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I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.

Your husband?

Please how long did you people date for before getting married?

Are you saying you married someone without having much knowledge about what he is into?

Arrant.....

So much for women

The earlier we women look before we leap especially when it comes to marriage, the better for us. Karl Marx once said that religion is the opium of the masses. Let me borrow Karl Marx quote and put it in my own way, thus it goes: Marriage is the opium of women.

It's so surprising that when a guy promise a girl marriage, you see once a sane girl loosing her sanity and become so stupid. She does thing as if she's being hypnotize hence you see them rush into marriage without caring to dig more about the guy before accepting his proposal few months you see them coming to complained bitterly, a great number of them endured so much, they can't speak out because of shame.

If I advise them, they say that I am bitter and jealous of them because I am yet to get married, like wtf. I would've been worried about marriage assuming there was a place God says that it's only those that marry that will make heaven, but inasmuch as God never said so, I am so save whether married or not.

Men also should be very careful with the type of women they walk down the aisle..If you get merged with Satan in form of a wife , you'll forever regret your action.

From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??

advanceDNA:
From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??

Very one kind story! Too many mummy idont know which mummy is the husband baby mummy again!!

Anyways OP what advice do you need! Dissolve the marriage and find yourself another husband or remain single (being single ain't a sin or a crime)

Fantastic. This story wear stiletto

advanceDNA:
From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??

I Thought I am stupid Ooo

I just the see ...Mummy GO, Daddy GO, Apostle GO, Sister GO

I could not comprehend.. Mummy Daddy,Daddy mummy. Riding her in our car.
... Marriage is not for everybody.

I swear I no understand this story,who sing the story lolz,,,,no offeinse

MadamVanessa:



So much for women

The earlier we women look before we leap especially when it comes to marriage, the better for us. Karl Marx once said that religion is the opium of the masses. Let me borrow Karl Marx quote and put it in my own way, thus it goes: Marriage is the opium of women.

It's so surprising that when a guy promise a girl marriage, you see once a sane girl loosing her sanity and become so stupid. She does thing as if she's being hypnotize hence you see them rush into marriage without caring to dig more about the guy before accepting his proposal few months you see them coming to complained bitterly, a great number of them endured so much, they can't speak out because of shame.

If I advise them, they say that I am bitter and jealous of them because I am yet to get married, like wtf. I would've been worried about marriage assuming there was a place God says that it's only those that marry that will make heaven, but inasmuch as God never said so, I am so save whether married or not.

Men also should be very careful with the type of women they walk down the aisle..If you get merged with Satan in form of a wife , you'll forever regret your action.

Hello. Good morning. The young lady asked for an advice. Not this epistemological editorial.

Have a nice day.

E no dey end well una no go hear

Holly Gram


Na dis MORNING WEED de HIGH me abi Na waiting!


I No de COMPRISUN DIS MATTERZ at all..


U no go primary school abi Na VEX u take TYPE dis MATTERZ!


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN!

Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother. My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it. My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him. Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frawn upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better. Advice please

everywhere is spiritual mummy at al. WTF are you typing sis. You on molly or percocet? That husband of yours is for the community. He is what yoruba people call ' Anfani Adugbo' . i.e community blessing.

Gather more evidence and confront him, but before confronting him inform your people and also give the copies of those evidences, just in case your husband and his mistress try to get extreme.








I still sell catfishes (living and smoked)

Gather the thing you can gather and move out ASAP, he has been on the radar of EFCC. If it's not a deal breaker I don't know what is a deal breaker for you

That's why you must watch your female children and help them in making lifelong decisions lest they hurt themselves and everyone else around them by their nature.
An average woman cannot see beyond what her nature wants to see. And we all know that what lies beyond what she sees is what truly matters.

omooo

BREAKFAST is being served at the START OF MARRIAGE.... No PASTOR will advise you to LEAVE YOUR MARRIAGE....

Na your MENTAL HEALTH fit ADVISE YOU...

Anyways, matter like this are very sensitive, and to rush and make decisions on this, may probably not be advisable.

They see, don't involve third party in your marriage, not in this type of matter.

Since your partner siblings are aware of his unhealthy act, involve your mother and the pastor who wedded you guys.

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From the first three lines... I just felt like I was doing advance calculus...
Is it just me, or the story be one kind??

Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.

If you dont have any good job or business, you need to as a matter of urgency focus on that from this moment on.

If you have a side business or a business that cannot even fend for you and your kids, you need to start thinking of upgrading that level immediately.

Under no circumstance must you confront you husband before you become financially independent.

This is the time to start showering him with love and care. Let him invest in your business and independence.

If you allow your emotions or pastors to mislead you, you will suffer more despair in the years to come.

Be smart.

Build yourself and your independence first.

Only then can you now confront him.

But also ask yourself, what are you not offering anymore? How has been your sex life with him? Are you always complaining of been too tired for sex? How's the food? hows the home environment? Look inwards and see the genesis.

Religion can only comfort your mind at the moment, it wont provide practical solutions.

Get the money bag first before you get the sword.

"She call me brother, I call her sister too..."


Dear OP please re-compose this story but this time, read through it patiently before posting because myself and many other nairalanders can't comprehend this.

I wish u well Sha.

Spiritual mother inlaw.. Take heart, not a big deal

Your writing no be here o

Back to the story. You have now seen who your husband truly is. You have only two options: remain with him and accept his polygamous, promiscuous lifestyle or dump him for your sanity sake. Whichever one you choose has a pros and cons. If you leave, another woman will move in without wasting time. If you remain, you might one day have a co wife

Spiritual mother lol

Sorry to say,this story is just so funny

Spiritual uncles and daddies everywhere

Anywhere too much Spiritual dey, RUN.