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TimT: 9:09am On Sep 05, 2023
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

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TemplarLandry: 9:10am On Sep 05, 2023
Why not?
The single person could be a God sent.

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dawnomike(m): 9:20am On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...
You can give your advice but truly, there are somethings you can't really get spot on except you're married.

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Phantom233: 9:32am On Sep 05, 2023
Apostle paul the greatest prophet with significant counseling on marital affairs wasn't married. Wisdom to counsel is a divine gift not marriage-base

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TimT: 9:44am On Sep 05, 2023
dawnomike:
You can give your advice but truly, there are somethings you can't really get spot on except you're married.
But to me I feel marital problems are actually psychological and behavioural problems that can be given pointers by someone who understands human behaviour...

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spencekat(m): 9:44am On Sep 05, 2023
dawnomike:
You can give your advice but truly, there are somethings you can't really get spot on except you're married.
He can give godly advice in almost all the scenarios.

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TimT: 9:46am On Sep 05, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Why not?
The single person could be a God sent.
Some no go gree o... To them u can't advice them unless you are married and they see... Infact those who are divorced sef are worse... Coz they believe because you are divorced, meaning say you can't hold your marriage so no need to collect advice from you...

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spencekat(m): 9:46am On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:

But to me I feel marital problems are actually psychological and behavioural problems that can be given pointers by someone who understands human behaviour...
As simple as that. Rev Fathers are not married but they conduct wedding ceremonies and also give marital counseling.

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TimT: 9:46am On Sep 05, 2023
spencekat:
As simple as that. Rev Fathers are not married but they conduct wedding ceremonies and also give counseling.
Yeah that's true...

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spencekat(m): 9:49am On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:

Yeah that's true...
Counselling rooted in the Word of God and humanity can guide anyone.

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spencekat(m): 9:50am On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:

Some no go gree o... To them u can't advice them unless you are married and they see... Infact those who are divorced sef are worse... Coz they believe because you are divorced, meaning say you can't hold your marriage so no need to collect advice from you...
Let them no gree. Anybody can positively learn from anybody.

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TimT: 10:03am On Sep 05, 2023
But this advice matter sef tire me especially for this Nigeria..... Person wey the wife dey keep malice with am go dey advice another person for their marriage...
So now where's the best source to seek for advice..

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talented321: 10:20am On Sep 05, 2023
A single reasonable somebody can give a married man some piece of advice, it is left for the married man to filter the bad ones and take the good ones..
We all experience how our parents, uncles and brothers live with wives and how they use to solve many issues..
There are single matured guys/ladies that can give marital advice even if not 100%

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nautybride: 10:24am On Sep 05, 2023
To give advice is easy and simple. It's left to the person being advised to know what to follow and which can be applied in his or her own circumstance.
On that note; a single person can advise a married person.

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Kobojunkie: 11:55am On Sep 05, 2023
Phantom233:
Apostle paul the greatest prophet with significant counseling on marital affairs wasn't married. Wisdom to counsel is a divine gift not marriage-base
Marriage counseling from Paul wey una stilll misconstrue? LOL... Paul has nothing to do with what you lot refer to as Christian marriage today... an idea that is not only antichrist but does not fit in well as far as healthy relationships go. lipsrsealed

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Fountainofyouth(f): 1:40pm On Sep 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Marriage counseling from Paul wey una stilll misconstrue? LOL... Paul has nothing to do with what you lot refer to as Christian marriage today... an idea that is not only antichrist but does not fit in well as far as healthy relationships go. lipsrsealed


You should know when to shut the fvck up

Your misconstrued knowledge of the bible is not to be relied on or the gospel truth, in other words, you type nonsense all the time, keep your nonsense to yourself.

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Kobojunkie: 2:39pm On Sep 05, 2023
spencekat:
Counselling rooted in the Word of God and humanity can guide anyone.
Which word of God? The same word of God that says your marriage has nothing to do with the Kingdom of God? undecided
spencekat(m): 2:51pm On Sep 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Which word of God? The same word of God that says your marriage has nothing to do with the Kingdom of God? undecided
Holy Bible!
Kobojunkie: 2:54pm On Sep 05, 2023
spencekat:
Holy Bible!
You mean what God and Jesus Christ said there is not included in your Bible? undecided
spencekat(m): 2:55pm On Sep 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
You mean what God and Jesus Christ said there is not included in your Bible? undecided
Bros, I don't know the angle you are twisting it to, but I won't you o.

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Kobojunkie: 2:58pm On Sep 05, 2023
spencekat:
Bros, I don't know the angle you are twisting it, but I won't you o.
Oh, Stating what God said in Genesis 3 vs 16 and what Jesus Christ reiterated in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 amounts to me twisting your Bible? undecided
jeromestarks: 4:03pm On Sep 05, 2023
Tinubu remains President.
Obigots should go and sit down.
Atiku should go and sit down
Macgyver1: 4:03pm On Sep 05, 2023
No, I won't take marital advice from someone who has never been married! On what basis is the person now dishing out advice? Books read or other people's experience?

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Otulented: 4:03pm On Sep 05, 2023
Lol grin. Can you take an advice from a starved man or nutritional meals?

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Blake755: 4:03pm On Sep 05, 2023
Yes because coach don't play sad sad

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MichaelSokoto(m): 4:03pm On Sep 05, 2023
Yes oo!

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Wodu89: 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023
dawnomike:
You can give your advice but truly, there are somethings you can't really get spot on except you're married.

Lies. You're delusional

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illicit(m): 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023
lipsrsealed
Oblongata: 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023
Yes you should!

If you know you are daaft! tongue
BobbieZion(m): 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Why not?
The single person could be a God sent.

You are everywhere and you know everything.
U dey gallivant day and night.
APC here defend them there.
Throw insults at people for no reason....
You no get work or are you this jobless?

Clown!!

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DrAda(f): 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023
Definitely not. Experience counts a lot
Neatbest: 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2023

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