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JonOfAustrlia: 7:05pm On Mar 24, 2022
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

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Ezemarcel(m): 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2022
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

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Nkem96: 7:09pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?


God will make a way sir. Please don't terminate the pregnancy. Stay Safe!

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SandraIkuboR(f): 7:12pm On Mar 24, 2022
sad
dawnomike(m): 7:17pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?
After this, please opt for a permanent family planning. You and your wife are extra fertile.
Congratulations in advance... Be strong

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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant Again And Our Kids Are Only 1 And 2 by Nobody: 7:20pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?
Kids are blessing,just look for someone to take care of them.

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MrBrownJay1(m): 7:22pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

A) get better contraception
B) get an abortion
C) if you are that miserable taking care of two kids, imagine how it will be with 3 kids?!

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nifemi25(m): 7:28pm On Mar 24, 2022
Never opt for abortion.... It's grace.

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Goldbw122(m): 7:34pm On Mar 24, 2022
Is a blessing, give birth to this one, then go for family planning .

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Cardealer2021(m): 7:39pm On Mar 24, 2022
Congrats sir cheesy

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JonOfAustrlia: 7:39pm On Mar 24, 2022
Ezemarcel:
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

Lol �
Cardealer2021(m): 7:41pm On Mar 24, 2022
SandraIkuboR:
sad
Didn't see your digits yesterday
Kobicove(m): 7:51pm On Mar 24, 2022
Juliet751:
Kids are blessing,just look for someone to take care of them.

The cost of hiring a baby sitter abroad is almost the same as the salary of him or his wife!

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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant Again And Our Kids Are Only 1 And 2 by Nobody: 8:06pm On Mar 24, 2022
Kobicove:


The cost of hiring a baby sitter abroad is almost the same as the salary of him or his wife!
Hmm.

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Realmi: 8:09pm On Mar 24, 2022
This life no balance

Pikin wey people dey find...e reach ur turn u dey complain

God is merciful God

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SenecaTheYonger: 8:10pm On Mar 24, 2022
*cums inside wife*
“Oh my gosh it led to pregnancy”

cheesy

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JonOfAustrlia: 8:11pm On Mar 24, 2022
basty:
You are weak and your penis dey raise to sex.

Please do not disturb people on Nairaland o. You no dey shame, no self control.

Nonsense.


What?!? Lol!! Nigerians judge judge judge to avoid thinking!

Then go to church on sunday to repent for judging what only God can judge.

Atleast they know bible verses :/

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Nicepoker(m): 8:15pm On Mar 24, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
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spit the rubbish
FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:16pm On Mar 24, 2022
Nicepoker:
spit the rubbish
Tell her..not me.. tongue

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TeeGentle(m): 8:58pm On Mar 24, 2022
I guess you are Igbo

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okoroemeka(m): 9:17pm On Mar 24, 2022
Ezemarcel:
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone
seems they nacked out the IUD, implant is better ,women stop seeing their periods during pregnancy and to some women it will continue after childbirth and until after a month or two after stopping breastfeeding it will come again,that is natural child spacing of at least two years of safe nacking,but some women see their periods and are fertile immediately after childbirth,now that's very tricky,and it demands serious family planning to prevent accidental overload,because man must nack

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Gerrard59(m): 10:11pm On Mar 24, 2022
Get a vasectomy,

You will not die.

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THeGamerBTL: 10:32pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?


1, 2, 3 is a number tongue

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JonOfAustrlia: 10:32pm On Mar 24, 2022
TeeGentle:
I guess you are Igbo
why? cheesy
frozen70(f): 10:35pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

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JonOfAustrlia: 10:37pm On Mar 24, 2022
okoroemeka:
seems they nacked out the IUD, implant is better ,women stop seeing their periods during pregnancy and to some women it will continue after childbirth and until after a month or two after stopping breastfeeding it will come again,that is natural child spacing of at least two years of safe nacking,but some women see their periods and are fertile immediately after childbirth,now that's very tricky,and it demands serious family planning to prevent accidental overload,because man must nack

Yes we thought ok maybe while breast feeding our first child she wont be fertile but was pregnant within 3 months of giving birth to our first child and that is how our second one is here. So then we told the doctor after second birth lets put iud in and it worked for 9 months so we thought now we are safe but then she was pregnant again 9 months after even with iud.

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JonOfAustrlia: 10:38pm On Mar 24, 2022
frozen70:


Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

Abroad costs too much childcare is very expensive and also renting. Most oyinbos pay 30% of their income to just rent alone. All that glitters is not gold.

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JonOfAustrlia: 10:39pm On Mar 24, 2022
frozen70:


Who do we blame if not you

Since you don't want condoms then be ready to have unplanned pregnancy's

You are lucky that you are abroad

Continue

Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

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Iykoto86(m): 10:44pm On Mar 24, 2022
JonOfAustrlia:
why? cheesy
The statement weak me.
Doubleoh7: 11:00pm On Mar 24, 2022
Baby shift my womb, baby shift my womb. U Don go shift IUD commot. Congrats bro, in few years time the pressure will reduce on you guys

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