NewStats: 3,264,097 , 8,182,591 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 04:28 PM 4q1f2d

sum1 just told me my good friend bawomolo is dead, i said to myself, if this is a joke this chic better stop it ooo but lo and behold the story is for real. i am shocked beyond words and still can't fathom why this happened. i been away from NL for a very long time so i felt it is only right to come pay my last respect to one great guy who i argue with every time on the NBA threads. i pray that God kills all those that were involved in this wicked act and none related to any of these f00ls will know peace until they rat out their siblings involved. May God give bawomolo's family the strength to bear the lost.

mukina2:

^
you missed out on their special grammar lesson  show

after that show mamagee became a reformed poster

well only made one killer move https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/nigeria/topic-504268.96.html#msg6657524

mukina, u are a sinner! why u do mama-gee like this? i could believe it when i read her post, now my stomach hurts from laughing so hard, chei! u wicked no bi small.

mama-gee:

I don't get why Chelsea gets the weakest teams in the English Premier League in their group.

Why don't they try matching Chelsea up with Liverpool and Arsenal?

Instead of Stoke City and Wigan.

i just can't stop laughing oooo! 

Sagamite:

What is with this your fetish with homosexuals na?

Is it because I am a hot guy that you think guys must fancy me?

Gbeborun of Ibadan!

she lives in NY what did u expect">

@ TOH

u dey ignore me bah? dont make me go David on u ooo!

babaearly:

This is how forums can turn you from a respected man to a basic heediot.

You two should grow up!!!

Years back when i was interested in Thoniaslim, Davidylan blocked my way. Even Thonia was telling me David is already proposing "engagement" and all that. Now what has become of it? David tell me!

orimi oooo! things dey happen for this NL fa!

ThiefOfHearts:

*waka*

abeg tkb, come get your husband.

First gay marriage on NL

we have progressed

do u believe in love at first sight or do i have to walk u again?

OMO IBO:

LMAO . . . . .
PLUS

This thread was tactfully hidden by  **********   (you fill the gap)

I didn't even know this section existed. . . . . not like it matters but if this were any other person(s) this would be anywhere else but here.

i know right! placed under the section GENERAL-->WELCOME, u can't beat that! how else can we show new comers to NL what we do here than to introduce them to a glamorous NL VIP cat fight, ehn? the hypocrisies of these super mod(s) is disgusting to say the least


@ topic

can u two plz explain to me why u decided to come this low? Spikedcylinder, u are bigger than this and should not have allowed this to go this far, whatever magic wand u mods have please use it to delete this thread, it is making my stomach turn. on the bright side, it brought out TOH, the girl that stole my number and my fake heart(i kept the real one in the bank), maybe i will have an opportunity to get her this time

let me get this straight, when NL VIPs fight, super mods create threads for them but when commoners like me fight we get ban, right? hmmm, who ever said life was fair

rubi:

The topic is not about parenting rather about relationship b/w babes and guys re-read the topic very well

If you want tips on parenting open another thread

and here was i thinking that at least u will have some common sense to rethink ur choice of words, geez! i must learn to lower my expectations when it comes to NL

Inked_Nerd:

Eh ya. Ok, make you go shower and sleep. Kachifo

gnite dear, sweet dreams

Inked_Nerd:

I'm good and you?

same, just tired, really tired; need to head to the shower and then head to bed or else i will fall asleep on this laptop

Inked_Nerd:

^^^
Hehehe

never ceases to amaze me how nigerians twist english to fit their concept of a subject . btw, how did ur day go honey?

rubi:

There is a big difference b/w a man who is firm and a man who is strict women gets confused easily and needs a man who is firm

When  a man is firm he appears more like a leader
but when he is strict he appears more like he is psychological abusive or intimidating

so parents that are strict are psychologically abusive or intimidating, wetin english go do my ppl no man can tell sha

Inked_Nerd:

Ok, me too. We go talk tomorrow. Have a nice day at work

u 2 honey, gnite

Inked_Nerd:

This soup is nice, imela

u r welcome my dear, anything for u . i dey go sleep b4 i go late to work con tell my boss say na woman cause am

Inked_Nerd:

You wan make I kiss a stranger eh? Ok, say ahhhhhhhh for another bite

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Inked_Nerd:

Oya, say aaaahhhhhhhhh.

aaaaaahhhhhh, dont forget the kisses oooo

Inked_Nerd:

Aww, how nice of you not to put it on the same plate. Oya make we go chop. You wan make I feed you?

plzzzzz, let me stretch my legs while u feed me, btw i prefer kisses for dessert 

Inked_Nerd:

Ok, that sounds good. Will you me to eat this soup?

