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Sometimes, you just wish somethings don’t even happen where you are at all 
I have been in a situation like this before and I know how bad it feels to ever experience such – e go be like say make person just die.

My Story
I when I visited a Friend’s house in Lekki and they were looking for his Laptop, everyone staying in that house started looking at my face

I tried all I could to let every know I was innocent but nobody was even giving me a listening ear but thank God, they found it.. I promised myself never to go there again.

This post I saw on someone’s Whatsapp status actually made me the sad experience which I shared above.. I swear it’s only by the Grace of God that one can escape this kind of issue…

Now, let’s go


#copied

Never step your feet there again

Wetin concern me...
If I no do something e no dey shake me...

Laptop na something wey dem fit pocket?

I'd probably visit again, if the same incident reoccurs, fvck it!!! I'm done visiting

BigDan69:
Sometimes, you just wish somethings don’t even happen where you are at all 
I have been in a situation like this before and I know how bad it feels to ever experience such – e go be like say make person just die.

My Story
I when I visited a Friend’s house in Lekki and they were looking for his Laptop, everyone staying in that house started looking at my face

I tried all I could to let every know I was innocent but nobody was even giving me a listening ear but thank God, they found it.. I promised myself never to go there again.

This post I saw on someone’s Whatsapp status actually made me the sad experience which I shared above.. I swear it’s only by the Grace of God that one can escape this kind of issue…

Now, let’s go


#copied

Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

Not a good experience...

I sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly...

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.

Too bad but the problem is from your wife she should be the one to make sure you eat no matter how busy she will be

neonly:


Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

neonly:


Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

Your in-law are heartless!
This is why as a Man, you must avoid see-finish at all cost anywhere your in-law are involved.

neonly:


Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

Too bad for your wife

May be they keep it mistakenly

neonly:


Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

Your wife was meant to be the one to bring you food, to avoid any super stories. i certainly wont collect food from my inlaws if my wife is not the one dishing it out.

Skyfornia:
Not a good experience...

I sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly...

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.

I can imagine. I hope you two are still good?

Skyfornia:
I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.

I personally wouldn't have asked him.

I when I was new here, I was staying in a friend's house.

We both do the same work though his pay was almost twice as mine.

We used to return home mostly on Fridays, and once we arrived, we would drop certain amount in the wardrobe. Everybody knows the required amount.

The money was used for things done in the house that isn't personal. We would then hide our personal money elsewhere until Monday morning when would give it to our banker friend to deposit for us.

I wouldn't say it was hiding sef because we still knew where each person kept his.


He told me one day that a girl was coming and would the night. Someone he knew from way back was going somewhere and got stranded and asked if she could crash and continue in the morning.

She showed up minutes later with another guy. After greetings and all that, I went inside where I kept my money and took it, leaving just N1700 and some other changes there.

Day broke, they took their bathes and left. I checked the N1700 and it was gone, with all the changes. Checked the ones we tly kept in the wardrobe and nothing nothing was there too.

It was a Monday morning so we took our bathes and left the house for work.

Nobody talked about it till today. We just acted like it never happened. He was sad the whole day though and hissed when I told her that the girl is beautiful.

Kondomatic:
I personally wouldn't have asked him.

I when I was new here, I was staying in a friend's house.

We both do the same work though his pay was almost twice as mine.

We used to return home mostly on Fridays, and once we arrived, we would drop certain amount in the wardrobe. Everybody knows the required amount.

The money was used for things done in the house that isn't personal. We would then hide our personal money elsewhere until Monday morning when would give it to our banker friend to deposit for us.

I wouldn't say it was hiding sef because we still knew where each person kept his.


He told me one day that a girl was coming and would the night. Someone he knew from way back was going somewhere and got stranded and asked if she could crash and continue in the morning.

She showed up minutes later with another guy. After greetings and all that, I went inside where I kept my money and took it, leaving just N1700 and some other changes there.

