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My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

God will make a way sir. Please don't terminate the pregnancy. Stay Safe!

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

After this, please opt for a permanent family planning. You and your wife are extra fertile.
Congratulations in advance... Be strong

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Kids are blessing,just look for someone to take care of them.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

A) get better contraception
B) get an abortion
C) if you are that miserable taking care of two kids, imagine how it will be with 3 kids?!

Never opt for abortion.... It's grace.

Is a blessing, give birth to this one, then go for family planning .

Congrats sir

Ezemarcel:
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

Lol �

SandraIkuboR:

Didn't see your digits yesterday

Juliet751:
Kids are blessing,just look for someone to take care of them.

The cost of hiring a baby sitter abroad is almost the same as the salary of him or his wife!

Kobicove:


The cost of hiring a baby sitter abroad is almost the same as the salary of him or his wife!

Hmm.

This life no balance

Pikin wey people dey find...e reach ur turn u dey complain

God is merciful God

*cums inside wife*
“Oh my gosh it led to pregnancy”

basty:
You are weak and your penis dey raise to sex.

Please do not disturb people on Nairaland o. You no dey shame, no self control.

Nonsense.

What?!? Lol!! Nigerians judge judge judge to avoid thinking!

Then go to church on sunday to repent for judging what only God can judge.

Atleast they know bible verses :/

FERNANDEZISBACK:
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spit the rubbish

Nicepoker:
spit the rubbish

Tell her..not me..

I guess you are Igbo

Ezemarcel:
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

seems they nacked out the IUD, implant is better ,women stop seeing their periods during pregnancy and to some women it will continue after childbirth and until after a month or two after stopping breastfeeding it will come again,that is natural child spacing of at least two years of safe nacking,but some women see their periods and are fertile immediately after childbirth,now that's very tricky,and it demands serious family planning to prevent accidental overload,because man must nack

Get a vasectomy,

You will not die.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

1, 2, 3 is a number

TeeGentle:
I guess you are Igbo

why?

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

okoroemeka:
seems they nacked out the IUD, implant is better ,women stop seeing their periods during pregnancy and to some women it will continue after childbirth and until after a month or two after stopping breastfeeding it will come again,that is natural child spacing of at least two years of safe nacking,but some women see their periods and are fertile immediately after childbirth,now that's very tricky,and it demands serious family planning to prevent accidental overload,because man must nack

Yes we thought ok maybe while breast feeding our first child she wont be fertile but was pregnant within 3 months of giving birth to our first child and that is how our second one is here. So then we told the doctor after second birth lets put iud in and it worked for 9 months so we thought now we are safe but then she was pregnant again 9 months after even with iud.

frozen70:


Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

Abroad costs too much childcare is very expensive and also renting. Most oyinbos pay 30% of their income to just rent alone. All that glitters is not gold.

frozen70:


Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

JonOfAustrlia:
why?

The statement weak me.

Baby shift my womb, baby shift my womb. U Don go shift IUD commot. Congrats bro, in few years time the pressure will reduce on you guys