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Let ladies speak for themselves, are you a lady ?

Gosh! There's always a wanna be hero

Some of them are lazy.

Hmmm

Lifeinlight:
Reason why some women dey show men like you pepper for abroad. No any iota of sense

I pity the unfortunate woman that'd end up with you.

So what is bad in his statement exactly ?

He should tolerate toxic women and not throw them out ?

What exactly are they building?

Two storey building abi na castles in the air?

PureFace1:



So what is bad in his statement exactly ?

He should tolerate toxic women and not throw them out ?

Same way they're throwing you guys out abroad, why you come to social media to cry wolf

Nicepoker:
Could be your sis. The part I said if she misbehaves you didn't see that. Did you?

Same men cry like mumu whenever women throw them out or dump them abroad

Lifeinlight:
Same way they're throwing you guys out abroad, why you come to social media to cry wolf

You are not even making any sense, just hypocritical and emotional like a typical woman.


The matter of discussion is what that guy commented, i don't know about the other gibberish you are saying.

There's no need forcing any woman to build with you. I don't believe in that idea.

Most women in this generation will later claim that they were the one who made you successful irrespective of how minute their effort is

From experience,people change.Maturity is important and people should love genuinely not fake.Everyone is giving out limited emotions nowadays.Many fake people than real people.I had someone years back who we were assisting and helping ourselves with good mind,but as usual,if woman dey assist you,you no go hear word again,as a man if you are broke and dating,dont be broke for long.she will gbaga.I was broke for long,but I kept reassuring her to be patient ,because i had visions,i had plans,i was striving very hard,she saw it and she knew i am not lazy.But women must listen to outsiders,who will want to crash any good thing,she listened at the end.As God will have it ,all the big plans we usually discuss even as money no dey,I don achieve dem.sometimes,e dey pain me say she no trust me upon all the re assurances.Now,I would have given her all she asked for.This is a lady that follow me to trek in wuse 2 to be submitting my cv for job,we trek from afternoon till evening.She really tried,but people no allow us rest.Dem poison her mind.To see a strong and matured lady who will build with you no easy.Am not blaming ladies, I know some guys after having money,abandon ladies too.i just wrote a snippet of my experience with the only lady who would have had access to everthing I have in this life,only if she believed in me till the end.

Some do. The majority don’t. This writeup won’t provide any information I never knew prior.

I don't know, I build for myself and carry my babe along with me, the reason she trusts me, is because she has seen me help her get jobs and change career and lead a team, building with someone comes easy, when the person is building and carrying you along.

These gender ways are getting old.

Most women are who'res except for few village girls


They'll fork Chad, chop his money and settle for one bald simp at the end with countless abortions

Lifeinlight:
Same men cry like mumu whenever women throw them out or dump them abroad

Because you gathered the entire facts concerning them and came to the conclusion that they fell into that category. Oga rest.

Thank God say you know.

PureFace1:



You are not even making any sense, just hypocritical and emotional like a typical woman.


The matter of discussion is what that guy commented, i don't know about the other gibberish you are saying.

some of you ignoramus men can't take half of what you dish out to women. I am a man like you so i know. If you have the mentality of throwing your wife out if she misbehave, why then do some of you cry wolf whenever same scenario happened abroad to men?


Why?

@op, can you please define "build with a man" because it's not clear.
So any girl that stays with you when you don't have money has built with you Even when she's putting you under unnecessary pressure or even fucking other men while you're together?

Bro, in today's Nigeria, many girls who stay with a man when he doesn't have money have not seen a better "serious" alternative or she's expecting you hit it big soon, of which when you didn't, she will start giving you headache!
Know this and know peace!

Nicepoker:
Because you gathered the entire facts concerning them and came to the conclusion that they fell into that category. Oga rest.

Are we not on the same social media? Don't we see how some women throw their husband out or dump them abroad? Don't we see how some men cry endlessly because of that but ignore some men in Nigeria throwing their wives outside or making them baby mama and move on


Hypocrisy

Jeon:
Op you're right on this, but some people will still disagree 👎 with you.





As if he won't get it from someone else, or leave the moment she declined.
This can come as a surprise to see him choosing the one giving him regular sex over you building with him.



