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Guys, this is not a time to marry a girl you will train in school.

Let her be trained by her family and be employed before you approach her.

E no easy for anyone

Men who can afford that should do it, it's not for everybody.

This life no balance...my cousin who trained his wife has gotten more favour from the same woman.

My candid advice to anyone that wants to try it would be: Send her to school, pay for the first and second year, then marry her at year two. If she no gree, withdraw and allow her train herself to save yourself from heartbreak

Bukky001:
My candid advice to anyone that wants to try it would be: Send her to school, pay for the first and second year, then marry her at year two. If she no gree, withdraw and allow her train herself to prevent yourseld from heartbreak

will this prevent her from getting bleeped within those years?


have sense ijn ,no sponsorship you must come from a well to do family before I look your face.

Nice2023:
This life no balance...my cousin who trained his wife has gotten more favour from the same woman.

What favor? Didn't he train himself to be man enough while training her?

Training any woman is a charity and should never be done at the expense of training oneself as a man

Use the money you have to pay her bride price, then you can go ahead and sponsor her education in part or in full, depending on you capacity.
Many men I know have been used and dumped over the years, then at the end they become bitter towards other innocent girls and they become serial heart breakers all in the name of revenge.

In this Modern time, Only a FOOLISH guy trains a Nigerian girl to Higher Institution.

An untrained Nigerian girl deserves no bride price.

rottenPussy:
What favor? Didn't he train himself to be man enough while training her?

Training any woman is a charity and should never be done at the expense of training oneself as a man

The woman became very rich.

Built a house for him, a duplex for that matter in Abuja...made so much money from real estate.

Lol.. this thread reeks toxic masculine pride....
Make I dey one corner dey look coz anything I say may be used against me in the court of law

Greatest mistake a guyman will ever make is to send a banny to a higher institution.........if only those guys who did that way back in 2013 during my days at ozoro polytechnic knew how guys used to sample their so-called responsible bannies,dem for kuku use the money take buy agric fowl train

Bukky001:
My candid advice to anyone that wants to try it would be: Send her to school, pay for the first and second year, then marry her at year two. If she no gree, withdraw and allow her train herself to save yourself from heartbreak

you will still cry blood if you try this

The moment she enters school she’s no longer your girl, waiting to propose marriage to her in her second year is a fôolish move, if it’s a must you want to train her why not marry her first then send her to a school in the state you are living so she can go to school from home and be back at home same day

However this doesn’t prove anything or stop shit from happening

I know someone who trained a girl only for the girl to graduate and married someone else.

She said it was the Will of God.

garriAndsugar:
Men who can afford that should do it, it's not for everybody.

Men who are willing to cry should do it. Not everyone is fit to suffer

Nice2023:




The woman became very rich.

Built a house for him, a duplex for that matter in Abuja...made so much money from real estate.

No offence Mr. but this is unreal in Nigeria. You are not talking to kids hia.

The moment a woman becomes richer than her husband. She begins to resent him and looks for someone who is better than him.

But the moonlight story is good regardless

Nice2023:




The woman became very rich.

Built a house for him, a duplex for that matter in Abuja...made so much money from real estate.

lol, I still would not call that favor. It's only favor if he built the man a home when he was homeless, otherwise, it's just a gift. Nothing too special.

I don't pity men who do that.


I never it and will never such. It's so simpish and insane.

garriAndsugar:
Men who can afford that should do it, it's not for everybody.

It's stupid to do it even if one can afford it.

Better to buy a goat and train it instead.

rottenPussy:
What favor? Didn't he train himself to be man enough while training her?

Training any woman is a charity and should never be done at the expense of training oneself as a man

I wish they would listen.

Worst part is a good number of them sponsor dull heads, while waiting for “sane” ones to get sponsored by their parents. 😒

Especially those who go about looking for nurses and other female health workers, with hope they would “earn to assist them”.

I ask such men, “why didn’t you go study the course yourself?”

In Naija now, that money wey him go use sponsor her, the guy fit use am sort him way through the same course, while keeping his job (not easy, but doable).
After all, most of the sponsored ladies are some of the most unserious in school; as sponsor go dey sponsor, still dey pay sorting fees. 🤧

luminouz:
I don't pity men who do that.


I never it and will never such. It's so simpish and insane.

I can actually afford to train a girl through school but my SIMPlicity has not reached that level that is why I only chase Nairaland girls who are already done with school

ItisWell22:


I wish they would listen.

Worst part is a good number of them sponsor dull heads, while waiting for “sane” ones to get sponsored by their parents. 😒

Especially those who go about looking for nurses and other female health workers, with hope they would “earn to assist them”.

I ask such men, “why didn’t you go study the course yourself?”

In Naija now, that money wey him go use sponsor her, the guy fit use am sort him way through the same course, while keeping his job (not easy, but doable).
After all, most of the sponsored ladies are some of the most unserious in school; as sponsor go dey sponsor, still dey pay sorting fees. 🤧

I think most men who do this are just brain-dead. Sometimes you are forced to wonder what qualifies them as a man

Stephen2324:
Guys, this is not a time to marry a girl you will train in school.

Let her be trained by her family and be employed before you approach her.

E no easy for anyone

Omo I met a girl yesterday before I could say Jack Robinson she has started telling me about her numerous issues. Faking tears
It's barely an hour that we met oo. A girl crying that she has nothing to eat yet she is with two iPhones and one android. She was there crying when I excuse myself

mactoni91:
I know someone who trained a girl only for the girl to graduate and married someone else.

She said it was the Will of God.

I have heard this as well....indeed the will of God

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Mobahd:




Omo I met a girl yesterday before I could say Jack Robinson she has started telling me about her numerous issues. Faking tears
It's barely an hour that we met oo. A girl crying that she has nothing to eat yet she is with two iPhones and one android. She was there crying when I excuse myself

Bahd guy!!!

If I were the one, I would tell her to sell off those two iPhones and get some sense.

Even in my dream I cant make that mistake. .na my children I get strength to train not another adult