NewStats: 3,264,881 , 8,184,987 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 05:04 PM 4f2a15

Adakintroy:



You can make your point without resulting to insult and angry comment. Its what other pretending intellectuals do. Which kind of man advice daughter to be depended on men. I provide for my wife. Did any one advice me to do it or did his parents advice her to depend on me. Is that a bad commitment or good. There are things that tllt more towards natural order. Women can work but in a crude afrca deviod of technology. Men are already in the clear. Because of crude or raw strenght. You are asking too much from them to adopt the hard core strong independent mindset. Work hard yes..but if you are also kind humble and respectfull you will get the looking of men by way of assist. its not a bad option to keep.with regards survival. many women like the option in seceret. Its only in the open they talk tough.

Balderdash

Adakintroy:
All we do is copy. Even ideolgies that come naturally we still want to copy from the west. We not talking tech now. Just idea that is nexted in your own head you take someone else.

If you want to be independent strong woman you can. But you really have to be independent strong. It is attainable. However in an africa were men are desperately struggling. I will suggest you keep your backdoor open. As a woman it wont kill you to be respectfull and earn from men submmisively its not a bad option to have.

Caveman, there are a million and one ways to make money on the internet alone, that you’re poor and struggling is your business

It is men like you that advise your sisters and unborn daughters wrongly to become useless to society and depend on men, they will be insulted as they deserve for being as lazy as their brother. They will warm our son’s beds and become maids to our daughters

BeardedMeat:
Op didn't say you should give advice Juliet, he said tell us your experiences that others may learn.

Now, can you tell us your experiences or you want to send it tmy DM?

Woman wrapper. Everyone here is doing the same thing

Chinjo2:
So who is to blame?
He knew Buhari was grossly incompetent yet he installed him so he should clean the mess he himself created.

How did he install Buhari?

What are you people smoking?

Adex2442:


How many Benin boys u know

Uniben Grad, know at least 30

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Valuable because he’s rich? Lol

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

You will not stop so let her go before you infect her with something dangerous

OKOATA:
Probably a pit bull, people raising those dogs are only raising their death. I rather train a lion than train that demonic breed. I hope she survived cos she was still moving before the soldier guy shot it.

*Watched the video. It's not a Pitbull but a boerbull. First time seeing that dog do that. The girl will stay at the hospital for long.

Any dog is capable of aggression ; it is the owner jobs to train it

The last part of your comment has educated you a bit at least

Lekby25:


If truely you are innocent, it will show from your looks and conversation, in fact, na laugh you go dey laugh any time the issue comes up.
I expect you to have gone to see your parents privately to convince them that you are innocent. You can even invite the woman involved and her husband to come and testify to your innocence. Failure to do these will fuel suspicion from everyone

Hes not innocent

This is his cover up story, he posted here so he can show it as proof

Ilekokonit:


The guy no know say women no dey forgive and the wife may wait until 30 years or more before exacting her revenge.

I have a friend whose uncle used to knack all and sundry including his wife's junior sisters many years ago. The wife waited patiently for 30 years and when her husband went blind, she started bringing their butcher / meat seller into their house for knacking sessions since Baba could no longer see at that point.

I have another friend whose Mum waited until her husband was old - more than 80 years old and blind and whenever the poor blind old man went to wee, if he missed the toilet bowl, the wife - in her 70's will start wiping her blind old husband with koboko as punishment for missing the toilet bowl and when the neighbours hear the blind old man's screams, they will be forced to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from his wife's beatings and take him to the safety of one of his children's house.

The OP does not realise that the vulture is a patient bird and women no dey forgive or forget no matter how long ago the perceived hurt to their emotions happened.

LOL. No woman of this time is doing that again. Stay with you for what? When single men full everywhere

She will simply leave him and marry someone else or start sleeping around.

Whether he confesses or not, the marriage is over because she will never believe him and she will cheat when she goes back to that Lagos

Ilekokonit:


The guy no know say women no dey forgive and the wife may wait until 30 years or more before exacting her revenge.

I have a friend whose uncle used to knack all and sundry including his wife's junior sisters many years ago. The wife waited patiently for 30 years and when her husband went blind, she started bringing their butcher / meat seller into their house for knacking sessions since Baba could no longer see at that point.

I have another friend whose Mum waited until her husband was old - more than 80 years old and blind and whenever the poor blind old man went to wee, if he missed the toilet bowl, the wife - in her 70's will start wiping her blind old husband with koboko as punishment for missing the toilet bowl and when the neighbours hear the blind old man's screams, they will be forced to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from his wife's beatings and take him to the safety of one of his children's house.

The OP does not realise that the vulture is a patient bird and women no dey forgive or forget no matter how long ago the perceived hurt to their emotions happened.

ArcSEMPECJ:


Since you are on the safe side, bounce it and move on, wish we are close neighbors, let's have some cool bottles and proteins ....

But the next move is to bring the guy and the wife for a dinner like attention,.... to bring your Mum and Dad along since they are now involved, then break the news for them all ....and laugh it loud...