Day broke, they took their bathes and left. I checked the N1700 and it was gone, with all the changes. Checked the ones we tly kept in the wardrobe and nothing nothing was there too.

It was a Monday morning so we took our bathes and left the house for work.

Nobody talked about it till today. We just acted like it never happened. He was sad the whole day though and hissed when I told her that the girl is beautiful.

maturity

debbydams:
maturity

The wahala balance nah lol

SporaD8:

Your in-law are heartless!
This is why as a Man, you must avoid see-finish at all cost anywhere your in-law are involved.

Best advice

https://www.33naija.com

Skyfornia:
Not a good experience...

I sometime ago a close relative visited me. Within two days of his visit, I started looking for 7k I kept in my suit pocket inside wardrobe, I saw the money a day before it got missing. In my family, the last thing anyone could be accused of is stealing, it is alien to us.

We were the only two people in the house and I didn't know how to ask him for the missing money...I was worried cause I didn't want to spoil our reputation. Omo I searched everywhere and didn't see the money so I was forced to ask him...the look on his face was that of disappointment. He said he didn't see the money. I became double worried, one for the missing money and two for breaking the trust/reputation. But who could have taken the money? At some point I started believing maybe I have spent the money unknowingly...

But alas, I found the money inside the hand of my suit jacket in the wardrobe. Meaning I mistakenly put it there instead of my suit inner breast pocket.

I told him I have found the money and apologized, but could still see the disappointing look on his face...I regretted asking him for the missing money till today.

You did NOTHING wrong by asking!!
You are just having doz Regrets for nothing..
Even if you are staying with Pope Francis, if your property misses, you should ask him..

Wahala for who dey date a person from stupid family.

neonly:


Mine was dat my in-laws had a party I was invited at a point they told me drinks have finish for der guess instantly I gave dem money to buy additional 10 crate of beer fast forward do u know I stayed in dat party for more than 9hrs with eating or been offered pure water they were just drinking beside me them no even send me eventually when hungry wan kill me I ask someone to go to Mr biggs to buy food for me later when I was abt leaving they were asking me if I eating I said no they said it was my wife dat was supposed to serve me I just kuku enter my car drove go home since than I no dey reach der house again without having my own food in my trunk

Lala give that man a cold bottle of Heineken..I will pay later

KingMack:





Lala give that man a cold bottle of Heineken..I will pay later

Fortunately dat my brand nice one

I just love the freedom to drop money anywhere without being worried bout it stolen by the next person

Vinnie2000:



You did NOTHING wrong by asking!!
You are just having doz Regrets for nothing..
Even if you are staying with Pope Francis, if your property misses, you should ask him..

You won't understand. Perhaps you don't know the meaning of integrity.

Pat081:
Too bad but the problem is from your wife she should be the one to make sure you eat no matter how busy she will be

But was it his wife that asked him of 10k to buy drink

Skyfornia:


You won't understand. Perhaps you don't know the meaning of integrity.

My friend..
There is Nothing like Integrity there!
You are just being Afraid..

Even if the Person is the Pope or Sheik, @least you should ask
'Hello, you saw my Money?
He only has to say Yes or No!

But not asking@all is like Fear or cowardice, really!
Change dat Habit n be Brave oo!!

No harm meant, but Na your Type, Him Wife go Thief all him Money for Tro pocket, he go dey Quiet!

Johnsown1:


But was it his wife that asked him of 10k to buy drink

what are you saying now? Me and you can not answer that question, because the man did not tell us

Vinnie2000:



My friend..
There is Nothing like Integrity there!
You are just being Afraid..

Even if the Person is the Pope or Sheik, @least you should ask
'Hello, you saw my Money?
He only has to say Yes or No!

But not asking@all is like Fear or cowardice, really!
Change dat Habit n be Brave oo!!

No harm meant, but Na your Type, Him Wife go Thief all him Money for Tro pocket, he go dey Quiet!

If it works for you fine. Stick to it.
In my family...it doesn't work that way...nobody takes what does not belong to him. Don't worry ... we're fine bro