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Asking for a friend

He likes a girl but she begs and I think she doesn't know it's a bad character and a turn off. That's what my friend sees and it's delaying him from letting his intention known to the girl. She's not lacking or better still, she works but at any instance,she asks for something. She does it with no harm or any crazy intention. My guy likes the girl but this single flaw is the obstacle. And he's not the only one that she ask something from.

If there's a way he can correct her without hurting her feelings deeply, please help out.

Wahala dey

Most girls are like that.. even if he should cut her off and look for another babe to love.. there's a 90% chance that the next babe is also a spanger..

I was bored the other day and thought of one girl.. then I msg her on WhatsApp.. she's a student.. I was like sorry I haven't ed you for a while I've just been busy..

She said she was good and was going to start exam the following Monday.. Oh ok how are you preparing I asked..

Na there i find trouble.. she begin explain how she needed money to buy textbooks and some other reading materials for the exam.. and she needed my financial assistant

the red pillers can come in now. as for me na vitamin c piller I be

are u not mistaking her playfulness for something else? like me i use it as a point of conversation or greetings.. I always ask my neighbours any beta or anything for me!! we will laugh and everyone start their journey

If she's working, it means she's not a content person.

I know a girl, this girl also works. Two weeks to get birthday, this girl has started announcing on WhatsApp status that her birthday is coming up, doing fund raiser, telling people that love her to better show her love. I thought it was just a hype.

On the said birthday, this girl started posting all credit alert she was getting, all gifts she got.

I shock.

Some people are shameless like that o.

dollytino4real:
are u not mistaking her playfulness for something else? like me i use it as a point of conversation or greetings.. I always ask my neighbours any beta or anything for me!! we will laugh and everyone start their journey

That's what he thought and he do get things for her sometimes but he it was just too consistent like it's not normal. And the girl doesn't count it as a bad thing. He can just be having a conversation with him and next thing is come and buy me ice cream or something. like how?

Romanoff:
If she's working, it means she's not a content person.

I know a girl, this girl also works. Two weeks to get birthday, this girl has started announcing on WhatsApp status that her birthday is coming up, doing fund raiser, telling people that love her to better show her love. I thought it was just a hype.

On the said birthday, this girl started posting all credit alert she was getting, all gifts she got.

I shock.

Some people are shameless like that o.

I don't know how to advice him. He even believes if he ask her out and she gets another man that can buy her stuffs,she will leave

As I see it.... she is business oriented.... programmed for business... interaction with her is not free.

dannyrhymes600:
the red pillers can come in now. as for me na vitamin c piller I be

dannyrhymes600:
the red pillers can come in now. as for me na vitamin c piller I be

Bornsinner7:
Wahala dey

Most girls are like that.. even if he should cut her off and look for another babe to love.. there's a 90% chance that the next babe is also a spanger..

I was bored the other day and thought of one girl.. then I msg her on WhatsApp.. she's a student.. I was like sorry I haven't ed you for a while I've just been busy..

She said she was good and was going to start exam the following Monday.. Oh ok how are you preparing I asked..

Na there i find trouble.. she begin explain how she needed money to buy textbooks and some other reading materials for the exam.. and she needed my financial assistant

Definition of "trouble dey sleep nyanga go wake am"

Please how can tell any girl NO whenever they beg me for something like u know it’s rude to tell them NO and i lost some of em with that straight forward answer like how can i whine dem so they will let me be

PaulJohn45:

That's what he thought and he do get things for her sometimes but he it was just too consistent like it's not normal. And the girl doesn't count it as a bad thing. He can just be having a conversation with him and next thing is come and buy me ice cream or something. like how?

ok, let him be straight in telling her no cutting corners

Romanoff:
If she's working, it means she's not a content person.

I know a girl, this girl also works. Two weeks to get birthday, this girl has started announcing on WhatsApp status that her birthday is coming up, doing fund raiser, telling people that love her to better show her love. I thought it was just a hype.

On the said birthday, this girl started posting all credit alert she was getting, all gifts she got.

I shock.

Some people are shameless like that o.

Typical Bra Quame does this shiii

If you would have given us an instance of how she begs maybe that would have been very helpful.

But I think your guy needs to talk with her. You know the best way to tell someone about something they are doing which you don't like is to actually sit them down and tell them.

Let your guy sit her down and talk to her. Give her instances of how she did the begging in the past. Let her explain why she did it and then make her understand why it's not a good thing for her to beg.

If she promises to change, then give her time. Now habit is something that we form over the years, so it's not something that she will totally change overnight.

But here is the most important thing: let your friend keep an eye out and watch to see if she's making any effort to change after the discussion.

If she's making an effort, then she's actually a good girl and someone that listens. A very good thing to have in your woman.

But if she sees nothing wrong in it but argued her way out then, you friend is free to take any action he wants.

A lot of relationship problems can be solved easily if we learn to communicate how we feel instead of sitting down with a heavy heart hoping that our partner will magically hear our thoughts and change.

Sadly, it doesn't work that way. Hope your friend will be capable to take care of her needs though since telling her not to beg will be indirectly and directly telling her to come beg from him.

BuharFulani.

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You're that "friend"

Stop denying your personality

Bornsinner7:
Wahala dey

Most girls are like that.. even if he should cut her off and look for another babe to love.. there's a 90% chance that the next babe is also a spanger..

I was bored the other day and thought of one girl.. then I msg her on WhatsApp.. she's a student.. I was like sorry I haven't ed you for a while I've just been busy..

She said she was good and was going to start exam the following Monday.. Oh ok how are you preparing I asked..

Na there i find trouble.. she begin explain how she needed money to buy textbooks and some other reading materials for the exam.. and she needed my financial assistant

lol, buy textbooks to read for tomorrow's exams? some of them think the guys don't know the scams they do but just blindly in order to complete the circle.

BuharFulani:
If you would have given us an instance of how she begs maybe that would have been very helpful.

But I think your guy needs to talk with her. You know the best way to tell someone about something they are doing which you don't like is to actually sit them down and tell them.

Let your guy sit her down and talk to her. Give her instances of how she did the begging in the past. Let her explain why she did it and then make her understand why it's not a good thing for her to beg.

If she promises to change, then give her time. Now habit is something that we form over the years, so it's not something that she will totally change overnight.

But here is the most important thing: let your friend keep an eye out and watch to see if she's making any effort to change after the discussion.

If she's making an effort, then she's actually a good girl and someone that listens. A very good thing to have in your woman.

But if she sees nothing wrong in it but argued her way out then, you friend is free to take any action he wants.

A lot of relationship problems can be solved easily if we learn to communicate how we feel instead of sitting down with a heavy heart hoping that our partner will magically hear our thoughts and change.

Sadly, it doesn't work that way. Hope your friend will be capable to take care of her needs though since telling her not to beg will be indirectly and directly telling her to come beg from him.

BuharFulani.

Please if you are shy or an introvert and find it difficult to toast girls or don't know how to chat with girls to build attraction, check my signature, there's something wonderful there that will help you.

Thanks

Romanoff:
If she's working, it means she's not a content person.

I know a girl, this girl also works. Two weeks to get birthday, this girl has started announcing on WhatsApp status that her birthday is coming up, doing fund raiser, telling people that love her to better show her love. I thought it was just a hype.

On the said birthday, this girl started posting all credit alert she was getting, all gifts she got.

I shock.

Some people are shameless like that o.

Na so ashawo take dey start