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My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

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I already mentioned that they have tablets.

oliverwrites:
I already mentioned that they have tablets.

Oh yes that's true. Let's pull a PS5 stunt on them! Or Nintendo switch their modes this holiday boss.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

Do those kids have a savings bank each that you are saving into for their future use? If yes, how often are you funding the s and if no, that is what you should do.

Stevenbright:


Do those kids have a savings bank each that you are saving into for their future use? If yes, how often are you funding the s and if no, that is what you should do.

My way of saving for them is buying lands for keeps for them. I intend to buy another plot of land in their names before end of June and they already have one each in good locations which I plan to develop for them and save the rent from there but this doesn't stop me from buying them a gift for Christmas. The future should not affect the now.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

Make this Christmas a complete family by uniting with their mother and spending the Christmas as a family. It's not about money all the time. This Christmas can be about happiness, love, family values and strength in unity. Every other thing is secondary here!

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

Farrason:
Make this Christmas a complete family by uniting with their mother and spending the Christmas as a family. It's not about money all the time. This Christmas can be about happiness, love, family values and strength in unity. Every other thing is secondary here!

If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

oliverwrites:
If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

So sad... But then, advise was based on the post. Enjoy your day.

My very close friend bought his child clothes instead of buying us alcohol. I feel betrayed. How could you choose someone you just knew over someone you've known all your life?
He obviously doesn't value the friendship. I'm out.

oliverwrites:

Just check on Amazon, lots of variety and the options can be unique.

If they love music, buy mini piano .. In fact buy anything that will help them develop their personal talent .. E.g Keyboard, guitar, bicycle ,football..

oliverwrites:
If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

i feel your pains and the love for your kids. i suggest you look at spending time with them in ur current location for some days. they miss their dad. they might be coping well but deep down they miss u and you seems to miss them so much. you 100% right to the kids. it must not be with the mom you can be the dad and mom for some days.

oliverwrites:
If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

what did your wife do to you?

I bet they wouldn’t mind dildos and vibrator

Hmmm... Despite the loud Sapa in the land, you dare come out with such narration as this!? You are even seeking advice from a people, majority of who are not certain of 50k for Christmas&newyear celebrations for their entire family!

This you post and everything attributed is kind of insensitive. I for say show off, but this nah faceless forum.

No matter how EXPENSIVE the GIFTs are, it could never fill the void your ABSENCE creates. Spend more time with them, and give them reason to always want you around.

Hopefully they're with you, and not with their mom, OR the situation of things between You annd their Mom, isn't so bad because Women have a way of turning KIDs away from their DAD, and it's always often a success, because She SPENDs more time with them.

Your own TASK should bbe ensuring that no matter how HARD she might TRY, She never succeeds.

bassdow:
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OP,

For your complete sanity, just avoid your wife since she's so Manipulative.

Get the kids computer games, clothes, shoes, paino (if they love music)

Abolodje:
I bet they wouldn’t mind dildos and vibrator

Sick mind is what you are

olabrinks:
what did your wife do to you?

How is that your business?

Bicycle, Teddy bear, books(novels, science etc), indoor games (Eg boards like Scrabble, Chess etc or any other that is educative or improves intelligence). Not ludo or any useless dice game.

You could also consider table tennis. But its mostly the eldest that may be able to play at the moment and would need a partner to play with.

Abolodje:
I bet they wouldn’t mind dildos and vibrator

Werey re o!

Abolodje:
I bet they wouldn’t mind dildos and vibrator

Guy get Sense

I would suggest you spend time with them and buy them anything that will their talents

[quote author=Abolodje post=127227443]I bet they wouldn’t mind dildos and vibrator[/quote

There are things you don't joke with when kids are involved, may God save our daughters around people like you ...

You dey seek advise from people making N10k per month from sales of Gala and Lacasera?

No dey oppress them na

englishmart:
My very close friend bought his child clothes instead of buying us alcohol. I feel betrayed. How could you choose someone you just knew over someone you've known all your life?
He obviously doesn't value the friendship. I'm out.

Obviously you are not serious; how can you compare a father's love to mere alcohol?

olabrinks:
what did your wife do to you?

Mind your business