NewStats: 3,265,151 , 8,185,803 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 04:20 PM 2z182h

Temitunz:
We’ve all been there those tough moments when things just don’t work out. Whether it was mutual, messy, or a quiet drift apart, every story is unique.

Was it lack of communication? Trust issues? Growing in different directions? Or something else entirely?

Share your story (if you’re comfortable) in the comments. You never know who might resonate with your experience or find comfort knowing they’re not alone. 🌟

Let’s keep it kind, ive, and judgment-free. 💬❤️

She sent to me on WhatsApp: You're not emotional, you're on survival mode that's why you said you have to be like this at this moment of your life which is understandable and why I don't want to try to change you.
You don't know how to be vulnerable around someone. You have to be taught how to be intimate (other than sex, and sometimes even during the sex you're somewhere else). You're hardly present in the moment, your mind is thinking of a million things and this means that you can spend an entire day with someone and they would feel lonely. You have to be taught how to love someone. You look down on me cause you feel like my world is butterflies and roses. You don't fight for love in anyway, it's like "whatever, just get over it already so we can go back to how we were", "I'm waiting for you to stop being angry so we can chill". I don't know what else to say.

I mean it, I don't think I want you anymore. I love you but.. I've crossed a line, some kind of line of endurance and I'm not going back. Maybe people are right, a man should love you more than you love him for it to work..not the other way around.

It's because women are easily gullible and susceptible to being swayed by lies and ephemeral things.

Olachase:
Wetin this man day wear for head like this

He should remove it na since the battle he's fighting for is now over

It's an Old German WW1 Helmet.
I don't know why he's wearing it, but it looks like a symbol of neocolonialism, like his white masters gave him their slaves helmet

Fenrir:


Learn what proto means

Common ancestors not us coming them

You said 250 languages not ethnicities

Your dialects are 774

Read books too not idiotic chat robots

And in all my other topics I've been saying 371 tribes without being asked 🖕

That's problem with the Internet every fucking idiot gets a voice and you listen to idiots over experts

Mate I'm dyslexic not stupid, I have phds in all your tribes, all your ethnicities, where all your tribes originate and what ones are cousin tribes the main 3, all your wedding traditions I can even tell you the real and only reason yoruba are supposed to prostrate at a wedding not the lie yoruba men tell today and you can what I say by going to a library in your country and picking up a book written by your people before the Internet and reading what they said about it you cannot the lie yoruba men tell today

Don't listen to robots

Oya tell us the book you read that said its 774 dialects let me go and read too. Drop the link asap, if you don't have the book online, you tell us where it is offline.

Fenrir:


Mate I'm Norwegian/Danish and Norwegian/Swedish but grew up in the UK

You people can't handle real banter and get offended by it

You don't seem to understand that no word is a bad word it's the context in which the word is use

Like cUnt that's an insult

But jammy cUnt is a compliment as it means your a lucky person

Calling shit means it's boring or it's idiotic

Calling shit hot means it's amazing

You people can't handle banter it's simple

Happy new year though

Lolz, we can never ever be offended by insults or ridicules, as a matter of we love the exchanges.
But I only started hurling abuses at you cos you called me an asshole. Check our previous chats, heck I was even on your side, but cos your sawdust brain thinks everyone replying you is attacking you..

But I like the banter, bring it on!

Fenrir:


Norse is proto germanic so norse came first mate They are cheap version of us

I have phds in your and you have 774 not 250

Please educate yourself on your own country before you judge others asshole

Pidgin is like pig Latin and it's broken English

Grow a brain

First of all it's 774 local government areas not languages you ass wipe.
We have over 250 tribes each with their different languages you Scandinavian Toad.

You must be feeling really good thinking you are schooling me about my own history, when you don't even know shit about yours.
. Proto norse developed from Old Germanic you Oaf, that's why your language sound like saw dust from a sawing machine.

Fenrir:


Only a little

Your languages break my brain

How on earth did someone think up those words anyway? Was he drunk at the time or something?

Lol, and you think Norse is easier, sounding like low budget German.

And also we have about 250 different languages tho, images all these various tongues contributing their parts to creating our national Pidgin language.

Fenrir:


Norway, Sweden and Denmark so white but mixed and living jolly old ikoyi

Nice, do you understand pidgin?

Fenrir:


It's a herb actually not a vegetable

Same as a tomato is a fruit because it grows on a vine

It drives me nuts every time someone here calls a tomato a vegetable

Well, it is what it is.
You sound like a very open minded person, where you from?

Fenrir:


Do some actual research on it you pleb, anti depressants do more damage

Would a doctor be allowed to give it to me on prescription in developed country with the American sue for everything attitude going around Europe now if it was dangerous?

