NewStats: 3,264,413 , 8,183,658 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 12:24 AM 2t63j

Raalsalghul:


You folks should stop complaining.

Women will always be the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.

It's left for you to check out of the game, vet and vet as if your life depends on it or look for something else of value you can gain from her if she has hit the wall. 🙂

It's a simple stuffs.

True anyway.

emmachukwu99:


Am a good man, please. Be guided, many men are good.

Are you sure ?

FreeStuffsNG:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/i-would-love-to-go-back-to-my-ex-husband-actress-caroline-danjuma/

Interesting.

I have always known that the two main causes of antagonism against men by most ladies on this forum are: for the younger ladies - immaturity and for the older ladies - bitterness arising from poor relationship decisions they made at younger age.

Wise women should learn from some of these ex feminists that are becoming wiser.

madridguy:


Day don break.

I am honored to be the 100th person to like this post 😎

FreeStuffsNG:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/i-would-love-to-go-back-to-my-ex-husband-actress-caroline-danjuma/

Unrepentant olosho, them do turn her kpekus to public toilet finish, them run her street like dog, I hate when this genders shown no appreciation for the ❤️ love show them…

FreeStuffsNG:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/i-would-love-to-go-back-to-my-ex-husband-actress-caroline-danjuma/

Igbayi laaro… boys have samples her round

FreeStuffsNG:
I pray she finds love, peace again and value it as she has promised.

Most men and ladies in marriages should learn from her regret today.

I read this same regret expressed by Madam Ngozi Nwosu in her interview, same regret in her interview too and like Caroline,she was married to a non-Igbo too. In fact, she used same words and itted that she should have forgiven her ex husband who came begging and begging her to come back. Looking back, she now believes the issue that made her separate from her husband was not enough for her to end her marriage to a man who truly loves her. She said she would have handled it better with her current experience.

Please fight for your family. You will soon realise that it's all you got. May God help us all.

This is a true fact.

Many of them after divorce realize that what they had before the love and everything was better than what they get now.


They later realize that nothing dey street
But most times it ends only in regrets and had I known

By the it's already late
There men have moved on

It's always the case

Freshtruth:
Go back go give am infection? I swear he get one gal wey I date last year every night for my house I dey bang this lady like crazy Bleep am anyhow styles 2months later this lady told me she was once married and have a baby gal of 6yrs for him and miss her husband even carry the man picture go church me and her even go church go pray make d husband come back and I still dey bang her steady I was even encouraging her not to give up cause I myself done dey find way to discharge am from my house. I dump her last month when I find my soulmate I will be getting married to my soulmate this year you see those female gender fear them the gal was just too loose. If d husband ever take that lady back na him funeral remain I can never ever marry a loose lady like that Godforbid

Nawa for this your story

Nothing person no go see for this nairaland

Chei


In addition once a woman leaves her matrimonial home
Her former husband taking her back na very big suicide

NaBanga:
A woman who has her own money and can afford to fund herself, will never say this. Do not be deceived by any woman. She doesn't want her ex back. She wants the money that he can spend on her. The prices of Nigerian goods and services are affecting her terribly.

This Lady is loaded oo

She has a well thriving Oil and Gas company

Her ex husband set her up very well because She had three kids for Him

This babe is worth hundreds of millions

I don't think money is her problem

Notice she was talking about peace of mind

A cow does not know the value of its tail until it is cut off.

YoshihideSuga:


So Freestuffs who mentioned ethnicity even when it was not necessary isn't the problem, but a respondent is?

You demons are hypocrites!

Who do the 'bolded' refer to?

Cest normal...

Exactly

gimakon2:
These women go day treat men anyhow , sometimes e good to allow them taste and see.
After the several ibongi she has acquired from different men , na now her eye clear.

These people go think once man free them, them go get another one outside. 😂 Make I no talk. I go like know if the husband accept am back.

You don share finish abi

The grass is never greener on the other side.

The bias of thinking there are lots of options out there.

Lots of people will leave a good relationship because they thought something better is waiting for them outside. Instead of watering their own grass, they imagine that the grass they saw outside watered itself. Until reality sets in.

And when reality sets in, you've probably lost the thing that makes you appealing initially. You become jaded, bruised, with all kinds of emotional baggage, and lack of enthusiasm to build from scratch again.

It's sad that lots of people have to through hell themselves before they realize that it exists. Whatever.

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FreeStuffsNG:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/i-would-love-to-go-back-to-my-ex-husband-actress-caroline-danjuma/

ashawoe been de her eyes , na now market wan close she de find nice guy , make she try de streets small fvckboys never finish with her , remain her brain make them fvck am slack

pansophist:
The bias of thinking there are lots of options out there.

