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Shebi na love una go chop?

Hmmm

LadyRosa:
If you truly live her, do a Vasectomy.

Then let you guys adopt.

Best answer!

I duff my hat!

Dont, you will definitely get someone better, SS is not a joke, prayer does not work o when u have sickle cell child , I live in a country with one of the best healthcare facility and I still lost my 3 and half year old son who had sickle cell. The child will not be able to play like other kids, you will go hospital tire

Jeon:
You are the one.

Quit or don't give birth to a being that will carry the cross of your foolish decisions.

person say hin friend, u say he is the one

Quit the relationship , dont be deceived its not good to watch your child suffer the consequence of your stupid decision. Pls be wise.

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

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Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

He shouldn't be sad but thank God for the life of children saved.

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

When you watch your child suffer crisis you would hate love.

Ipa owo ko ka Idamu. When wahala too much, live flies out through the window oo

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Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

A friend of mine is A.S same with his barny.
Anytime his barny gets pregnant they try to determine the baby's genotype before birth if the baby is gonna turn up S.S abortion will be their next option
They have two healthy kids now .

😎

Lover birds 🐦

Love Is Blind sha 🤔

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

Nairaland is the last place to come for advice on such matters. you'll only get Herd mentality advice.

muzeze77:
Dont, you will definitely get someone better, SS is not a joke, prayer does not work o when u have sickle cell child , I live in a country with one of the best healthcare facility and I still lost my 3 and half year old son who had sickle cell. The child will not be able to play like other kids, you will go hospital tire

Sorry to hear about your loss.

A classmate died immediately after our waec because she was ss....do what you can to avoid inflicting pains in the lives of those innocent unborn kids
You can always get another partner though may not be easy.

Nothing prayer cannot do.

Take it to God in prayer.
Wait ooooo.

Will the friendship lead to marriage?
Is it the will of God that both AS partner will marry each other?

If no
A beg leave each other and stop Fornicating

Jesus save

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can me privately if you like

So many people in this shoes. With time and advancement in science, I know this will no longer be an issue to worry about, but for now, the options are still limited

This is stupid and nonsense love, in marriage it's not all about love, pls you people should get your acts together and stop being foolish before you bring an innocent child into a world of pains.

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

love doesn't hurt. What you have is not love but mere feeling for each other. Feeling comes from the heart while love comes from the mind. The heart of man is deceptive and dangerous. Retrace!

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

let him go and look for another bird. He will so hate that AS bird when she gives birth to an SS. The love will turn into hate. I have seen where an SS child was cursing her parents in the time of crisis, she was crying and begging God to take her life. You don't want to be in this condition in future. It is advisable they both move on with their lives.

Just book a day and knack the hell out of yourselves then kiss each other good bye. For the good of the kingdom

Know this and know peace

@Samsunny99

If not for malaria, there won’t be AS gene mutation

Anyway, you certainly don’t want to have a sick child.

You could have all your children through IVF with genetic testing, and ensure they don’t have the SS cells

Op, are you a Christian?


Visit this thread and throw your fears out the window
https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/7911163/religious-opinion-hiv-genotype-marriage

I have cousin out of 5.
He's the one that became SS. He got a stroke when he was 10. So one side is paralyzed.
He's now in his mid 40's and his bones are getting weaker because of the Sickel cell blood stuff.
They've so far replaced his 2 hip bones with titanium. (Million Naira surgery)
His parents were AS.
Sick everytime.
Toasting girls is hard. Not married. Girls afraid to date and marry him.
We're just praying for him.

Adoption is an option

uuzba:
I have cousin out of 5.
He's the one that became SS. He got a stroke when he was 10. So one side is paralyzed.
He's now in his mid 40's and his bones are getting weaker because of the Sickel cell blood stuff.
They've so far replaced his 2 hip bones with titanium.
His parents were AS.
We're just praying for him.

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

stay away from her, else you get someone else hurt

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

Like someone already said, let them no bring a child to this world to suffer for their foolishness.

That mumu love will clear for their eyes by the time they give birth to ss child

Purvan:
Don't mind that barren witch called Jeon

Greetings.

I am Special Counsel to the High Lesbian and Woman of Sin, Jeon. Kindly note that I have the permission of their excellencies, his eminence Falseprophet1 and his perfection the RevDesm0ndJuju to undertake the protection and defense of her now excellency.

Her High Excellency asserts a place on this realm permanently beyond the depraved insults and wretched attention seeking of scalliwags such as your low born self.

Be therefore hereby warned: that any annoyance of the High Lesbian going forward will lead to severe consequences up to and including the introduction of startling and confusing nightmares into your pillows at night as well as the appearance of a most hideous and frightening goblin each time you visit the toilet, which appearance is liable to lead you to Yaba Left.

Be ye warned and so guided accordingly.

Signed,

Special Counsel,
Palace of the Perverse
Inner Earth

Seems you are not seeing what people are saying here now . When I was in a serious relation, I took my Fiance to Hospital Lucky enough She was As while I am AA. I told her straight up had it been we were both AS AS i Will call it a quit .My Church cant even a couple that are both AS AS. Some children were causing their there parent for bringing them to this world to suffer. A word is enough for the wise .Dont try is pls , Love will not be able so save you when the consequences of AS Marrying AS comes knocking. Shallom

akube34:
we fit talk personally

Those "Abikus" in our fathers' days are SS situations, please don't be ignorant.

bdon123:

I n my wife are AS n we hav 2 kids . which test did ur fada n mother do before marrying?

Sometimes love is not just enough.Think about the pain of having a child with Sickle cell anemia. Most times they are always in and out of hospitals with huge hospital bills.Think about the emotional turmoil that can bring.The life expectancy of people living with Sickle Cell disease is also low.Let go so that you will not live a life of regrets!!

Bullman:


A friend of mine is A.S same with his barny.
Anytime his barny gets pregnant they try to determine the baby's genotype before birth if the baby is gonna turn up S.S abortion will be their next option
They have two healthy kids now .

This is a solution for those with the resources to do it.