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In Nigeria, money will buy love and you will collect change.

Most of this women you see single today are single because, their preferred choice of man is yet to come with the bag. reason the enugu ritualist and his like keep having beautiful women at home despite this women knowing what the husband is into.

The following is the only thing money cannot buy

Death.
Health.
Peace of mind.

Love dies after marriage because the two couples ,changes focus.

The man is now aware that he needs to feed the family, the woman suddenly realize that the kids needs her more than the man.

My problem with christians nowadays is not the pastors or the leaders, but the phoolish followers who cannot detached real and fake men of God using common sense, na so one dey dance for church people dey fall down call Amos musa,,,haba na jesus take practice this una religion? Haba

Good, one of the agEncy failing in Nigeria is NOA

Chilipepper:
Difference between Mother and a wife

Why are all NL abandoned women bitter today? especially their president

No man survives alone

Well, all i have to say is, in the present day Nigeria especially if i am the only man alive, if i cheat, my wife is free to leave, if she cheats my wife will still leave the marriage, so jona swallow fish or fish swallow jona, the koko be say swallow was involved, no woman cheats and stay with me, i mean ordinary chat is enough for me to kick her out of my house.

We are Africans and our value remains, forget genZ cursed generation of unclothedness, in my culture, no woman cheats on their husband and go scot free, those that tried it are alive but can even speak what happen to them.

Congratulations

Marriage is an institution that requires patience and collaboration

What you are seeing there is AI generated.

ZaddyJ:

Very good comment , sometimes when you follow advice of naysayers who are yet to experience marriage you will end up detesting a woman who has shown you unadulterated love.
My wife is not reading my comment and is not here , so I won’t say any bad thing about her so I don’t incur the wrath of God. I’m in America today solely because of her. So why will I follow this God forsaken rules that won’t help me but destroy my beautiful marriage ?

My brother some women with beautiful heart are still out there waiting for a man that will love them comionately . just like how we have some evil men who benefitted more from a woman yet still dump them .

Just like you said do what keep peace in your home .

My brother, if you like your marriage ehh, just read and on nairaland..Men here are kindergarten

USA police na mad people

allthingsgood:
When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage:

1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide
A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.

2. Letting your appearance suffer
When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.

3. Take charge
You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.

4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader
Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.

5. Avoiding conflict like the plague
We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.

6. Prepare for the rainy day
Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!

7. Your wife is not your best friend
Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation


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Based on my experience in marriage, no one formula can work in marriage, some men can actually practice these rules and the marriage will remain, others will do it may not go well with your partner.

Generally speaking, do what keep peace in your home dazzall.

good one

Wike is really the kind of man we need, the guy get balls

Una dey try ooo, una sabi take rubbish, so person wey no dey pay bills dey threaten person wey dey pay bills? Nawa

This same negligence nearly cost the life of my wife three weeks ago, may Nigeria not happen to you..

In all just make money and you will be free in Nigeria.

Love800:
I will mix the detergent with the local soap? Or i should use them separately?

Mix them together, but you must cut your hair clean to the skin

A Nigerian Army soldier attached to Operation Udoka has been killed by suspected of the proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra after sneaking out of his duty post to attend a party in Anambra State.

The incident was said to have occurred on the evening of Saturday, May 18, 2025, at the Forward Operating Base in Uli.

It was gathered that the soldier had attended the event — a strippers’ party titled “Ladies’ Jamboree” — while wearing his military camouflage uniform.

According to a security source, the soldier was discovered missing during a tactical operation. The source said, “It was during a tactical operation that it was discovered the soldier was missing. He was later found to have sneaked out of the base without permission to attend a strippers’ party at a nearby hotel, in uniform. It was there that he was accosted and fatally shot by suspected IPOB/ESN fighters. His lifeless body, along with that of a baby, was later recovered at the scene by troops. “His weapon has been retrieved and is currently in military custody.”

