NewStats: 3,264,942 , 8,185,158 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 09:38 PM 145w8

othermen:
Hehe.

What is she there to do really?

To warm the bench, to observe to what end? if not another means to rip and mismanage our resources further…

The allowance she and her entourage was paid though for attending is more than your annual salary.

You sound on weedd

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Brother, don't mind people that are ignorant of your write up but just want to to trashh to contribute.

If you love your wife, stand by her to be free from such spirit especially when she doesn't know she possessed it.

Find ore oke in osogbo for prayer where you guys can go for prayers...

I stood by my woman and God took total control of everything....

Don't be afraid, move closer to God with fasting and prayer then God will should you the way out.

I totally understand your writeup.

nwajesus12:
I pity you if you believe that your wife is the cause of your financial woes, I advise you to look for other things to venture into, networking doesn't really pay much and if you are really good in that, YouCan learn marketing. The world is now digital, desist from antiquated ways of thinking. It is not as if you had millions before you met her, it is just that your financial responsibility increased, rather than finding ways to increase income, you went on a voyage of sorcery consultations

You are ignorant of what he's saying...
It would be better that you shut up...

Do you think it's child's play?
Do you even know the Yoruba wordings he used in between?

You don't have an idea even little one at that to know what he's talking about. So pocket your words under your thigh and let people with such experience that really know what's talking about to talk.

Just that, it's not Godly I wish you fall into the exact things he's talking about or experiencing if not, I would have wish you fall into the hand of such one woman but I won't except if you wished yourself.

NyamiriFlathead:


https://www.sunnewsonline.com/afenifere-hits-buhari-over-trekking-from-lagos-to-ibadan-comment/

Maybe he's high

Worldlegend:
My friend is a serving corp member, she asked her pupil to draw human hand..

Checkout their performance below

The first one is her own
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I guess the teacher has seen the devil's hand before.

MufasaLion:
This your write-up would be better and interesting to read if you could have paragraphs, punctuation marks and correct the words you spelt wrongly.

Is that what you are looking for?

I guess you are no different or little different from the white guy the dude is talking about.

Oh sorry to you and your likes who liked and shared.

Kemistri4:
Can anyone on nairaland truthfully say he/she left the university a virgin?


Let's hear from you my people

Take a look at mentality.

Unfortunately, look at what the thought of Nigerians has been reduced to about going to the University...

Well, I know thousands.

Ok

HonNL:
No Apology, Forfeit All Certificates, JAMB Insists



SOURCE

Ignorant....

Then he should be able to write letter to all the persons he has offended and meet them one on one to plead for forgiveness even right from his from his primary school, the people he hissed at, insulted, wink bad eyes at etc one after the other if he can write jamb, I expect he writes everyone to to seek for forgiveness....

NOTE!
WHEN YOU ASK FOR FORGIVENESS FROM GOD GENUINELY FROM YOU HEART, GOD WILL FORGIVE. WE DONT NEED TO ALL WHAT THIS MAN IS DOING.

he should go and forfeit all he has gotten with the jamb including his job and the things he has used the money made from the jamb result, his certificate, house if he has built one etc

pretteemee:
I have been doing agribusiness for a long time now and I can confidently say that cucumber farming is one aspect of the Agric sector if done well.

I'd be sharing pictures of my cucumber farm here just to encourage intending farmer.

This is awesome I must say...

What a great harvest.

Someday I wish to go into cucumber farming but I have no knowledge of it.

I hope someday you can be of help and mentor on this.

SayAsSeen:
Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.

My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.


Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.

I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

If there is love and you are a God fearing n simple man, that's is nothing.

My sister usually does the same.
My brother's wife serves me before Thier husbands.

My wife serves them before me without telling her to do so.

In my opinion, it's nothing to raise issues from.

One person must be served first and one person would be served last.

What matters is love..

Toks2008:
How on earth did one man cope with a thousand women as wives as well as concubines..? Just imagine one man with a thousand of these wonderful creations of GOD in different colours and curves.

I have tried to fathom how he satisfied all of them sexually...


Anyone with an idea?

I think the best place to get the answer is to go ask him yourself oooo.

It's a discovery yet unattained.

I can help u with transportation.

Ok

Ok

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

I wonder where this people are getting Thier teaching from.

If God said, he that found a wife has obtain good thing and found a FAVOR from the Lord, so why won't there be happiness in it?

Most of this pastor only preach about what there are going through at home. Out of the abundant of the heart, the mouth speaks.

May God save Thier followers.

olatade:




http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/17/exclusive-nigeria-police-authorities-order-female-officers-married-civilians-vacate

Civilian calling another person civilians.

I only know armed forces.
Police is not categories in the force category.

There are civilians because the lack the real armed forces training.

officialmario:
A Nigerian lady known as Marrgarritah on Twitter has come out to narrate how she gave a Pastor a fake name as the name of her boyfriend only for the pastor to start seeing visions of the fake name that did not exist.
According to her tweet, she did it intentionally to test to the authenticity of the pastor’s prophecies who claimed he could see “visions” of the future. She said in her tweet:

“I giving a pastor a fake boyfriend’s name, and he suddenly ‘saw’ that his mother would be wicked to me. That i need to pray very well so she can like me.

