, you will do the needful.

A reasonable individual will never hold that against you. If she however proved otherwise, don't say anything again. Let her do her worst, make sure you hold your ground also and make it to month ending graciously the way you planned. Ignore her pressure man.

Stupid girl as the saying goes

When you marry or date a man you are marrying or dating his lifestyle too.

Why even give a chance to a broke man smh she haven’t seen nothing yet, some women are so stupid.

Supremedrizzy:
Women can be really funny at times and take frivolous things serious. My girlfriend came around to stay with me for a while, so she was kinda of expecting that we would celebrate Val or stuff but unfortunately I am low on funds cos I just settled some bills earlier this month.

After work today, I just bought only 1k palm wine because we enjoy taking it together, but I observed she was a bit moody. I just faced my front cos I had just 5k on me and I still have about 2weeks to go till the next pay day so I am being very prudent with it.

She kept making side comments about how other ladies would be receiving gifts from their boyfriends by now and other sarcastic talks. She lager opened up this night about how today is her worst val ever and it's more of a haters day for her. I told her to calm down, after all we have celebrated Val for the past two years very well so she shouldn't be upset not going out today. She insisted that it's not going out but I couldn't even get her fish or meat, I simply told her that I can't afford anything now and she's been giving me the cold shoulder.

99 percent of women are the same..they don't reason with their brains rather they reason based on feelings if u follow them most times dey go just lead you ashtrays..like see now brother man dey reason how to guide for the remaining of this month while him babe dey reason why she no go date night today cos of all the status she go dey view...go even dey reason why she dey with you in the first place and won't even mind dumping you for a new guy just for today...na that kind person u wan trust...ppl wey no dey stable.

So you can't even do ordinary grilled fish of 1.5k for your girlfriend instead you bought palm wine as per drunkard that you are Then you have mind to come online to try and gaslight her without her knowledge with your fellow broke boys abi
Inukwa. It will be better if that lady leaves you ASAP if you can't take care of her
God help me not to see broke men like this ever in my life
Shiorrrrrr!! ! !! !!

Vijuchoco:
That depends on who was ruling Nigeria when you were born

na ibb regime, don't mind me Sha, am just pulling your leg..

Have a wonderful day darling

Supremedrizzy:

I know, but that 5h can serve a better purpose, we've been eating suya before now.

Removing 500naira from your 5000 will not be bad, than breaking up with her like some people suggested here..