I learned from people's Relationship.This thing matter no concern me

Life is full of colorful fun for us to be deceiving ourselves.

hi long time.
It's been a while

Aaaaarghmed:
From experience,people change.Maturity is important and people should love genuinely not fake.Everyone is giving out limited emotions nowadays.Many fake people than real people.I had someone years back who we were assisting and helping ourselves with good mind,but as usual,if woman dey assist you,you no go hear word again,as a man if you are broke and dating,dont be broke for long.she will gbaga.I was broke for long,but I kept reassuring her to be patient ,because i had visions,i had plans,i was striving very hard,she saw it and she knew i am not lazy.But women must listen to outsiders,who will want to crash any good thing,she listened at the end.As God will have it ,all the big plans we usually discuss even as money no dey,I don achieve dem.sometimes,e dey pain me say she no trust me upon all the re assurances.Now,I would have given her all she asked for.This is a lady that follow me to trek in wuse 2 to be submitting my cv for job,we trek from afternoon till evening.She really tried,but people no allow us rest.Dem poison her mind.To see a strong and matured lady who will build with you no easy.Am not blaming ladies, I know some guys after having money,abandon ladies too.i just wrote a snippet of my experience with the only lady who would have had access to everthing I have in this life,only if she believed in me till the end.

Very relatable. I advise you reconsider her if she's still available. She had faith in you but was discouraged. Sometimes ladies are encouraged when they see evidence that your efforts are yielding fruit. I feel she will make a better partner than another lady that will meet you as "ready made" I hope you understand what I'm saying

So it's to be opening legs upandan for rich men that is good?.. the OP is trying to give credence to "shortcut to success".

Getting cash and favours through sex whether corporate or not is still part of pr0stitution.

It's always Nigerian women that complain.. Indians and other races are willing and ready to any man to the top.. Una don turn unaselves to leeches finish.
All of them don turn husband snatchers and home wreckers finish because they don't want to struggle and build with any man.

Lifeinlight:
Are we not on the same social media? Don't we see how some women throw their husband out or dump them abroad? Don't we see how some men cry endlessly because of that but ignore some men in Nigeria throwing their wives outside or making them baby mama and move on


Hypocrisy

you only pay attention to the side of the narrative that suits your optics. Most of us see what these ladies are capable of. If you choose to build with a woman your choice not mine.

Ladies Refuse to Build with men they Don’t Like or Do Not Feel Attracted to If she likes you she will build with you , she will do this if you communicate your project or desires to her Clearly, A woman is a help meet she was put on earth to help a man with his Goals. If your Wife or girlfriend is not helping you build when they have the capacity to they’re probably not the right person for you.

Lifeinlight:
some of you ignoramus men can't take half of what you dish out to women. I am a man like you so i know. If you have the mentality of throwing your wife out if she misbehave, why then do some of you cry wolf whenever same scenario happened abroad to men?


Why?

Only foolish men get thrown out abroad. Cold hard fact. I even heard of one who foot the entire bill with his wife as the main immigrant when they are not in good from Nigeria. Foolish decisions will always guarantee unpleasant outcome

This is for those who have ears and I say this irrespective of gender. If you and your spouse are always at loggerheads in Nigeria, if you have deep rooted unresolved issue do not take him/her abroad or better still send him/her abroad, and stay back and visit.

A word is enough for the wise!

Nicepoker:
you only pay attention to the side of the narrative that suits your optics. Most of us see what these ladies are capable of. If you choose to build with a woman your choice not mine.

Interesting

So ladies don't see what most men or some men are capable of doing?

Iamzik:


Very relatable. I advise you reconsider her if she's still available. She had faith in you but was discouraged. Sometimes ladies are encouraged when they see evidence that your efforts are yielding fruit. I feel she will make a better partner than another lady that will meet you as "ready made" I hope you understand what I'm saying

yes,she would have made a very good partner at that time.We have not spoken in years,I deleted all her social media handles,so i dont even know where she is.I trained myself to move on and never look back.sometimes,i feel she regrets because i was a good boyfriend.I tried,she tried.Nothing wey we no through for this life.I mean,nothing.No longer interested in marriage.will just have a kid that's all.thats is why I dont want a broke lady now,because there is nothing for her to build in me anymore,at least a rich lady,we go complement ourselves.

Iamzik:


Only foolish men get thrown out abroad. Cold hard fact. I even heard of who who foot the entire bill with his wife as the main immigrant when they are not in good from Nigeria. Foolish decisions will always guarantee unpleasant outcome

Go abroad first, your wife or any woman will throw you out without cloth on your body and heaven will not fall

You're not more than a man than those that has been thrown out and will definitely still get thrown out by their wives abroad. Na the same prick wey me and you get them get

No dey blabb

Unwise thread.

Most Nigerian men nowadays aren't even looking for ladies to build with, they wanna make their money before settling down and that's why a lot of ladies in their 30s are complaining that men don't wanna get married.

At the end of the day, ladies are the ones being affected the most. 🤷🏾‍♂️

So even in cartoons now, the norm is for women to keep exposing the top half of their breassts?

Lifeinlight:
Go abroad first, your wife or any woman will throw you out without cloth on your body and heaven will not fall

You're not more than a man than those that has been thrown out and will definitely still get thrown out by their wives abroad. Na the same prick wey me and you get them get

No dey blabb

You need to learn simple comprehension. It obvious that you just ruhed to reply. Go back and read my post again