“Asked my mother later why the pastor couldn’t “see” that I gave him a fake name,” she narrated.

Nigerians then came on to the comment section, having had similar encounters, to express their different experiences on the subject matter.

The pastor is not deceive but you decieved yourself. The pastor maybe right, he says what he say of the woman but it's left for you if you are deceiving him with wrong name or right name.

Try and give another man of God wrong name he will also tell you what he saw.

But the trust is, you don't deceive holy spirit.
Your case is synonymous the the case of Ananias and Sapphira, Acts 5:1-11.

I pray you dont fall in wrong hand except if the man of God is not called.

When it's completed, expect leg traffic, that will affect the roundabout especially Friday. The round about will now be the prayer ground where vehicle will be stopped

okrote4real:
BUSTED: Sponsor Of Pro-Buhari Protest In New York Identified As Businessman And All Progressives Congress Party Chieftain, Nasiru Danu



http://saharareporters.com/2021/09/27/busted-sponsor-pro-buhari-protest-new-york-identified-businessman-and-all-progressives

So easy to identified the sponsor over there not not easy to identified the sponsors of BH, kidnappers here in Nigeria

film3four:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3LZTtrb2jg



https://www.instagram.com/p/CThWnoZFrTz/?utm_medium=copy_link

Children of perdition and shows that encourage fornication, adaultry n prostitute.

To be a celebrity or be known doesn't require shows that encourage fornications.

Hard word, patience and persistence is just it which many African lackz.

Odewaleadesoye:


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debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

A home cannot experience God's love, favour plus blessing when the woman see herself as equal to the husband. There would always be conflicts and problems in the house. Two captain cannot control a ship.

It's your duty to attend your husband church because he's the lord of the house according to the word of God except if they worships different God beside God in heaven then don't follow Him.

From your write up, it shows that you are showing disrespect to the man as husband. You are not yourself as a woman God want her to raise a generation that will change situations.

When a man married a woman, the woman leaves everything behind just as Jesus Christ left everything behind in heaven.

And as he said, if you want to follow me, you must leave your father and mother and everything then you can follow me.

A woman must ready to leave something to follow the man God has given her.

Jesus is portraying this to a marriage where a woman would leave everything and follow the man in the way and fear of God.

Ephesians 5:22 - Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.

1 Peter 3:6 - 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to

Please, go back to reading of your bible and read what God expect a wife to do. If you cannot locate it from the bible, search the chapters and the verses online, it will help your home to experience the presence of God and rule by God Himself and you will be free of mockery, breaking home and your children would have peace.

If I may ask, assuming you are attending rccg, and your son or daughter say, I'm not going to the church you are worshiping in even under your roof, what would you say?

It's shows the house is not in accord.
Not united.

Please listen to your husband, then God can change him through your respect and submissive if he's hash or not doing the right thing as a man.

If you want your home to be free of devil's presence then don't see yourself as equal right as to the man.

Then if you are faithful to all mentioned above, that you are not feeling the spirit of God in where he's going to and it's sincere that you are saying the truth, them communicate with God that He should speak to your husband Himself and have Him God choose a church for you guys.

God bless you.

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and the monastery

Forgiveness is different, cheating and infidelity is different thing.

Which means u can also do same by visiting your ex to and expect your man to forgive you right?

If your man is involve in such act by going to the night in his ex gal place and perhaps pregnancy comes up, I guess you would forgive him.

And he will go ahead to marry the said gal and leave you stranded after the both family already approved your union.

I hope to see you forgive him.

Xscape1993:
What killed him then?

Handshake

It's another way and quick way to assassination

Typicool8:
Good afternoon nairalanders.i am a student fending for myself and i am a cross road on which business I can start with 20k in a student area.please any suggestion is welcome.

Buy shiba coin from binance now at 0.00000775 with 20k it will give you 5.2m shib.

Wait n pray by December it get to N1 each shib. You now have N5.2m

Thank me later

Fayose maybe right

Rehimusals:
Previous thread: https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/6558568/ordinary-president-slaps-woman-set

WATCH: @BreketeConnect Host, Ahmed Isah Caught In Another Assault Video Slapping Man He Accused Of ‘Writing Names Without His Permission’

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a91p5IrC1j4&feature=youtu.be
Source
Saharareporters Twitter Handle (@SaharaReporters)

This guy, I don't like how he talks n behaves to people.

omolola100:
Whenever an American citizen wake up in the morning, they will pray that God should bless America.

This country is turning to something else and i dont think Nigeria can ever balance again, my cousin who works in a private school got back home after the proprietress sacked her for asking the student to pray for the redemption of Nigeria, and also telling the student to observe a minute silence for the COAS and the military personnel that lost their life in the plane crash.

Is it a crime to pray for one's nation again?
The woman is an enemy of the nation for her to have rejected prayer for our dear nation.

Next time, if u want this type of thing to stop, and other not to replicate same action, mention the name of the school, n proprietress.

fergie001:


SOURCE

We can transport them to palestine to the hamas