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CAN I REALLY FIND LOVE

I came from a very religious family that believes in the teachings of the Bible.

I am 28yrs old and even up to now I have only had two girlfriends. Yea! Your eyes were correct, two (2).

The first one did not come until I finished from my secondary school. She happens to be a girl in my area, beautiful I must say. I asked her out then she was in S.S.S 3, it took me several months with the aid of her best best friend before she could allow me plant the flower of love in her garden. The relationship was smooth and fluid in which I can boast that for three years, we hardly fight for a complete whole day! Not that she did not offend me, but I made sure I say sorry for her own error. I pampered her and she loved me very dearly.
The "error" I think I made was not having s*x with her, because I could not phantom why during our relationship, she got pregnant for one of my random friends. She do lure me into having sex with her but I refused based on the fact that it isn't biblical and that it is meant for our wedding night, we do romance though (God forgive me) just to let her know I am a complete man. I was so depressed when the story was broken to me. I faced up with her that why would she do such a thing, all I had was a stern face and series of verbal abuse.
I left the environment in other not to keep seeing her. Fast forward three years later........

Seun was a loving girl that worth my wait of not having a girlfriend for the past three years. Everything about her was loveable. She was a girl who just wrote Jamb waiting to be itted by a private university in Nigeria. Her mom have a big supermarket where I do buy things then, so we became friends, I loved her so I did as men do when they see a loveable girl - I wooed her, she was adamant and unwilling giving the fact that she has a guy she is dating and can't cheat on him. As this is obvious because nearly an hour goes by without the guy or her calls each other. Well, as a lover of true love, I let it be and continued my platonic friendship with her. One year later, she had been in school then, so she came back from school, we chatted and talked, but something was missing - the usual calls from both parties. Seun what's the problem, you aren't calling your boo? Ayo wo forget that one jare, she changed topic. I asked her again and she told me they were no more. I asked her what happened, she told me that the guy wanted to start cheating on her and she ended the relationship. Well I pleaded on the guy's behave but she was obstinate. Well I went home that night to receive her call at around 12:30am asking if I am sleeping. As a guy who already had interest in her and a sharp guy, I understood the scope and rekindled my interest in her by re-wooing her. She accepted my request and I was then the happiest man on earth because I have re-found love.

The love between Seun and I was so enviable, she was in Oyo, I was in Ogun but we communicated as if we were together. We communicated to the extent of telling each other when we are about to pee! Seun's mum is a single mother, she suffered a lot because of her this made Seun have an undying love for her mom. I ed her love to her mom and also did that and still do, never know that will still come to hurt me......
I think her mom told her point blank that she can't marry me because I am broke. I think she fought it out with her mum but her mum was adamant and because she loves her she has to dance to her tune of music... So she broke up with me after only eight months of unforgettable love experience........ How pathetic. I could not bear the pains so I left town to a remote area.

Another three years of not dating anyone, those whom I asked out keep telling me they don't love me. (why) those who I think does are teens like in J.S.S 3 or SSS1 the most. Those that I love keep hurting me, not that I am not good when it come to toasting a girl as I have done a lot for many friends that now have better testimonies but why can't I have a love of my life, I am not the flirt type because I hate it when a lady gets hurt, I can just withstand it. I wonder where those guys that cheat on innocent girls were created from. I even heard of a guy that had the opportunity of a girl who truly loves him, cloth him, feed him, even satisfy him in the other room all for the guy to still cheat on the girl! Very disgusting, was that guy made of flesh? Sometime I do ask my self why can God give that kinda girl to me, I believe I am gonna show her not the pool of love but the ocean of love. I sometimes think because I am a little short ( 4ft plus) is what cause this, but I do see many guys of my size even shorter than me who have more than one girlfriend!

Please nairalanders can thus be a cause or what can it be? Will I still find Love? Because I believe flirting is not the way out. Please advise a depressed soul. I am typing this as I have just been rejected by another girl whom I taught love me.

Abuse is welcome, so as corrections to errors in my typing because I am learning and I love corrections.

Yes you can, and you will.
When i was ur age, i had no gf ( u ve even had 2) and then everything changed in 2 years.


Please learn to summerize next time.

Yes.
Funny thing's one girl somewhere may be crushing on you

I think you have not been on nairaland enough to know that they dont like long stories









Back to the post.....you will still find true love.

sexybbstar:
I think you have not been on nairaland enough to know that they dont like long stories

lol








Back to the post.....you will still find true love.

When?

Ok

Bruv you gat to work on yourself i mean you should hustle hard to make some money to back up your love life. Money works with love

Too long, summary...

Who asked you for the story of how the earth was created?

I read everything but see it as a waste of time.

You dey try to market yourself to Nairaland babes ni?

The first thing be say you na spirikoko. Spirikokos always have this kind story to tell about their love life. Most of them are double faced hypocrites who want to suck a babes breasts but not drill her pussy, claiming that drilling her pussy is wrong.

Bro na konji be ya problem. Just look for ashawo to suck ya dick for you until you cùm. Hehehehehe

It's all about commanding respect

Scarface (1983) says...