4 sure! with my isewu in another plate of course

Inked_Nerd:

Awww, sorry. I'm a vegetarian.

iyabasir's special vegetable soup?

Inked_Nerd:

lol, i don't eat ice cream. Got any alternatives?

deep fried southern chicken?

madlady:

You posed the question to me, I'm an adult if I hit someone I EXPECT to be hit back hence my cheesy face after my reply.

I still believe a guy should not hit a girl (bite me)but I won't argue with you, your ways correct for you and whomever agrees with you.

true! i just want to make sure u are one of those that agree with me

Inked_Nerd:

I know what you mean. I was referring to the whole "never hit a woman thing". I don't believe in it. If you have the balls to hit someone then you should expect that person to hit you back.

i owe u a cup of ice cream for such wonderful truth

davidylan:

firm is the word and i'm learning it too. Works quite well thus far.

ah David! i have a book u can buy, it will give u major tips on being firm on ur woman and it is not expensive self, in fact it is on sale for just $499.99. let me know when u want ur copy

Inked_Nerd:

Yupp, I agree but people always tell me that its not right

its not right for either party but if u dish be prepared to be served, it is only fair

madlady:

^^Well I strongly believe forgive and you will be forgiven. (whatever )

The guy may decide that to slap her back is the answer, "for with the same measure that you use,it will be measured back to you".

The poster said that "a guy should never lift his hand to a girl" he's 100% correct in that.

stop reading the queens james version of the bible! and the poster is wrong, if u are big enough to hit sum1, be ready to receive same

j4steady:

My co-worker told me something yesterday and since we are very close I felt I should help out.

  He met a lady through facebook and they communicated for some time and called each other.he even helped her put in applications to many fimrs that d vacancy.The babe,from what my co-worker told me,is some one that is looking for a seriouse relationship and he told her that he is not ready but the babe keeps cajoling him and giving him instances of relationships that did not start well but later became better.

   Last month he travlled to Lagos for his leave and on his way back to uyo he branched to see the lady in Edo who had been pleading with him to see her.From the converstaion my friend saved on yahoo and face book I found out my self that the lady is in Love with him even without seeing him in person.On several occasion she had sent love text messages and also most of their phone calls the guy recorded it and he played them to me.

  Now the problem is when he went to see her in benin he slept in the lady's house and they made love and in one of the process the condom got burst(from what my he told me) and he released inside.But after that he apologised to the lady and the lady went to the bathroom and washed immediately.

  He told me When he came back he told me everything that happened and later told the lady that he was sorry that as regards the relationship he cannot go ahead as he is not ready for one now.

  Just yesterday he called me and told me that the lady sent him an email which he forwarded to me this morning,

Please take a look


l have gotten another jobs and l have not seen my mentrationU don’t know l was not good enough for u before u came to edo, and l was not good enough when u makes luv to me countless time, that make me an expected mother and u an expected father.

      I asked u what u like about me, you said a lot of things and u re ready to take any action, if l get pregnant, well, is too late now, cos, u don’t have where to go. I might not be good for you, but l will be ok as the mother of your child. I promise u, l will look for u when l am strong enough. Because l have really try to terminate the pregnancy.

       I can see u choose partner because of physical appearance, then u will see there is no enough inner attraction to sustain us as they change. And they do change. One thing about life, if u lives long enough, it’s the great equalizer. The young become old, beautiful become average, if a relationship is based on edoysical attraction, what happened when physical body fades? And the burning flames become little more than a glow? True love is stronger than that and withstands the age of time. Infact, true love is like a fine wine, growing sweeter as it ages.

