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Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.

She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

You are dating her but she's not dating you.
Read the handwriting Bro,
Your babe has another boo.
Move on. If you eventually marry her you will be so alone and unhappy.

Take 100 naira buy Handkerchief you will need it when you see how effortlessly she will move on like you don't exist.

Let me tell you the truth from personal experience, the girl doesn't love you. She's just catching cruise. When you no get bar again, or you can't meet up with her needs she will leave you and move on to the next tree way get enough bananas.

One of the easiest ways to even know if a girl is into you is through phone calls or chats. When you see a girl calling you repeatedly asking you if you don chop, good morning, good evening etc it simply shows she likes you.

As for this one that you say is your babe and she doesn't call you, you better dump her

Marriage? It's better to be patience abeg, communication is 90% key to any good relationship and happy home, she is even lucky, she doesn't love you. At least she should be able to afford #100 credit to call or text. Please you are dating yourself. Find where your happiness with good communications are waiting for you.

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

She is calling another nigga alaye

Even baby girl wey be introvert dae always call you
Especially when you dun get marital plans with her

See niggar man let me advise you
Put her on 95% mode and start and focus on your hustle, as you focus on your hustle also make money
When I was 21 I dun already use 3cars

Communication is the foundation and strength of any relationship
Strange to me sae your baby girl no dae call you

Another nigga must be steadily banging that pussssssssaaaaaay


Btw wetin dae happen sef
Too many discouraging shits on marriage these days

Shey I no go leave my baby girl like this

E go be

If your cl fit open crypto dot com dm me on telegram make we share Christmas money asap

It's already dead on arrival,Op abeg just zero your mind from her.As for me I don ready bone any girl wey try that shit with me

Wahala no dey finish for Nairaland
Chai

Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls

She doesn't chat him first either, what's your point cuz you seem to be missing the narrative here

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.

Sky......that's not true.

Smartb0y:

She doesn't chat him first either, what's your point cuz you seem to be missing the narrative here

Calm down...I was going to expatiate my point.

Skyfornia:


Calm down...I was going to expatiate my point.

Aiit carry on

Godada:



Sky......that's not true.

What do you think boss?

This kind ladies will break up with you and you’ll not even know.

Probably she’s moved on a long time ago but you were still calling and texting

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

you are wasting your time bruh

Maybe she's a introvert.

But if you are not comfortable with the relationship you can call it a day.

If she doesn't call you call her, it as simple as that or you buy her airtime for her to call you, i personally can stay a month without calling anybody maybe she's that type of person.

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

ok so U wanto marry babe who dont call u & u dont tink u comitin sexual harasment...correct?.....brother I don meamnnnto sound rudes but somebody need to tie u to mango tree & flog the livvvvin daylight outter u..Goat!(no oofense)

Smartb0y:

She doesn't chat him first either, what's your point cuz you seem to be missing the narrative here

You didn't picked context out of his word.
Read @bolded again;

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.

Bolarineliza202:

You didn't picked context out of his word.
Read @bolded again;

I responded before he concluded his statement

virginprincess:
If she doesn't call you call her, it as simple as that or you buy her airtime for her to call you, i personally can stay a month without calling anybody maybe she's that type of person.

Why are you women just so heartless?

Your monicker doesn't suit you,you may be a princess of one random remote village located in the middle of nowhere,but you are most certainly not a Virgin

She calls, you tag her for being too clingy. She no call, u complain. Confused gender.

Smartb0y:


I responded before he concluded his statement

Okay@smartb0y,your'e smart indeed

odinson1:


Why are you women just so heartless?

Your monicker doesn't suit you,you may be a princess of one random remote village located in the middle of nowhere,but you are most certainly not a Virgin

Why do you have a problem with my moniker? did i tell you i'm a princess, that aside, back to your question, women are not heartless we are just smarter and wiser now, as a man it is his duty to call her,or buy her airtime for her to call him if he so much craves for her call.

They are all the same,even the one that calls u everyday will still call other guys after she drops . Dont be fooled by these fake ass puzzles, they ain't worth shi t . I had 2 like that,they don't call like weekly sef. Anytime I wan give better fuc k,na the. I dey call nd we go fuc k like pussy is hurting me. Right there and then her phone ring,I wasn't bugged. E get wetin u don do am,or do to am wey she never forgive u. I lived with my babe for 2 good years,I Bleep her almost every day and in the type that don't cum quic k .If she wakes up,she no go ask me how was your night,or even good morning. But she go take phone call diff ppl,dey ask how them take sleep,this,that. One nite that she over stepped her boundaries, around 10pm.When I gave her better beating ,hostel atmosphere change that nite.i ended it that day. Tho she called me like 3 weeks back,but I k ow say she wan fuc k. If u have fuc ked her more than 100 times,then u get problem. If u have only chopnher like 3 times,then u r looser. If u never chop am,u need sniper.

Holly Gram OP IF U FINALLY CALL DAT GIRL, NA THUNDER GO FIRE U. WTF MAN

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

Chat me up. 08172964029. I will give u a secret. We have a lot to discuss. I was once in ur shoes

Speaking From personal experience..just move on man... her interest no dey ur side. The mind is always were its treasure is.

She no want you again... but she doesn't knw how to tell you. So you won't feel bad...
and it's not a big deal... its not a "no testing market" she probably don test you and she don realize say you are not what she wants. you don't expect her endure.

Or maybe she just doesn't knw how to value her treasure. That also is a major problem, one only God can solve but you no be God my brother ...you are justt a mere mortal.

Pumpumking:



ok so U wanto marry babe who dont call u & u dont tink u comitin sexual harasment...correct?.....brother I don meamnnnto sound rudes but somebody need to tie u to mango tree & flog the livvvvin daylight outter u!!(no oofense)

Cork calm down

virginprincess:
Why do you have a problem with my moniker? did i tell you i'm a princess, that aside, back to your question, women are not heartless we are just smarter and wiser now, as a man it is his duty to call her,or buy her airtime for her to call him if he so much craves for her call.

See rubbish quote if I get kain I go flog u ....
Why does he have to be the one buying card for her do where d love day ..

Guys y na day send women I don't fucking care about their existence there was a time I did till I figured out that most of this stupid women think they are doing us a favor by dating us that why d rubbish mentality is there ... Woman them suppose connect USB to your head con use windows 7 flash am .. you claim you love someone and you can't use your own money to buy call card to call d person if he doesn't call you ..

I don't think someone ladies understand what love is all about ..

As for me oooo guys I will day the truth we guys are suffering , why

We use money to get love then we use money to marry what we think is love like wise it's life time debit alert..

Imagine me paying the bride price of someone who will debut me till we seperate ....

Most women are greedy, selfish and self centered if not she no go day cap this rubbish

Anobella:



See rubbish quote if I get kain I go flog u ....
Why does he have to be the one buying card for her do where d love day ..

Guys y na day send women I don't fucking care about their existence there was a time I did till I figured out that most of this stupid women think they are doing us a favor by dating us that why d rubbish mentality is there ... Woman them suppose connect USB to your head con use windows 7 flash am .. you claim you love someone and you can't use your own money to buy call card to call d person if he doesn't call you ..

I don't think someone ladies understand what love is all about ..

As for me oooo guys I will day the truth we guys are suffering , why

We use money to get love then we use money to marry what we think is love like wise it's life time debit alert..

Imagine me paying the bride price of someone who will debut me till we seperate ....

Most women are greedy, selfish and self centered if not she no go day cap this rubbish

Do you know that I recharge her and also buy data for her? The same data package I use is what I buy for her