Operation Udoka is a Defence Headquarters-led operation and efforts to reach the Director, Defence Media Operations, Maj. Gen. Markus Kangye, were unsuccessful.His phone number was switched off, and he had yet to respond to a message sent to him as of the time of filing this report.

The PUNCH reports that the killing is the latest in a series of targeted attacks on security personnel in the South-East region, where IPOB and ESN have been accused of carrying out violent campaigns against state forces.

https://punchng.com/suspected-ipob-fighters-kill-soldier-who-sneaked-out-to-attend-party/

Love800:
Soklin soap. Do you mean the usual klin detergent that is sold in kiosks/shops?

Yes

Dogalmighty17:
I don't think a divorced mom of 2 is the best person to advise anyone on marriage.

My brother na them dey advise now ooo and the funny thing is her gender listen to them most

As long as money is involved, ladies dont have problem dying, more will visit, this will not be the last.

The guy name na Emmypound not EmmyUSD

May Allah S.W.T bless us to do sadaqa for others Ameen.

I really need to imbide this as a salary earner, but most times, wahala from left and right will not allow you to even when the salary is paid.

What i need now is a zakat institution where i can sign a mandate with my bank, so that as soon as salary entered, it will be deducted automatically

Love800:
Thanks so much.

But does it really work?

How do i use it?

Yes, add powdered soKlin soap..it works like majic, pls dont use viva or any other one, use soklin

I know very well nigerian men will still go ahead and carry this public toilet put for house

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

The moment they ask una common sense question, the next thing id for you guys to choose emotional blackmail, ike play like play even you single mother dey una family blood

Family wey no get problem, nobody see witch, nobody is angry coz the other one is more successful, just happiness and vibe.

True, more people will go into poverty in Africa, leaders are not focused and disoriented

Mr Nyesom Wike, Minister of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), says the 15-kilometre Apo to Wassa road project is ready for inauguration to celebrate President Bola Tinubu’s second anniversary. Mr Nyesom Wike, Minister of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), says the 15-kilometre Apo to Wassa road project is ready for inauguration to celebrate President Bola Tinubu’s second anniversary. Wike stated this in Abuja on Saturday, after he inspected the project and others in preparation for Tinubu’s second anniversary at the end of May. The 15-kilometre left wing service lane of the Outer Southern Expressway, from Ring Road I to Wassa Junction, was awarded to ease traffic congestion and open up Wassa District for development. The minister said that the road, which had been completed, was among several projects being concluded for inauguration to celebrate Tinubu’s second year in office.


He commended the contractor, China Geo-Engineering Corporation (CGC), for fulfilling its promise of making the road ready for inauguration in May.

Wike equally inspected the ongoing construction of the N16 Interchange at NICON Junction and the road project that es through Gishiri village to link Maitama and Katampe Districts to Wole Soyinka Way.

He lauded the pace of the projects and expressed optimism that they would be completed and be part of several others that would be inaugurated by the end of May.

“By next week, we will be able to provide all the projects that will be inaugurated to celebrate Tinubu’s second anniversary.

“This is one of them, OSEX to Wassa is also one of them; the Abuja International Conference Centre is another one. So many roads. “The Phase I of Obafemi Awolowo Way (N5) from Life Camp Junction to Ring Road III is another one – so many road projects both in satellite towns and the city.

“Even the Greater Abuja Water Supply project will also be inaugurated.

“It will take us about two weeks to inaugurate most of our projects,” he said.

The minister said that more people-oriented projects were underway in the FCT and its satellite towns, stressing that more roads would be constructed and many schools renovated.

He added that the FCT istration would particularly do more to improve security in the territory. Wike commended residents for the so far and urged them to continue by taking ownership of the infrastructure being provided and protecting them from vandals.

“On our part, we will do everything we can to ensure that all facilities and infrastructure provided are protected,” Wike said. (NAN)

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Accept it or not, women are loyal to money.

Like play, even the good ones are going bad.

Money is the reason most women are in marriage.