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I come from a family where Display of love and affection is almost nonexistent. Tough fucking love!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Can’t .

you've always been senseless.
Not surprised

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When my mum bought a good bread. Then i knew for sure

There was a time i will sit on my mum lap, and she will tell me stories under the moon light., and she bought me good books, with many illustrations, i enjoyed those books as a child. when i was ill, i was well cared for as a child .

Also whenever i was harmed by anyone and it was like an abuse, my mum will fight that person, made me feel safe.

Maybe as a baby, i ed my mum, taking good care of everyone too

As a young child maybe 5 years old I ed my dad, how he took good care of animals.

surely i felt love as a baby, when i crawled towards the road, they kept me from doing that, and when we had accident and the car tumbled as a baby, they were looking for me seriously despite their concussions.

I find it amazing that i can still some things even as a baby.

We don't have money but the love has always been there especially your hard times

When i was a kid anytime I'm being punished for the wrong i did i used to see it as a show of love because it was correction

The love shown to me by my parents in riches and in struggle. I promised to replicate it 100 times for my kids.

kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was itted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.

Fatal means someone died on the spot!’

Pls correct!

no be lie, my father use him salary take loan pay my debt something that affect his salary for three good years without complaining any day.

My mom did a lot, my dad sacrifices won't be forgotten. I chop that man money ( I am still is favourite).

kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was itted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.

a near fatal accident? Not fatal it means u dn die and na ur ghost the type am.

Anyway love of parent

ThompsonJoo:
What was that thing your parent did to you that made you know that they loved you

I don't any particular incident. I just know that I have never doubted the Unconditional Love of my Mother and Father.

ff

Olatara:
My mom did a lot, my dad sacrifices won't be forgotten. I chop that man money ( I am still is favourite).

Daddies love their daughters. They're simply the best

Ismael97:
I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did. However I am still struggling

So sorry about what you went through. It really must have been tough. I know it's hard to do but you can start by reaching out to others around you and showing love to them. You need to heal.

Sonnobax15:

My dad is my hero...... The moment he sat be down and transferred #220k into my last month knowing I was indebted.

I hope that not a gambling addiction

kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was itted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.

This thing was necessary, they just had to be there

I have no home, my mum and Dad are both dead and early this year I made a bad investment and I lost everything.
Right now I am broken and so freaking broke, I am just living with the hope that everything will get better but even that hope I am slowing losing it.
I am just frustrated

Not exactly loved like say. Being the black sheep. I've always been tolerated.

ThompsonJoo:
What was that thing your parent did to you that made you know that they loved you

Yesterday, my little kids with the help of their mum organised a small surprised birthday party for me as I returned home from the day hustling despite the fact that I'm not a fan of party. It made me feel loved, and embarrassed too.

Rosaline5000:
I have no home, my mum and Dad are both dead and early this year I made a bad investment and I lost everything.
Right now I am broken and so freaking broke, I am just living with the hope that everything will get better but even that hope I am slowing losing it.
I am just frustrated

Keep hope alive no matter what

ayandee:

So sorry about what you went through. It really must have been tough. I know it's hard to do but you can start by reaching out to others around you and showing love to them. You need to heal.

Thank you very much. My wife is the only friend I have now because she was very close to me, had empathy for me. One thing led to another and she got pregnant. But the issue now is, I'm only a private school teacher. My pay isn't enough to take care of us. My baby is 7months old. Malnourished and presently sick. I can't even afford drugs of six thousand for the baby. Life is unfair. Why has God not blessed me despite all the sufferings??

kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was itted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.

Pele o, but you won't be writing a comment if you had a fatal accident!

They gave me words of encouragement when i was depressed and suicidal around 2014. Is it when i will play virtual, owe debts and even drop my phone only for my dad to come through for me even behind my back. He has done far more things for me than any of my siblings. I cant wait to make it so i can take him to a cozy island and spoil him

Parents love is always genuine and undiluted ( not all parents Sha, we get deadbeat mum and Dad) could recall years back when I was still in secondary school (ss 2) had an Atshma attack late in the night chai. Unfortunately my inhaler was finished and didn't request to buy another was waiting for the next day to get it .......it was hell that night I saw death staring at me ooooo....come see my mum crying and taking me to the hospital that night...... God bless all the good mothers and father's out there ...as for my late mum...may her sweet soul continue to rest on....

Ismael97:
I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did. However I am still struggling

Don't give up bro, there's light at the end of the tunnel, you'll be great!

ThompsonJoo:
What was that thing your parent did to you that made you know that they loved you

I knew right from the day I was born

Aplaudez:



Don't give up bro, there's light at the end of the tunnel, you'll be great!

Amen bro. Just that I am tired of waiting. I don't want to go do something illegal. My baby of seven months is sick, I can't even afford medication of six thousand. I work as a private school teacher but we are been owed salaries for two months

After my NYSC I escorted my Dad with my credentials to his friend office who is a big man in Nigeria immigration service. With the fact that they were very close friends, my Dad kneel down in my presence and beg this man to give me appointment when the opportunity arises. I was very ashamed of myself when I saw my Dad on his knees, at the end the man failed him

I will never forget this for the rest of my life, by God Grace I will make sure I stand by my Dad always and forever

Mrfeel:
You will not see those who love insulting people's parents on nairaland commenting on this thread cause none of them knows what it feels like to be loved by parents

People like prettygirl200 omo nobody loves her at all..