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Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.

On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'

Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k. On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.' Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Mynd44 nlfpmod Seun

And what have u done/been doing for dis ur boyfriend?

Or it's about you, you and you all the time?

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k. On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.' Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Mynd44 nlfpmod Seun

Op, Happy New Year keee you there.

I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

Sheistoopretty:



And what have u done/been doing for dis ur boyfriend?

Or it's about you, you and you all the time?

I have done so much for him that we can't recount. I'm amaized that he called me a gold digger.

Messi1:
Op, Happy New Year keee you there.

And after I die wetin you go gain?

Karen2024:
And after I die wetin you go gain?

Shut up you beggar.

Karen2024:
I have done so much for him that we can't recount. I'm amaized that he called me a gold digger.

So much for him? like what and what actually?

I would so much love to hear your boyfriend's side of the story too oo

Ur name come be karen sef

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k. On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.' Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Mynd44 nlfpmod Seun

I haven't seen what you've done for him or what you both have done together.

My dear, maybe you should plan to surprise him, because he may be finding things difficult and all you're thinking is what you can yet from him.

If he continues to ignore you, then text me on WhatsApp and I will let you know what to do ok.

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

Lol, that’s gotta b ur dad and not boy boyfrnd
Common get out here and ur dumb lies… na new year we just dey enter so

Nsogbu, lols

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

And I will never settle for less
Any man dating a broke girl in this Era Is not ready to progress .
If you are not productive in the relationship what do you want to offer .
So man should be your provider and you are proud to say it ..

That means your is money .
So any man with money and can provide will get in between your legs .

This woman don’t believe they can provide for them self that is why they want a rich man lol

With out men cant you make it as a woman
Yes you can so why finding provider like free wifi


Fear woman

Sammy101111:




And I will never settle for less
A man dating a broke girl I not ready to progress .
If you are not productive in the relationship what do you want to offer .
So man should be your provider and you are proud to say it ..

That means your is money .
So any man with money and provider will get in between your legs .

Fear woman

If you no get money, hide your face.

No more doing independent lady for me this year. I want to relax and be taken kiaroff.

I've suffered too much

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

I'm sorry to anyone that take this shit serious

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

Oloooosho, someone with pussy which is bigger than the size of Kanji dam..nah person wey dey dive in your bottomless pit I blame.
I no blame you at all..spits.

If what you say here is so true, then he literally cares less for you, this is all I can say

Hunter0007:


Oloooosho, someone with pussy which is bigger than the size of Kanji dam..nah person wey dey dive in your bottomless pit I blame.
I no blame you at all..spits.

Diogo23, sammy10111, hunter0007, moyosire32.


Why are y'all pained by my comment?

Is having caring boyfriends a crime?

Please don't let jealousy envelope you, it's unhealthy. Or do you want what I have

As for you hunter0007, this should be the last time you insult me on this forum, next time, you won't be able comment on nairaland again

siofra:


If you no get money, hide your face.

No more doing independent lady for me this year. I want to relax and be taken kiaroff.

I've suffered too much

Please be patient Don’t let a man deceive you with money or little proving things .
Please be empowered on your own so the man can respect you very much and he will be afraid of loosing you .
But a man that knows a woman as nothing productive to do for him he will end up playing with her or messing her the way he want .

siofra:


Diogo23, sammy10111, hunter0007, moyosire32.


Why are y'all pained by my comment?

Is having caring boyfriends a crime?

Please don't let jealousy envelope you, it's unhealthy. Or do you want what I have

As for you hunter0007, this should be the last time you insult me on this forum, next time, you won't be able comment on nairaland again

Lmao , Dunce.
As per say nah your papa get Nairaland abi..
Oh I forgot, you have started fu$$ng one of the mods abi

Sammy101111:



Please be patient Don’t let a man deceive you with money or little proving things .
Please be empowered on your own so the man can respect you very much and he will be afraid of loosing you .
But a man that knows a woman as nothing productive to do for him he will end up playing with her or messing her the way he want .

I'm productive on my own but man money is sweeter.

Hunter0007:


Lmao , Dunce.
As per say nah your papa get Nairaland abi..
Oh I forgot, you have started fu$$ng one of the mods abi

Nlfpmod, Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, oam4j rule 2, 15 and 20.

siofra:


Nlfpmod, Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, oam4j rule 2, 15 and 20.

E pain her

That 20k na pesin salary for one month learn to appreciate, you have got entitlement mentality.

Food is Ready!!
@Op, waytin you don invest on your Boyfriend?
For the guy to call you Golddigger, it means he never get anything from you. Even in this festive season, waytin he gain from you ?
Abeg nor tell me say you dey give ham pu**y steady, because Nigerian girls pu** y is overrated.

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

told your boyfriends that before they can date you they must take the role of a provider and they foolishly agreed it's like you're using kayamata on them dey play just dey play

at your age you still dey chase clout

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k. On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.' Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Mynd44 nlfpmod Seun

They will eventually use you for money rituals. That's how people like you end up.

Why he no go call you golddigger when you only want his money but he no dey see your own chop lazy and self centered bitches everywhere

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k. On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.' Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

Mynd44 nlfpmod Seun

The only bad thing he did was not preparing and serving you the shits before quitting

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

I will wait till your prime is behind you then ask you the question I intend to ask initially, well! nothing is wrong with a man providing absolutely for a woman if she meets his criteria and he is not doing it from a place of wanting to Bleep.

If truly he called you 'Gold Digger' then he's right.

This i've seen!