Draei:

Too long, summary...

.

Draei:

Too long, summary...

he said he is looking for a gf..

do you have any free girl you are not using again?

vibrant40:
CAN I REALLY FIND LOVE

I came from a very religious family that believes in the teachings of the Bible.

I am 28yrs old and even up to now I have only had two girlfriends. Yea! Your eyes were correct, two (2).

The first one did not come until I finished from my secondary school. She happens to be a girl in my area, beautiful I must say. I asked her out then she was in S.S.S 3, it took me several months with the aid of her best best friend before she could allow me plant the flower of love in her garden. The relationship was smooth and fluid in which I can boast that for three years, we hardly fight for a complete whole day! Not that she did not offend me, but I made sure I say sorry for her own error. I pampered her and she loved me very dearly.
The "error" I think I made was not having s*x with her, because I could not phantom why during our relationship, she got pregnant for one of my random friends. She do lure me into having sex with her but I refused based on the fact that it isn't biblical and that it is meant for our wedding night, we do romance though (God forgive me) just to let her know I am a complete man. I was so depressed when the story was broken to me. I faced up with her that why would she do such a thing, all I had was a stern face and series of verbal abuse.
I left the environment in other not to keep seeing her. Fast forward three years later........

Seun was a loving girl that worth my wait of not having a girlfriend for the past three years. Everything about her was loveable. She was a girl who just wrote Jamb waiting to be itted by a private university in Nigeria. Her mom have a big supermarket where I do buy things then, so we became friends, I loved her so I did as men do when they see a loveable girl - I wooed her, she was adamant and unwilling giving the fact that she has a guy she is dating and can't cheat on him. As this is obvious because nearly an hour goes by without the guy or her calls each other. Well, as a lover of true love, I let it be and continued my platonic friendship with her. One year later, she had been in school then, so she came back from school, we chatted and talked, but something was missing - the usual calls from both parties. Seun what's the problem, you aren't calling your boo? Ayo wo forget that one jare, she changed topic. I asked her again and she told me they were no more. I asked her what happened, she told me that the guy wanted to start cheating on her and she ended the relationship. Well I pleaded on the guy's behave but she was obstinate. Well I went home that night to receive her call at around 12:30am asking if I am sleeping. As a guy who already had interest in her and a sharp guy, I understood the scope and rekindled my interest in her by re-wooing her. She accepted my request and I was then the happiest man on earth because I have re-found love.

The love between Seun and I was so enviable, she was in Oyo, I was in Ogun but we communicated as if we were together. We communicated to the extent of telling each other when we are about to pee! Seun's mum is a single mother, she suffered a lot because of her this made Seun have an undying love for her mom. I ed her love to her mom and also did that and still do, never know that will still come to hurt me......
I think her mom told her point blank that she can't marry me because I am broke. I think she fought it out with her mum but her mum was adamant and because she loves her she has to dance to her tune of music... So she broke up with me after only eight months of unforgettable love experience........ How pathetic. I could not bear the pains so I left town to a remote area.

Another three years of not dating anyone, those whom I asked out keep telling me they don't love me. (why) those who I think does are teens like in J.S.S 3 or SSS1 the most. Those that I love keep hurting me, not that I am not good when it come to toasting a girl as I have done a lot for many friends that now have better testimonies but why can't I have a love of my life, I am not the flirt type because I hate it when a lady gets hurt, I can just withstand it. I wonder where those guys that cheat on innocent girls were created from. I even heard of a guy that had the opportunity of a girl who truly loves him, cloth him, feed him, even satisfy him in the other room all for the guy to still cheat on the girl! Very disgusting, was that guy made of flesh? Sometime I do ask my self why can God give that kinda girl to me, I believe I am gonna show her not the pool of love but the ocean of love. I sometimes think because I am a little short ( 4ft plus) is what cause this, but I do see many guys of my size even shorter than me who have more than one girlfriend!

Please nairalanders can thus be a cause or what can it be? Will I still find Love? Because I believe flirting is not the way out. Please advise a depressed soul. I am typing this as I have just been rejected by another girl whom I taught love me.

Abuse is welcome, so as corrections to errors in my typing because I am learning and I love corrections.

Youre gonna find love again cos its a beautiful thing. U just need lil patience

my brother after a long day of work...is dis how u gonna pay me back....4real!

DLondonboiy:

he said he is looking for a gf..

do you have any free girl you are not using again?

#Funny, instagram/fb chiks nko...

Draei:

#Funny, instagram/fb chiks nko...

you don see beggar wey get choice before?

pls help..

I know some nairalanders, they can abuse for Africa, thanks for the matured and unmatured comments though. And thanks also for the encouragements. You people are just too much.

You'll find love, Bro. You will. Until then, I'll advise you keep an open mind. Love is beautiful and free and without shackles.

But even with love, you need rules to keep it going...

First you have to love yourself and use what you view as shortcomings as strengths ..confidence is key

iamadonis2:
You'll find love, Bro. You will. Until then, I'll advise you keep an open mind. Love is beautiful and free and without shackles.