Lots of people will leave a good relationship because they thought something better is waiting for them outside. Instead of watering their own grass, they imagine that the grass they saw outside watered itself. Until reality sets in.

And when reality sets in, you've probably lost the thing that makes you appealing initially. You become jaded, bruised, with all kinds of emotional baggage, and lack of enthusiasm to build from scratch again.

It's sad that lots of people have to through hell themselves before they realize that it exists. Whatever.

Chief, what will you advise a mother of two to do if her husband abandons her and impregnates another woman in another state and gets married to her. Now he wants them to practice polygamy after betraying the trust but she doesn't want to share her husband?

Kindly drop a reply?

Oyin2212:

Chief, what will you advise a mother of two to do if her husband abandons her and impregnates another woman in another state and gets married to her. Now he wants them to practice polygamy after betraying the trust but she doesn't want to share her husband?

Kindly drop a reply?

Here's a better question: what does a man do if he can easily and comfortably maintain more than one woman - and there are many unmarried women looking for quality men like him and one of them treats him better than his wife. Does he keep her secretly as a mistress or persuade his wife to allow second wife?

Oyin2212:

Chief, what will you advise a mother of two to do if her husband abandons her and impregnates another woman in another state and gets married to her. Now he wants them to practice polygamy after betraying the trust but she doesn't want to share her husband?

Kindly drop a reply?

Situations like this is why it is advisable for women to have a job somehow, and their own money. Then she will have the ability to act in a way that is respectable.

Since the man has checkout by action, then she should do the same. If he is there for the kids, then good, if not, she should take care of the kids alone with all the help she can get.

You can't negotiate from a position of weakness, and if you do, the deal will be a punishment to the weakling than uplifting. Forcing someone into polygamy through the barrel of a gun is not a fair deal.

He should have asked her that before going to impregnate another woman. He is not a good man. So in her case, she will suffer in any path she takes. If she becomes the second wife (in practice she is even if she is the first), the home will be worse that a prison for her.

If she choose to raise the kids alone, she will retain her self respect, the world will respect her, and it's a position of strength. She will only suffer materiallly, physically, but her soul will be at peace, and the burden of conscience will be on him.

I'll advice she go with the second option.

pansophist:


Situations like this is why it is advisable for women to have a job somehow, and their own money. Then she will have the ability to act in a way that is respectable.

Since the man has checkout by action, then she should do the same. If he is there for the kids, then good, if not, she should take care of the kids alone with all the help she can get.

You can't negotiate from a position of weakness, and if you do, the deal will be a punishment to the weakling than uplifting. Forcing someone into polygamy through the barrel of a gun is not a fair deal.

He should have asked her that before going to impregnate another woman. He is not a good man. So in her case, she will suffer in any path she takes. If she becomes the second wife (in practice she is even if she is the first), the home will be worse that a prison for her.

If she choose to raise the kids alone, she will retain her self respect, the world will respect her, and it's a position of strength. She will only suffer materiallly, physically, but her soul will be at peace, and the burden of conscience will be on him.

I'll advice she go with the second option.

Thanks for the reply chief. I appreciate.

pansophist:


Situations like this is why it is advisable for women to have a job somehow, and their own money. Then she will have the ability to act in a way that is respectable.

Since the man has checkout by action, then she should do the same. If he is there for the kids, then good, if not, she should take care of the kids alone with all the help she can get.

You can't negotiate from a position of weakness, and if you do, the deal will be a punishment to the weakling than uplifting. Forcing someone into polygamy through the barrel of a gun is not a fair deal.

He should have asked her that before going to impregnate another woman. He is not a good man. So in her case, she will suffer in any path she takes. If she becomes the second wife (in practice she is even if she is the first), the home will be worse that a prison for her.

If she choose to raise the kids alone, she will retain her self respect, the world will respect her, and it's a position of strength. She will only suffer materiallly, physically, but her soul will be at peace, and the burden of conscience will be on him.

I'll advice she go with the second option.

I must confess, you are sound in mind and in wisdom.

You are so practical and real in the advice you dish out.

Much respect to you.

Warm regards.

This drama/drug queen again?
Until you get to know and seeing this fair demon on a daily that's when you get to know off social media or the media entirely, she is a wicked soul.

Lol When they finally reach the streets and find out that no man will carry them for head every man just wanna bang that pussy and bounce haha

The ex-husband wey they been dey think say na mumu sef, is only being patient because of his kids! But ladies think men are fools, they start behaving as if there is gold inside their nonsense pussy, hahahaha

ImoleNaija:


Who do the 'bolded' refer to?

The hypocrites, to which you belong.

Hypocrites are demons, and Jesus Christ described them as ''a brood of vipers''

Would you have preferred he called you a brood of vipers