NewStats: 3,263,914 , 8,181,865 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 06:27 PM 2x3a17

akube34:
no worry. Work around go Dey

stop deceiving that guy. You want to collect money from him.

bdon123:

I have n he is presently married wit 2 kids.

married to SS?

Caseless:
stop deceiving that guy. You want to collect money from him.

wat are you saying? Collect money from who? You should depict you illiteracy publicly. You never hear of PGD IVF? Abeg go and read

Caseless:
married to SS?

Married to AS

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

You and your partner should go and look for an AA sperm donor if you think you're not ready to go your separate ways. Do not make any foolish attempt to sear an offspring together

emmastuffs:
There's nothing God cannot do. You really don't have to test Him though. I've had my traditional marriage before discovering I'm AS, my wife is also AS.
After the discovery we were both shattered as white wedding was about to be cancelled. Long story short we both decided we'll carry on, family said no but we insisted. Today we've got two lovely kids both AA.
Grace is different but again God is a miracle working God.

Stop encouraging what's not right using God's name.

bdon123:

Married to AS

but you should watch how you propagate that story. It's dangerous.

Marry, but tie her womb before doing so. Then you can adopt kids. Don't make the mistake of having unprotected sex without guaranteed permanent and long term family methods implemented.

gidjah:
Two kids SS ? Wao !!that's a bomb and a killer he's got.Those kids are gonna sap away all his life saving and leave him dry. Frustration and depression will also be his last names. What a bad scenario

He and his wife practically lives in the hospital because its either this one is having a crisis or the other one and this costs so much, now he plans to Japa not for economic reasons but to get better health care for them.

As + As what is the result of it ?"

Caseless:
but you should watch how you propagate that story. It's dangerous.

Ano thats why i warned.i didnt say its not risky.i said for me i hav calculated from beginning n believe i could survive it

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

If they really love each other
They should terminate the love now....because I assured them they ll curse the day they profess love if the wahala of SS child overwhelmed them.

There is no wisdom in both As and As marrying I'm this age.
Here love doesn't conquered all things

If they want to risk then they u be ready to bear the painful consequence of painful punishment to an innocent child

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can me privately if you like

the emotional stress and trauma involved is not worth it bro

determination26:
I would advice them to let their love die a natural death. I'm lucky not to be SS, but my sister wasn't so lucky. I watched her live a life of pain and in her death bed, she begged us to allow her die because the pain was just too much. I cry when i think about what she could have become but I'm happy she doesn't feel the pains anymore. If they love themselves so much, they should not allow a sickle cell child into this world to live a life of pain . Whenever a man has unprotected intercourse with a woman and cums inside, in my opinion, he has indirectly asked God for a child so he should love that precious gift he's asķing for and make sure the child doesn't come into a world of pain and suffering.

Jeon:
You are the one.

Quit or don't give birth to a being that will carry the cross of your foolish decisions.

Vawulent response

in as much as its not advisable, I have seen couple with AS....None of their 4 kids is SS....It doesnt warrant a try though...

Mmmm thank God him get money ,yet it's not good even for ones enemy.botn of them all didn't do well for the kids those kids won't forgive them over that evil they did them.Those kids would almost forever suffer even at 21. I use to hear that crisis becomes manageable or dead at 21, but for where !! I have met people who died at 21 with sickle cell. I will never encourage guys to even date not to talk of marrying another person with SS.

Guyman01:

He and his wife practically lives in the hospital because its either this one is having a crisis or the other one and this costs so much, now he plans to Japa not for economic reasons but to get better health care for them.

dollynnn:


You really did justice with your succinctly couched response. I wish I could like your response a thousand times

Thanks. I was just applying all the self-control I could muster. If he was saying that stuff in front of me,... I would have either done something I might regret or I would just quickly walk away. This topic is way too delicate and the consequences are way too dire for people to be acting like *@£##&&@&@ about it. @#£&@#*!!!

Elucidate321:


Thanks. I was just applying all the self-control I could muster. If he was saying that stuff in front of me,... I would have either done something I might regret or I would just quickly walk away. This topic is way too delicate and the consequences are way too dire for people to be acting like *@£##&&@&@ about it. @#£&@#*!!!

Yeah, way too delicate.

Viktor1983:


Nairaland is the last place to come for advice on such matters. you'll only get Herd mentality advice.

Why don't you advise him as against the "herd mentality advice" and let's see how informed or dumb you will sound.

Justkatty:
A classmate died immediately after our waec because she was ss....do what you can to avoid inflicting pains in the lives of those innocent unborn kids
You can always get another partner though may not be easy.

Two of mine died after we finished our WAEC.

Armaggedon:
love doesn't hurt. What you have is not love but mere feeling for each other. Feeling comes from the heart while love comes from the mind. The heart of man is deceptive and dangerous. Retrace!

But love is feeling now, so is hate

LordReed:


This is a solution for those with the resources to do it.

And who are not against abortions

maasoap:

But love is feeling now, so is hate

no, both aren't. You learn and choose to love just as you learn and choose to hate. Love and hate are both act of will, hence, we are commanded in the Bible to love.

Do IVF if you want her simple.

Armaggedon:
no, both aren't. You learn and choose to love just as you learn and choose to hate. Love and hate are both act of will, hence, we are commanded in the Bible to love.

Love is feeling

maasoap:

Two of mine died after we finished our WAEC.

Whoever that has 👂 should listen.
It is well.

maasoap:

And who are not against abortions

Yeah that will be an even bigger sticking point.

Wetin you do bro?

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can me privately if you like

uuzba:

Oga, this matter tire me.
In the Bible, there's one guy (Joshua? Jacob?) He wanted to marry one girl.
Went to go and do labour work for the father for 7 years.
On wedding day, they did him 419 and gave him the other sister.
Na for night he come see the face say, no be the babe be this.
He did another 7 years labour again on the farm to marry the very sister he wanted.
Before the dad gave him that sister.
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Imagine if after all this 14 years suffer, he and the girl be AS - AS between them.
Will you tell him not to marry? He go chook you with cutlass.
Somehow, it's either Bible people were not Black people at all. Because black people are the only ones that used to get this Sickle cell thing.
Or somebody should just leave marriage in God's hand.
You can't be checking people's blood before you toast/date them.
You're not dracula na!?

why will he even spend 14 years ontop a woman's head I the first place? If you like don't check health status and genotype before marriage. Go to LUTH and see children dying everyday because of their parents mistakes. A word is enough for the wise

bdon123:

Na u sabi.i get 2 kids n none are ss.keep overtinking everything.

dey play

topsam1:
Wetin you do bro?

baba reach me privately. Jesus assistants full here.