But even with love, you need rules to keep it going...

Thanks bro noted

the post is long ooo and yes u can find love

Raine80:
First you have to love yourself and use what you view as shortcomings as strengths ..confidence is key

Thanks sis. Confidence the key!

@ OP,
Did u notice how accommodating & encouraging the ladies who posted comments here are?
This should give u an idea that ladies who feel & care about love truly exist out there; this should also give u confidence & hope that u'll eventually come across a lady who'll truly love u, as u continue with ur search.

I wish u the best of luck in ur search!

cc, zonefree

vibrant40:
CAN I REALLY FIND LOVE

I came from a very religious family that believes in the teachings of the Bible.

I am 28yrs old and even up to now I have only had two girlfriends. Yea! Your eyes were correct, two (2).

The first one did not come until I finished from my secondary school. She happens to be a girl in my area, beautiful I must say. I asked her out then she was in S.S.S 3, it took me several months with the aid of her best best friend before she could allow me plant the flower of love in her garden. The relationship was smooth and fluid in which I can boast that for three years, we hardly fight for a complete whole day! Not that she did not offend me, but I made sure I say sorry for her own error. I pampered her and she loved me very dearly.
The "error" I think I made was not having s*x with her, because I could not phantom why during our relationship, she got pregnant for one of my random friends. She do lure me into having sex with her but I refused based on the fact that it isn't biblical and that it is meant for our wedding night, we do romance though (God forgive me) just to let her know I am a complete man. I was so depressed when the story was broken to me. I faced up with her that why would she do such a thing, all I had was a stern face and series of verbal abuse.
I left the environment in other not to keep seeing her. Fast forward three years later........

Seun was a loving girl that worth my wait of not having a girlfriend for the past three years. Everything about her was loveable. She was a girl who just wrote Jamb waiting to be itted by a private university in Nigeria. Her mom have a big supermarket where I do buy things then, so we became friends, I loved her so I did as men do when they see a loveable girl - I wooed her, she was adamant and unwilling giving the fact that she has a guy she is dating and can't cheat on him. As this is obvious because nearly an hour goes by without the guy or her calls each other. Well, as a lover of true love, I let it be and continued my platonic friendship with her. One year later, she had been in school then, so she came back from school, we chatted and talked, but something was missing - the usual calls from both parties. Seun what's the problem, you aren't calling your boo? Ayo wo forget that one jare, she changed topic. I asked her again and she told me they were no more. I asked her what happened, she told me that the guy wanted to start cheating on her and she ended the relationship. Well I pleaded on the guy's behave but she was obstinate. Well I went home that night to receive her call at around 12:30am asking if I am sleeping. As a guy who already had interest in her and a sharp guy, I understood the scope and rekindled my interest in her by re-wooing her. She accepted my request and I was then the happiest man on earth because I have re-found love.

The love between Seun and I was so enviable, she was in Oyo, I was in Ogun but we communicated as if we were together. We communicated to the extent of telling each other when we are about to pee! Seun's mum is a single mother, she suffered a lot because of her this made Seun have an undying love for her mom. I ed her love to her mom and also did that and still do, never know that will still come to hurt me......
I think her mom told her point blank that she can't marry me because I am broke. I think she fought it out with her mum but her mum was adamant and because she loves her she has to dance to her tune of music... So she broke up with me after only eight months of unforgettable love experience........ How pathetic. I could not bear the pains so I left town to a remote area.

Another three years of not dating anyone, those whom I asked out keep telling me they don't love me. (why) those who I think does are teens like in J.S.S 3 or SSS1 the most. Those that I love keep hurting me, not that I am not good when it come to toasting a girl as I have done a lot for many friends that now have better testimonies but why can't I have a love of my life, I am not the flirt type because I hate it when a lady gets hurt, I can just withstand it. I wonder where those guys that cheat on innocent girls were created from. I even heard of a guy that had the opportunity of a girl who truly loves him, cloth him, feed him, even satisfy him in the other room all for the guy to still cheat on the girl! Very disgusting, was that guy made of flesh? Sometime I do ask my self why can God give that kinda girl to me, I believe I am gonna show her not the pool of love but the ocean of love. I sometimes think because I am a little short ( 4ft plus) is what cause this, but I do see many guys of my size even shorter than me who have more than one girlfriend!

Please nairalanders can thus be a cause or what can it be? Will I still find Love? Because I believe flirting is not the way out. Please advise a depressed soul. I am typing this as I have just been rejected by another girl whom I taught love me.

Abuse is welcome, so as corrections to errors in my typing because I am learning and I love corrections.

Na small small plantain take dey ripe.

For now, your soft nature cannot find love in Nigeria.

Dshocker:


Na small small plantain take dey ripe.

For now, your soft nature cannot find love in Nigeria.

Abi too soft, too weak

Women wey be scarbs I get them plenty I no even dey send them, one even dey my house like this... this life no balance true true... Oga make money na women go dey toast you, trust me I know...