Open your small mind little man

How can it be dangerous, it's literally a vegetable. Lolz

shortgun:

It is clear from your response that you are already exhibiting symptoms of marijuana addiction. I see disorientation, confusion, delusions, and psychosis.
Mr. Ignoramus better quit now because I am 100% certain you are unaware of the damage smoking marijuana does to your organs ode

Stop talking like an ignorant person. Marijuana is the secret key to connecting with the universe. Yes a lot of people abuse it, but in the hands of a Guru/Dibia, you can tap into the frequency of the universe broo. Stop dulling and start rolling

Fenrir:


From Norway but a Swedish family currently living in your jolly old country where weed is everywhere

Well mate, if you really wanna experience the true beauty and lifestyle of Nigeria, come to the East.
The carnivals are crazy af

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same , so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the was ed in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

Thunderfayamods:

So furniture and face mask are now achievements?

Yes, because they were all produced indegeinously from local materials and exported to other countries. This is exactly what other leaders should emulate. Industry and factories building

Thugnificent:
What is going on please?

The two sons of the bleaching King are now fighting for the kingdom as their dad is currently hospitalised abroad

Now take a look at what is going on in the church today

IgarigaItanda:
I learnt something from yo brr.!! But wdym "talk more ironically".?

Also for the Anxiety, you can use a stress or panic ball. It's basically like a cricket ball that is soft like foam that you can squeeze in your palm to transfer the tension and anxiety

Once you squeeze it take a deep breath and speak calmly

With time you'll develop a kind of different persona that you'll be using to talk to people in public.

id4sho:
Foolish man that recked our foreign reserves by pleasing scavengers governors

That man supervised the worst corruption in Nigeria.

Use your tongue to count your teeth. Ode

fredoooooo:
Bunch of cry babies .
You maltreat them .. they retaliate all of a sudden you all started crying ..
That's a country coming from war o , . ..
If truly we're serious and want the truth , the NFF officials involve should be answering questions by now but No .. everyone is crying

So because they are at war, they should extend wickedness to innocent footballers right?

budaatum:

To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.

Shey strong woman, go dey carry cement nau. Or do truck driving. Na only for online dem dey see una type, keyboard warriors and noise makers.

Mumu feminist, you say you are strong and independent, okay na go dey live alone with your Love Machine and vibrator.
Na still strong men build those toys, na still men go nak you

E be like say you follow them dey beg. I dey suspect you

Successtube:


We have no kids yet. I have asked her so many times what she uses her money for, but all I get is silence.

Ever thought of cloning her WhatsApp to see whom she's in communication with

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

Op, hustle very hard, buy motor and look for a female neighbor that also needs help and be dropping her off.

helinues:
Purely own goal.

Reelection would be so easy. That must be a proxy request from the state governors.

Can the LG oversight themselves?

If you read the post well, they said it's a Federal controlled agency that will be responsible for conducting the elections, so unless the Governors have Federal power, they cannot influence much

LegendHero:


Oh if it’s against Otti, it’s propaganda.

Against Tinubu, it’s patriotism.

You are very intelligent and Otti will be proud of you.

How are you able to see through Otti's veil of deception. I thought that his Media power is enough to create the smoke cloud he needs to quickly fool the state and elope with whatever he can lay his hands on.

ayjay45:
What’s the big deal? Why do people act like it’s a big deal.
Yoruba demon I Dey fuūck anything

You must be in secondary school

Domainer1999:

Coming from a broke ass niqqa hiding from palm credit. Better focus on your Tech and pay your loans and leave people who are rich and successful alone.

TotoIsGud4boy:
We have oil under the ground yet citizens queue for fuel.. very funny if you visualize it… you’ll see that we’re not really free from slavery… if you’re not benefiting from one Nigeria like me, you’re just a crash dummy in this whole western experiment.

Until you understand that even the oil in the ground has already been sold and mortgaged for many years.

That's why Dangote is literally importing crude oil.

EleventhWeirdo:


So you are an ip0bdient 0bid0g? Why were you now forming intellectual when we all know that collective hate-induced and tribalistically nourished brainlessness is you guys' modus operandum? Park well or gedifok!

It's very obvious that you are not in the IT sector or any other productive sector at all. Because all REAL IT people know the full implications of these evil and myopic policy.
But you are obviously a govt agent and keyboard warrior without pay.

So arguing with you on this sensitive topic is baseless because you probably don't know shit about anything.
And after you have finished doing your masters work on this thread, you'll most probably go to the next thread that literally has nothing to do with politics and start spewing political ipob and agbado jargon.

While meaningful Nigerians who have crossed the threshold of useless tribal and nepotistic politics will continue praying for the nation while fools like you will be receiving 500 Naira sub from your slave masters to continue spewing trash online