But for now, enjoy the Bollywood movie.....

’Men love peace’

Exhibit number 2

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PUMPIN11:


You are y typa guy bruv.....Since she had asked the relevant questions and you have answered "sincerely" but she somehow still believed what she wanted to believe, let the game continue......I am a tough player too, cos you won't sha go and it what you didn't do, but you see that "convinction" wey she want, she no go get am so freely.....leggo bro!

’Men like peace’


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shinaola21:
🌺

Very soon your wife will cut off your konji and we'll see the news here

Keep flowing with the drama you hear?
Your news go.soon be here

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Kobojunkie:
Reading through the OP and several other comments, you would almost think these individuals were talking of some Stewpid child they were raising or accommodating for selfish benefits. A woman worked really hard to build her career then chose to get married afterwards but here is the man she married essentially stating she would need to abandon all of her hard work for the sake of his dick. 🤔

After making her quit, he will later get resentful he has to fully cater for all her needs when the businesses fail because he wants 24hr attention, start calling her lazy down the line and fall for another career woman outside who lures him with gifts

It’s the Nigerian man script. Imagine wanting to strip a person of her job to send her to school and start a business for her like she is his kid because he wants more time for sex

A job she had before she met him. Demonic entity 😃

9jatriot:
If not that Obi was checked in his tracks, hoebidients wanted to cancel this guy's career this week.

Many of us woke up on Sunday to hoebidients opening many threads showing how security at the Vatican prevented Seyi, the son of Tinubu from shaking hands with the pope because according to protocol he wasn't scheduled to. Hard as Tinubu's ers attempted to downplay it, hoebidients will have none of it.

They did not see it as petty, neither did they consider it hatred, non did they it was not the most important thing for politicians to focus on. They also did not it would not reduce the price of garri or that Seyi was a private citizen.

As God will have it, another video Obi and hoebidients will wish they could delete came out, in that video, a Nigerian cardinal, who incidentally is from the same state as Obi, wanted to use the Nigerian way of intimidating people they consider lower status by attempting to smuggle Obi into the inner chamber. Note, that they also did not call this tribalism.

Well, to get into that section, he first had to past the Swiss guides, whose duty it is to ensure orderliness at the Vatican. With a smile on their face, but with firm resolve, they explained to the cardinal why Obi could not be allowed to enter into that vvip section.

Ordinarily, this would not have been news but it was a perfect clap back for the hypocrisy that Obi and his crew are known for. Now they are now running around, trying to downplay the significance. claiming that hatred, petty politics, not news worthy, etc. Why did they not all of these when Seyi was been dragged.

If FFF version is anything to believe, it seems BAT put in a word for Obi so that Obi had to the FG's entourage to even get access to the pictures we saw of him earlier when he was seen in pictures with Tinubu. What if Tinubu was as petty as he is and refused to grant him that access?

From what I have seen so far, God must really love Tinubu a lot, he has practically never allowed his enemies prevail over him.

Seyi is a young man, who seems to want to build a network now that his father is the president, while he may be excused for youthful exuberance, what can we attribute the attitude of Obi to always clamor trivial things just for the cameras?
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jubrilELsudan:

Get a life

EXPIRED VILLAGE ASHY

jubrilELsudan:
SHE'S SO ANNOYING

Get a life

deji17:

Go and preach your nonsense elsewhere. I'm not one of those that you can manipulate. I know Ibo land very well.

Abeg rest

deji17:
Only Yoruba practise this nonsense inclusivity. In South East you will see job adverts that only indigenes can apply for. How many Yorubas have benefited from free WAEC and jamb forms in South East? This inclusiveness is killing Yoruba gradually

Have you gone to an Igbo state to confirm your assertion? Or are just speaking from a place of your dislike for them?

These guys are extremely hateful but call others children of hate. It boggles my mind

nedekid:

I thought only me noticed that. Bros the lady was in college ie university! Abi is university education free in the US? Someone brings you all the way to the US, accommodates and feed, sponsors through the process to get ission into the University, likely over a disagreement you then report that she is using you as a domestic servant or slave.
This reminds me of the UK couple that decided to house a Ukrainian lady who fled the war in her country. The lady reported her host to the authorities claiming the wanted her to do houses chores and so were enslaving her. If you reside in a household is it not proper to contribute to its cleaning?
Omo, I have said it time and time again. Never assist anyone, if you have money chop it yourself, those people you think you are assisting will be the ones that come after your head at the slightest opportunity.

This should be shared everywhere

Bmaster:
same lame excuses you are dishing out here is the same lame excuses Eve gave.
so Adam made a mistake by trusting and obeying his LOVELY wife abi ?

He was supposed to obey his God. Did he not know he was not supposed to eat it? Did God tell him to obey his wife over God’s direct law? Is the serpent’s advise suppose to come before God’s command?

These are not excuses, that is the exact story. If you cannot read for it for yourself, stop chatting shit in ignorance and ask a pastor to give you insight. Nobody Dey follow you quarrel, piss off if you can’t read and comprehend