NewStats: 3,265,428 , 8,186,712 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 10:01 PM 5tj4f

Chram:
I write with Pains in my heart.
I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life.
I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.

I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.

So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings.
After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.

My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?

Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?

Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic , I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.

Marriagena scam!

Just get Amilodopine and vasoprine ready

Stay away from married women, I know what I'm saying

Uptown444:


Can you link me up?
I stay at Iyana ipaja

88/90, MURTALA MOHAMMED INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT ROAD, BESIDE MOBILE FILING STATION, STOP OVER HOTEL BUS-STOP, MAFOLUKU, LAGOS, OSHODI

You must have a sales experience

Do you have a sales experience
Ðo you know how to make your way around lagos?
Do you have a valid drivers licence?

A drink company based in ikj needs a van sales rep with accommodation

meobizy:
Like going to a farm to complain that pigs shouldn’t be eaten. Pigs are smarter than dogs. Why are they picked for the table instead?

Carry pig put for sitting room

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Diamond rings

Odafe360:
I posted a previous topic about my divorce with my wife and i got alot of advice on this platform which really encouraged & have me strength.
I'm really grateful for the nairaland community. The only issue i'm still battling with right now is how to move on, i'm trying everyday to forget the past, but the more i try, the more it's becoming fresh in my heart and the pains too. I won't lie to you it's difficult. Sincerely sometimes i cry and the thoughts of ending my life comes and goes. I don't drink, I don't smoke, neither do i womannize and worst of all i don't have much friends cos I'm more of an introvert.
A snippet of the entire problem is that most times we have an issue and she leaves the house, i've always been the one going to speak to her mum, plead and bring them back home, that's why whenever there's problem and she goes back to her mom's place, nobody from her family would me to even hear my side because I've become like a fool to them cos they know i'll still come. This last one that she left, we just had a little issue and she packed a her things and left. So many people not to go to her family house and beg this time around since i didn't send them packing. I swear guys, i've forgiven and tolerated what 90% of men won't forgive nor tolerate from her.

Please guys help a brother with more advice, how do i move on?

Come smoke loud with me, you will thank me later

RPG2020:
Lizard 🦎
Fly 💸
Ant 🐜

i missed them

I understand, I ve been there before

Guy repent! Too much of xvid

Nice move from the presidency. How can you employ a failure? I wish all other sector of the country can be scrutinized like this

GanagiBitrus:

Imagine if we had a National Lion's Den where criminals & corrupt Govt officials are fed alive to hungry Lions.

Nigeria for be Paradise on Earth.

You are not different from bokoharam

Walahi, if for the next 100years, tribal war no happen for Nigeria, come have my two balls

wiseone28:
Mum told me she had experience while growing up

Na everymums story na

Where una they see all this romantic relationship?

Answer is 4

/x+x=/8
/2x=/8
2x=8
X=4

ManirBK:
What's the value of x?

/x+x=/8
/2x=/8
2x=8
X=4