       U might think being a good lover is about being able to perform sexual feats with great skill and sensitivity that could be fine if we speak all of our lives in beds. A good partner is the one who stays when all other have walked away. That is why l choose u as my lover, u gave me hope when other have gone, l could have look at your incapability on bad,  know one day, u will perform more than enough. Because l have make a move to mentioned thing are normal.
       All l needed is a relationship that can protect me from the storm of life. I can not really blame you because everything about you is fresh and new.
       So my dear, this is all l have to say now, just call me and tell me how and where we re going to see concerning your unborn child, l know u will now allow the child to suffer what he did not know anything about, I gave you two week, if u didn’t make a move with the pics, l can locate u in two day. Do have a lovely day, I am not forcing myself on u, l have even forgotten you if not this.

   ABEG HE JUST ASK ME WHAT HE WOULD DO, ME I NO KNOW NA IM AKE ME BRING AM COME HERE PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE

so the bottom line of the story is that u got a woman pregnant, right? congratulations! this year's father's day has ed but don't worry, there will be another one next year

Madukaele:

am saying the same with my wify gooogles. if she said yes den i say yes. [size=48pt]gooooooooooglleeeeeeee i love u, dats what i do for love.[/size]
let me add something, d guy wan claim sharp guy, i go edo go fuk dat babe, his sharpness no reach d gurl own, lookin at d coversation on fone d babe get 110% ready to trap him and still he go fuk. yes condom may have burst but e fit b anoder man pikin, lets say d thing no hit target , d babe go arrange guy weh go sex am till she get belle. simple.

190, :

^^4christ sake whats wrong wif u

for 190 of all ppl to think that something is wrong with u, chei, ur own don baje no bi small!

madlady:

All guys should live by this adage.

and what if the woman slaps her man? i strongly believe in the bible, "give and it shall be given unto u. . . . ."

cito us:

I have been dating this girl for the last 2 years now and she is just the right girl for me. The only problem I have is that my family/friends are doing their damdest to hook me up with a Nigerian. Whenever the topic of my getting hooked up to her is brought up, they always have a Nigerian alternative for me to consider. This is grinding on my nerves full time.
Before u ask ,I grew up in Nigeria and most of those pressuring me live in Nigeria. I am going home to visit this year and am sure its gonna be a heck of a fight against them and their choice of women they will surely be presenting to me. What am I gonna do?

in case u need help, let me give u my mom's phone number so that she can talk common sense into ur folks head. my mom gave me only one criterion, "make sure she is a true christian", so if i marry an alien from jupiter she cares less

for today nigerian girl? heck no! with the things i have seen with the present day nigerian girl, i wouldn't even try it in my dreams. over 70% of them have their heads in the clouds and i am not ready for that kind of heart break, sorry. now in ur case, if u are dating sum1 for 10 yrs, i think u owe urself and her that much to at least help her in some way; 10 yrs no bi yam!

DaRapture:

Hey, I asked a question similar to this one, and folks came up with all the same ol bull carp stereotyping answers as seen in this thread. I'm AA and am married to an Nigerian girl, though she was born and raise her whole life here, and her sister is also married to an AA guy, as is one of her female cousins, but they all were born here and I think that is where the big difference lies in this situation.

A first generation African just does not evolve into American society as fast as the African men do, and thus feel less secure about getting involved with the unfamiliar. As for the second and and beyond generation of Africans here, well they were born and raised here and thus are generally, for the most part, assimilated into the greater AA conglomerate and thus connect with the AA better than the FOB.

bottom line, the 2nd and beyond generation of africans born and raised here don't know any better, point taken! thanks for sharing

librangyps:

Wat has marryin a virgin gt to do wit u hatin on us, my nt marryin a virgin is my choice,, Cos i dnt want an old man askin me silly questions, my sis married a virgin and she loves him dearly, bt d questns and inexperience I cnt stand.

just in case i missed it, u r free to choose not to marry a virgin but we don't have a choice when it comes to either hating or loving naija babes, correct?

Inked_Nerd:

I disagree, I definitely don't like being lied to. Its not a good feeling when you find out the truth, especially if you had to idea.

nobody ever said u were a woman!

ah! thnx for the info, let me call my folks and give them warning asap!