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I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

No Nigerian girl can stay 4 weeks without sex. Your brother staying out of the country for a year expected his Nigerian wife's kpekus to be rusty

Brunicekid:
This is a lie..

No lies here.

Women are naturally born for sex. A broke man hardly think of sex, but, you'll see a broke and wretched girl feeling hornyy and demanding for marathon sex.

A man can never divorce his wife cos she's bad on bed. But, you see and hear stories of women divorcing their husband cos of inadequate sex or short dick.

Don't allow any woman deceive you that she will wait for you...she's getting the dick already with or without you.

Anybody that advice this OP to mind his business is a big fool



All those advising people to mind their business are having an affair with married people.

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique Ishilove abeg make una help me loud this thread.

I need suggestions and opinions to guide me in making the best decision on this matter.

Talk to her and warn her about such evil Directly or through someone.
If you see no changes, inform your brother immediately and Ensure you have concrete evidence.

Also your brother going oversees and leaving his wife here is not a healthy one.
Because only a woman with a Genuie fear of GOD will not misbehave in such circumstance. Advice your bro on that.

that's a bad one on her side,she's a married woman for goodness sake

but you can tell him if you're a comrade

you know sometimes peace is overrated

but I'd like you to find out maybe your brother ain't doing the same over there though

you know these married people ehn,their matter sometimes

my opinion though

peace be unto y'all

Please tell him, if u love ur brother

Brother, he his not your neighbor, he is your brother. INFORM HIM IMMEDIATELY. DON'T ATTEMPT TO TALK HER OUT OF IT.

However, do so with evidence. Make sure you have evidence of her in the act to butress your claim to your brother, otherwise, it will backfire.

Also, consider whether your brother is not an effeminate type who will turn against you for sharing the truth.

Burst the bubble for the sake of brother.

Chaii... Maybe she's cheating with you. Oopss

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

If you don't have any evidence then don't say anything. Keep it to yourself,then tell your brother when you do. Let him know that you have not told anyone, let the decision be he's,if he loves her enough to work it out. We are all humans with weaknesses, you can't vouch for your brother too.

Blunttruth:

If you don't have any evidence then don't say anything. Keep it to yourself,then tell your brother when you do. Let him know that you have not told anyone, let the decision be he's,if he loves her enough to work it out. We are all humans with weaknesses, you can't vouch for your brother too.

Here's a question. What happens in a case where he is also aware that his own brother is also cheating on the wife? Does he also gather evidence to share with the wife then too?

Dude, if you love your brother you have to tell him.

Righteousness2:
Talk to her and warn her about such evil Directly or through someone.
If you see no changes, inform your brother immediately and Ensure you have concrete evidence.

Also your brother going oversees and leaving his wife here is not a healthy one.
Because only a woman with a Genuie fear of GOD will not misbehave in such circumstance. Advice your bro on that.

Please do not give any human this counsel on earth again please. You want him assassinated? Does your scripture not tell you that bread stolen is sweet in the mouth? How would she resist the sweetness or the forbidden actions. Don't give counsel that will get a person killed

Kobojunkie:
Here's a question. What happens in a case where he is also aware that his own brother is also cheating on the wife? Does he also gather evidence to share with the wife then too?

He can talk to his brother to change. The truth is once blood is involved you will feel the need to talk.

The fact that you're even thinking about this says a lot about you yourself.

Get an evidence and show it to your brother ASAP. She's too dangerous.

But as you're showing your brother advice him about the children he has with her.

A broken home breeds a broken child.

Blunttruth:
He can talk to his brother to change. The truth is once blood is involved you will feel the need to talk.

Talk to his brother or talk to his brother's wife? I mean if he is to obtain evidence and then report it to his brother, shouldn't it follow that when he obtains evidence of his own brother's cheating, he should also report it to his brother's wife?

Your BROTHER O

and you are asking us if you should Keep shut.

So you can't think for yourself anymore and know what to do?
If you were your brother what you expect your BROTHER?

This your brother go dey send u money ABI?

No let me call u fool sha

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

Evidence or keep quiet or you get into a problem while monitoring what's not your biz.

Get your evidence and burst d bubble. Fu*ck that bit*ch

This is the reason why it good to marry and idoma lady, no any married idoma woman will dare cheat why in her husband house. Aleikwu will catch her.

Bros if I were you,I will mind my business.Make your brother by himself catch am,make Im nor be like say you spoil his marriage.......



That's my advice.

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

Buy a new sim card and tell him anonymously via sms.
You can send proof to him anonymously.

Asquare84:
This is the reason why it good to marry and idoma lady, no any married idoma woman will dare cheat why in her husband house. Aleikwu will catch her.

No dey wind yourself. Benue has the highest HIV rate in this country and Idoma women regularly get straffed while Alekwu is busy doing okada business.

Sweetplum:

Evidence or keep quiet or you get into a problem while monitoring what's not your biz.

OP, only very few ladies have sense.
Most ladies like this idiot will tell you not to tell your brother. They are prostitutes protecting their colleague.

Show this to him:
https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

Kobojunkie:
Talk to his brother or talk to his brother's wife? I mean if he is to obtain evidence and then report it to his brother, shouldn't it follow that when he obtains evidence of his own brother's cheating, he should also report it to his brother's wife?

I get your point. Double standards. Well if I were in his shoes and the reverse was the case I will probably call the wife and talk to her with my evidence, and threaten her to stop else I show it to her husband.

Blunttruth:

I get your point. Double standards. Well if I were in his shoes and the reverse was the case I will probably call the wife and talk to her with my evidence, and threaten her to stop else I show it to her husband.

So you are saying he shouldn't go reporting his sister-in-law's cheating to his brother, and also he shouldn't go reporting his brother's cheating to his sister-in-law?,

Kobojunkie:
So you are saying he shouldn't go reporting his sister-in-law's cheating to his brother, and also he shouldn't go reporting his brother's cheating to his sister-in-law?,

I have given my opinion. You can interpret it in anyway you like. I am not engaging you. This is my last response to your mention.

Kobojunkie:
Here's a question. What happens in a case where he is also aware that his own brother is also cheating on the wife? Does he also gather evidence to share with the wife then too?

Don't mind them. Team inform your brother!

How can a sane man leave his wife for a whole year? Sexually to thrive on what? Love Machine?

OP you and your brother no well!

Asquare84:
This is the reason why it good to marry and idoma lady, no any married idoma woman will dare cheat why in her husband house. Aleikwu will catch her.

Those there weird weird tradition
Eeven idoma man sef I no marry. A woman will just die for nothing
Their culture pertaining marriage doesn't sit well with me